Girls like putting their heads on guys shoulders or chest because of security, so why mine?

[Anonymous]

A girl I used to like, We'll call her Lauren, wind up getting a boyfriend a year or two after I told her I liked her...but one day when Lauren was really tired, Lauren laid her head on me, and wound up falling asleep on me. Now, if she had a boyfriend, why did she choose to lay down on me...keep in mind, this is probably the most romantic thing a girl can do for a guy...guys understand more than girls, but yeah

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I should mention, we got in a fight and her, myself and my friends, don't talk to her much anymore

[BlueXGusherz]

She IS your friend after all. Well since you got into a fight I don't know now. But girls do that to practically anyone they trust. I did it once to a stranger but that's because I was sleepy and didn't pay attention lol. It was so awkward when I woke up because I was still on his shoulder. And then afterward him and his friend offered me food. Haha!

[Asker]

Now you know why you shouldn't do that, unless he means more to you

[BlueXGusherz]

Yeah I know but that time was just an accident. Normally I only do it if me and my guy friends are close. But by that point I consider them to be my brothers in a way.

[May31]

She probably really trusts you. I know it's a big move & all but...yeah...

[TheDigitalSaint]

She must have been tired and just needed to rest. Girls like resting on men they trust and don't realize how powerful a move that is. After all, it isn't every girl that falls asleep on your heartbeat. I'm going to chalk it up to you being a really trustworthy guy. She might even still like you as more than a friend, but its hard to say.

[TheDigitalSaint]

Update: Perhaps she wants to make amends? Resting on a guy that she fought with isn't a sign of someone still holding a grudge. It sounds like she is over it.

[Asker]

This was before we fought...and I already tried to say I'm sorry..she doesn't want to listen to me

[TheDigitalSaint]

Not really sure what you can do unless she approaches you and asks to put the past behind you. Either that or try to get a mutual friend to talk to her and let her know how you feel. That would be the only other option I can think of.

[moloz]

It's one of the most romantic, I have several "items" on my "list".

She might have felt comfortable, she _might_ like you or she just doesn't give a sh*t and does that to everyone.