The best way to meet them is through friends and family. Many of them aren't actively searching for people in the "meat market" aka bar scene. So they're out doing things for the people they care about, going to school, voluneering, doing their hobbies, etc. So, do your hobbies and tell friends and family what kind of girl you're looking for. Even party girls have a few "good" friends most of the time.
Hmm...maybe consider doing some volunteer work or joining a group that does an activity you like a lot. Widening your network will help you in many avenues -- socially, professionally and romantically.
I'm in the same boat... looking for a good guy. -_- Seems like every guy who goes after me these days just wants to "corrupt" me. I don't drink, drugs, smoke, have sex, etc. It'd be nice to find a guy who's the same!
Yea I feel like everyone in the world just wants to get fked up. I like to party hang out with friends and do fun stuff but god damn why does everything have to resort to getting f***ed up all the time. I like to have sober and then when the moments right or I'm with the right people I want to drink sometimes or try something new but I just don't understand what the big deal is with getting drunk or being on drugs. I'd rather be sober and actually remember what happend.
i suggest art class, when I'm in my art classes the mejority is female and there all usually very nice :) plus I think the artistic outlit is very healthy and helps these girls be better people, its good to express yourself ^.^
I think the girls should provide the guys with pictures of so called "good girls" and guys should do the same for girl. Attraction is important in all relationships and I find that many girls and guys who claim to be "nice"or "good" people are compensating for their lack of physical attraction. I'm not talking average, but below average people.
well man,maybe you haven't notice this but all girls are followers and wannabes. and thanks to Jersey Shore and all these corney mtv shows everything you just mention is what chicks will do no matter what. don't take this personal but I suggest you step your game up and try to get a chick and try to control her on these types of this. in other words, stop being so shy! I mean you might not have any control over it but at least try your best and be a soldier
Hmmm I don't see why you need to control a witless wannabe when you can go for a convention nerd, a sub culture girl or a goth instead. We don't fallow the mainstream media. It's a bunch of bull.
i wish I could find a convention nerd or sub culture girl, do they even exist? and you guys don't follow the mainstream ey? well that's what they all say, being the hypocryt they always are. you guys can't control your instincts can't yous?
Me! I don't drink at all, I don't smoke, no tattoos, and at 19 I have only had one boyfriend who was also my first kiss (at 18). I'm pretty shy as well. I mostly hang out around my school's campus or with one or two friends. I try not to draw too much attention to myself.
Um at church? ha ha just kidding, but really though. I'm one of those girls, I don't sleep around but I admit I like to drink and have a good time once in a while so you're gonna have to compromise sometimes if the girl is worth it
Those women are either ugly or their the kind of women that go for guys that look more feminine than masculine. And they want the kind of guy they can brag about to their friends because they're very vain.
I consider myself a good girl even though I drink...but I guess not good enough. its funny cause guys usually want nothing to do with me because I'm a good girl.
Or maybe they're like this guy and they're shy! You'd be surprised how many good people there are out there. We're all just degraded for our best traits, and it makes us afraid to enter the game.
So all that's left are hot jerks hitting on hot sluts, and a bunch of real people living a real life outside of the brothel, wondering why no one is choosing them.
I'm a shy cuddly guy, a little too shy for my own good. So I don't even know how to start making friends to figure out where girls like you are, let alone ask anyone out.
Well I spend a lot of time at the library, shopping, going for walks, and at home on the internet lol. I don't have many friends so I am usually alone most of the time. I guess just look for girls who are alone or seem shy and modest. Just start by getting to know the girl. Then at the end of the conversation either get her number so you can text her or arrange to hang out sometime. I also know a lot of people who meet on Facebook. You can try to make guy friends too so they can help you out.
Gym, coffee shops, book stores, art galleries, parks. etc.
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I don't drink nor do I sleep around, why can't I find a good guy like you? good grief, well I don't know where you can find good girls, good luck though
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Its funny cause I'm a good girl but not to good ill go to a party and be a designated driver and I'm not shy or quite but I get straight As definitely don't sleeparound. I'm wondering the opposite were all the nice guys:)
I'm 22, only slept with one girl... have some motivational issues but I generally do OK in my classes without studying or doing my hw. I don't drink or go to parties.
I plan on going to a cafe on campus on Tuesdays and Thursdays to see if I can spot any cute girls sitting alone to talk with. and I'm going to be going to the parks around town too.
Where will you be in the summer time and where do you hang out when classes are in session (if you are a student)
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The best way to meet them is through friends and family. Many of them aren't actively searching for people in the "meat market" aka bar scene. So they're out doing things for the people they care about, going to school, voluneering, doing their hobbies, etc. So, do your hobbies and tell friends and family what kind of girl you're looking for. Even party girls have a few "good" friends most of the time.
I don't have very many friends, go to parties, and don't have good connections with my family, that's the whole problem that I have. :(
Hmm...maybe consider doing some volunteer work or joining a group that does an activity you like a lot. Widening your network will help you in many avenues -- socially, professionally and romantically.
I agree, they are not in the "meat market". They are normally found in the places where your hobbies are.
I'm in the same boat... looking for a good guy. -_- Seems like every guy who goes after me these days just wants to "corrupt" me. I don't drink, drugs, smoke, have sex, etc. It'd be nice to find a guy who's the same!
Stick to your guns, m'am! Don't give in!
Yea I feel like everyone in the world just wants to get fked up. I like to party hang out with friends and do fun stuff but god damn why does everything have to resort to getting f***ed up all the time. I like to have sober and then when the moments right or I'm with the right people I want to drink sometimes or try something new but I just don't understand what the big deal is with getting drunk or being on drugs. I'd rather be sober and actually remember what happend.
i suggest art class, when I'm in my art classes the mejority is female and there all usually very nice :) plus I think the artistic outlit is very healthy and helps these girls be better people, its good to express yourself ^.^
I agree with this :) I love to paint and I applied for art collge and got accepted but later rejected their offer. its a great outlet though .
I think the girls should provide the guys with pictures of so called "good girls" and guys should do the same for girl. Attraction is important in all relationships and I find that many girls and guys who claim to be "nice"or "good" people are compensating for their lack of physical attraction. I'm not talking average, but below average people.
well man,maybe you haven't notice this but all girls are followers and wannabes. and thanks to Jersey Shore and all these corney mtv shows everything you just mention is what chicks will do no matter what. don't take this personal but I suggest you step your game up and try to get a chick and try to control her on these types of this. in other words, stop being so shy! I mean you might not have any control over it but at least try your best and be a soldier
on these types of things*
Hmmm I don't see why you need to control a witless wannabe when you can go for a convention nerd, a sub culture girl or a goth instead. We don't fallow the mainstream media. It's a bunch of bull.
i wish I could find a convention nerd or sub culture girl, do they even exist? and you guys don't follow the mainstream ey? well that's what they all say, being the hypocryt they always are. you guys can't control your instincts can't yous?
Me! I don't drink at all, I don't smoke, no tattoos, and at 19 I have only had one boyfriend who was also my first kiss (at 18). I'm pretty shy as well. I mostly hang out around my school's campus or with one or two friends. I try not to draw too much attention to myself.
Um at church? ha ha just kidding, but really though. I'm one of those girls, I don't sleep around but I admit I like to drink and have a good time once in a while so you're gonna have to compromise sometimes if the girl is worth it
Those women are either ugly or their the kind of women that go for guys that look more feminine than masculine. And they want the kind of guy they can brag about to their friends because they're very vain.
So you're saying because I don't sleep around that I must be ugly?
Ik seriously
Yes.
They're everywhere. :]
Sad thing is that you can't read everyone's mind and find out who is one instantly.
Instead you just have to keep meeting people till you find some.
But rest assure that there are definitely "good girls" out there. :]
I consider myself a good girl even though I drink...but I guess not good enough. its funny cause guys usually want nothing to do with me because I'm a good girl.
Or maybe they're like this guy and they're shy! You'd be surprised how many good people there are out there. We're all just degraded for our best traits, and it makes us afraid to enter the game.
So all that's left are hot jerks hitting on hot sluts, and a bunch of real people living a real life outside of the brothel, wondering why no one is choosing them.
I'm a good girl but it seems like that's a huge turn off for most guys.
I'm a shy cuddly guy, a little too shy for my own good. So I don't even know how to start making friends to figure out where girls like you are, let alone ask anyone out.
Well I spend a lot of time at the library, shopping, going for walks, and at home on the internet lol. I don't have many friends so I am usually alone most of the time. I guess just look for girls who are alone or seem shy and modest. Just start by getting to know the girl. Then at the end of the conversation either get her number so you can text her or arrange to hang out sometime. I also know a lot of people who meet on Facebook. You can try to make guy friends too so they can help you out.
Its only a turn off for the guys that just want some p****
Honestly, I've met more "bad" girls who don't drink but still sleep around. They frequent churches.
lol in a weird way this is sort of true , just goes to show , not every church goer is well " a good girl�
Amen.
They're all over the place. They're easy to spot.
But they don't put out, so that may be a bit of a problem.
word.
Amen! You haven't found this kind of girls because we don't try to stand out and wh*re around.
I know what you mean, all the good girls are either lesbian or married...
Where are all the good guys like you? One good girl is right here
I don't srink nor smoke; workout everyday twice a day; love to work; in school pursuing a career in medical; jsut got out the military
Gym, coffee shops, book stores, art galleries, parks. etc.
I don't drink nor do I sleep around, why can't I find a good guy like you? good grief, well I don't know where you can find good girls, good luck though
Its funny cause I'm a good girl but not to good ill go to a party and be a designated driver and I'm not shy or quite but I get straight As definitely don't sleeparound. I'm wondering the opposite were all the nice guys:)
I'm 22, only slept with one girl... have some motivational issues but I generally do OK in my classes without studying or doing my hw. I don't drink or go to parties.
I plan on going to a cafe on campus on Tuesdays and Thursdays to see if I can spot any cute girls sitting alone to talk with. and I'm going to be going to the parks around town too.
Where will you be in the summer time and where do you hang out when classes are in session (if you are a student)
Im always hanging out with friends and when I'm not with them I like to go sketch in the park
um sorry but you just described me... I don't do any of that and neither do most of my friends.
Well I'm a virgin , I want a serious relationship . Looking for a good guy .
Dont worry you will find someone.