So where are the good girls?

Question

Girls kept asking where the good men are. OK, fair enough. Now I'm asking where the good girls are? Did i miss them? Have I not detected them? Have I not found them? Did they slip away? Have i missed my chances unknowingly? Are they hiding?

The only good girls I know are already taken or married. The good girls, that don't cheat and love their partner and care for him.

zeitgeist057 · Accepted Answer

Good girls are all over the place, they are literally everywhere. I am in nursing school and I think almost every woman in my cohort I would call a "good girl". Most of my family members, and my friends. I meet good girls all the time at school or just out and about.

There are also a fair number of women who are lost or imbalanced, and no one is perfect. But I think that if you treat women (and people in general) well, most will "rise" to your treatment and expectations. I've learned in life and also in my work experiences that everyone is dynamic and no one exists in a bubble. They will react to your energy and they way you treat them. If you want a "good girl" then treat them all like they are good girls, and more of them will become this way, at least towards you. I've had plenty of relationships where all she needed was some love and attention in order to blossom and grow. It's like gardening: if you don't put any effort in, you're not going to get anything especially wonderful back. But with nurturing and care, you can help others by providing the support a human being needs to flourish.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

In the Orgasmosphere.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Some of them don't leave their house, me included. They aren't going out and about trying to date a bunch of dudes and/or trying to do a ton of exciting things. At least that's me because I'm an introvert and I prefer to stay home and do things at home. I'm always cooking or doing something at home anyway. When I cook, I usually cook something intricate that takes hours. Like for example, when I make dinner for my family (I'm not married by the way I take care of my parents because they're older) I make a three course meal, soup and salad, entre, dessert. Sometimes that can take a long time to make depending on what I choose to make. I usually do that everyday. Not sure if you'd consider me a good girl lol but I consider myself one.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

They are at: Church Museum School Library Park on a bench reading a book Not at a club/party.

razelove · Answer

Maybe look outside the US, or at 2nd gen immigrants. My first marriage was a dumpster fire of diapers and hot wet garbage. Dating again after that in the high speed internet and post "MySpace" age was running through women like throwing a hotdog down a fractal pattern well.

I was getting pretty resigned into just NSA and ONS when I met my wife. Like part of why I went to college was a last ditch effort at finding someone, rather than going casual or doing disaster work on a global scale to just... go.

You'd have to look pretty young, or old to find a woman who is earnestly looking for marriage in the west. I mean, if you aren't 6'2", confident and pushing 6 figures. But then there would be no reason whatsoever to ask something like this...

List the values that are important to you, objectively what you bring to the table, and where you're likely to find what you're looking for. Like whether that's at Waffle House, Costa Rica, or what have you.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Good girls are good guys are everywhere. Perhaps you don't know how to look for them, or you don't recognize them when you see them.

Massageman · Answer

In the churches helping feed the homeless, not in the bars drinking themselves under the table.(20)

In the food stores trying to stretch their food budget yet still have healthy meals for their kids and husbands, not sleeping around to "earn" the money. (14)

She may even have a side job to help make ends meet in her household. (13-19)

Teaching their kids how to read, write, and do math, since the government is failing to do so, content to waste time with government-mandated stat-keeping. (26-28)

ref Prov 31: 10-31

mobiusforniner · Answer

Outside of moms basement. Want quality? work for it. It means putting yourself out there, getting rejected, learning and building yourself up. Quality women dont exist in easy avenues like crummy bars or online websites. If thats your idea of where to meet someone, you'll only have the perception that those women are representative of all. Thats simply not the case.

most all women I've dated were solid, good quality women. NONE were met in a bar or via some online website.

TooHot2Care · Answer

If you have to tell people you're a good person because you have actually taken a look at how you carry yourself and your values and say "what am I chopped liver?"

Then you haven't been verbally abused or gaslit into thinking you are a piece of shit by bitter people with nothing better to do.

Just keep doing you.

lightbulb27 · Answer

seems that way at your age... but there's plenty. they are hiding in cultures not as exposed to the garbage west media.

Wraith_Cemetery · Answer

Just here to watch all the "I'm a good girl" comments from the women. LOL. Nobody will ever admit they aren't one. Women love ranking themselves higher than they actually are.

richardcory · Answer

There are lots of good women out there, and some are looking for good men. If you are a good man, how would they know and where would they find you

PurpleiPad · Answer

You might be wookin pa nub in all the wong places.

exitseven · Answer

I went to college part time at night for many years. I met quite a few girls that were attractive and nice. They were definitely girlfriend material. Too bad I was married by then.

Adam1978 · Answer

In the shadow of a good father probably, you probably don't have the balls to approach her or stand up against his screening.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

''Good'' girls lack some 'badness'. So I guess they lock themselves up and wait for the ''Right'' ''One'' to look somewhere where he cannot see them?

DextroShade · Answer

Good girls get scooped up quick, it's the modern feminist hoes who are left on the streets. Many men who are able are going overseas where feminism isn't as prevalent to find suitable wives because most modern Western women are trash.

NamerOfStars · Answer

They're with the good guys that so many women are looking for.

InsecureLivesMatter · Answer

Girls are like conservatives. There are good ones, but the bad ones far outweigh the good. Girls are to party animals and jezebels as conservatives are to conspiracy theorists and hardcore MAGA "Trump shall never do any wrong".

Anonymous · Answer

Their not at feminist rallies. Their not a alphabet rallies either (and I’m serious about that). That’s for sure.

virtualwasp · Answer

no idea, i try to be nice but ii wouldn't say im good

jshm2 · Answer

They are hiding behind the bad girls. Mainly to hide from you.

Meropatrick · Answer

Actually good people are becoming less and less in this world

Anonymous · Answer

Hunting unicorns.

Even the taken and married ones cheat or constantly look for new male sexual attention.
The entitlement, lack of dignity, and desperate desire for cheap sexual attention from men, is almost guaranteed.

monghjay2 · Answer

are their any good women? you want the truth based off the stats not really based off my numbers less then 10% of women are worth dating

genericname85 · Answer

entirely depends on your subjective interpretation of what "good woman" means.

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

Somewhere being good. The rest are available for purchase through some financial or mental burden though!

Raaj4you · Answer

I don't know. Where have all good girls gone? Perhaps, there are no good girls. I am unable to find one for me.

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

If good girls are gone, then who am I?

lorenzomichael · Answer

There all hanging out having fun with all the badboys. I thought you knew?

Christoff92 · Answer

Good girls 🤔 Look at their honesty and personal traits much more. Pretty face nice body is a bonus.

mommymommymommy · Answer

Typically they're the "girl next door" type

Cheerfull009 · Answer

In every country, there are good and bad girls, if you are good, you will get good girl, otherwise you will get Slut

Twalli · Answer

The good girls are with the good guys and vice versa. Opposites don't attract in this case.

Anonymous · Answer

Right here. But ever guy I’ve met never appreciated it.

WanderingLoveWizard · Answer

I'm a good girl, daddy 😘

Lowiu · Answer

Well at home with my bf😅

SassyAussieAddy · Answer

What is a good girl to you?

drummerdude25 · Answer

If you find out, let me know… lol

slatyb · Answer

They are all around you.

SarahNandez · Answer

I consider myself a good girl ✌

Anonymous · Answer

Very few still exist.

Izzy_3991 · Answer

Right here 👋🏻

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

9 out of 10 times they are with the good guys.

Reorx · Answer

Well guarded by their families.

Anonymous · Answer

They are abroad.

MementoMori777 · Answer

not here homie 😂

gothbxtch · Answer

all over.

Jazzy54 · Answer

Present. 😊✋🏽

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Married

LiamJHayden · Answer

Everywhere.

So where are the good girls?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

So where are the good girls?

Most Helpful Opinions

What Girls & Guys Said

We're glad to see you liked this post.