Is my crush crushing back?

[Anonymous]

okay here's the thing...lately my crush...has been acting really weird around me...could it be that she is crushing on me back...the latest scenerio is this: she was on break...so I decided to join her...as I sit down, I leaned toward the wall...and what did you know? she mimic me! Lol...so we started talking and havin a good convo! I lean up...she lean up, I lean back to the wall she also did...so we were talking while looking at other coworkers, but I sense her lookin at me from the corner of my eyes...as I turned back to her...she look away immediately...i look away she look at me again...until I look back, she broke eye contact again!lol...shes very smiley and happy when we talk...then out of the blue she ask me were are we going tomorrow for lunch?! I wad like huh? so at first I was like I'm not goin...she joked idc if your not going! later on she ask, so tomorrow? I was like idk! then as we got off...i kinda joked to my boss tat I was gonna call in...she started laughin and say yeah...hes gonna be eating with me! I looked at her and she said jk! I was like wtf?! so the nxt day another coworker who is close to us both try to set us up for a date...we both new what's going on already...so the girl I like brought her friend...i wad by myself Because got setup by the coworker...its wAs actually great...we tAlked alot...kinda joked and all but it wasn't the same...she was talkative but no emotions...was it because of her friend? maybe she was shy around her friend? but we do text alot...so please help me people?! what do yall think?

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well we did went out for lunch but she brought her friend she wasn't herself tho

[Andijoy]

well I think that she probably likes you down deep, you just have to keep trying to get it to come out. I know that I am one of those girls that took a while to realize that I liked a guy...i felt horrible about it later making him wait that long but I would see if you could possibly get her out by herself. get her out of the work place and just hang out or go on a walk or something I think that would be a good way to start and see what she thinks. and make sure that there is no friend that comes this time! cause then she will act more naturally I'm sure.

That is good that you guys have good conversation that is a very good sign!

[Asker]

thats the thing...i know she has to have some sort of feelungs towards me mayb she just hiding it because every time we talk she can look me in the eyes shyly and smiling every time I talk to her she would always smile...and I know how she is naturally around me...maybe it was just her friend

[bubble_gumblonde]

I'm pretty sure that she took you not agreeing to lunch as a sign of disinterest. She definitely likes you and it was probably a bold move for her to ask you to lunch. When you didn't respond yes or no, she realized you probably didn't like her, hence bringing her friend as a buffer. If you like her, your best bet would be to ask her to lunch as a real date.

[bubble_gumblonde]

even still, by asking you to lunch it was probably her way of seeing if she could imagine something going on with you. It may be hard for her to reciprocate those feelings when she isn't sure herself. Asking her to lunch, or even a proper date would be a smart move and I'm willing to bet that she won't say no.

[Asker]

she knows I like her...she didn't let me pay for lunch because she says I'm always treating her to something lol...is tat good?

[bubble_gumblonde]

yes! and you should still insist :) Ask her out and let her know that it is a date.

[Asker]

its really hard to get her out! she's dedicated to school!

[bubble_gumblonde]

find out when she is free. Or just try anyways. If she is interested, she will find time :)

[Anonymous]

Again she likes you, Pick up a phone and tell her or text her. Just settle it once in for all, you will feel better you would have your answer and you can rest comfortably . Even if you gave her space her feelingsnever left.

[Asker]

she knows I like her...i assum she has bf...but never mention in front of me

[Opinion Owner]

What signs is she showing that she's crushing on you than I can determine alittle bit more.

[Asker]

she is super nervous around me, she can talk to anyone else fime but me its like she is shy...wen I talk to her she would always smile...she sometimes lean in to what I have to say...she always calling my name to do this or that when I'm not even on that station...she would often joke around with me with other coworket but smile and look away shyly and then eye contact again and then away again...she would do what I do...use my name in sentence etc

[Opinion Owner]

From what you described those are signs that she likes you, I believe the boyfriend could be the problem with her holding back. Look out for if she ever says that she misses you and hugs you a lot that means she likes you alot, If you still feel the same way and you are single go get your girl. But first make sure she doesn't want her man, You don't want her liking both of you.

[Asker]

i believe the boyfriend is the blockage! he lives out of town and he rarely come visit...she always go to wherw he is because her fam livea there too...but I always telk her to check out her ca before she goes...she knows I care and I know she cares bout me too...i have gotten her to go buy any muscle milk twice lol...i do workout too

[Asker]

im assuming I'm slowly winning her over, right? or help me out...wat do I need to do

[Opinion Owner]

Get her to dance with you , On a grinding song lol if she likes you it will show . But make sure it's not in a area where a lot of people are around , She might get nervous. Trust me the right song will break the ice, That's the best advice I can give you.

[cutebubble]

yeah from the body language, seems like she likes you. well maybe she's embarrassed when she is with her friend, try to be alone with her again.

[Asker]

tats what I thought...oh yea her friend also just got hired with us

[Choc-minti]

She's totally either crushing on you or she has a random tropical disease.

[Anonymous]

She was trying to give you hints to ask her out MEN!, Yes she likes you

[Asker]

she know I like her and we talked bout it but wen I gave her space...i felt as if its her who is now crushing on me why is tat

[Amanda345]

I think she likes you. It could be the way she flirts. You should have said yes when she asked you for lunch . You should ask her on a date soon.

[Asker]

she knows I would always say yes...maybe she's not comfy with just only me yet...this is actually the second time we went to eat with a third person lol

[Amanda345]

Jajaja this is cute :) You should go on a date just with her. I sure everything will be alright for her.

[Andijoy]

lol alright then maybe you just need to let her get used to that first seeing you that way :)

[Asker]

i was planning on asking her to titanic 3d wen it comes out on wed...shes been waitin forever...on the first date at dennys I remember her exact words...my other cowprker told her aww he (me) will take u...she goes by then he be broke lol

[Amanda345]

Yes that is a good idea, so when she will be sad you will be there to comfort her :)

[Asker]

we will find out her answer

[Asker]

oh yea by the way we text most of the time...i always hav to initiate text first...n ialways text gnight mostly every night? is this gwd

[Amanda345]

Well if she answers your text than it is good. And she would not wish you good night if she did not like you.

[Asker]

its just so insane right now lol