How to handle lack of attention from girlfriend?

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Well, she's been acting pretty distant lately. Not texting me as much as she used to, and taking ages to reply even while posting on Facebook and commenting on my own statuses before she picks up her phone. She didn't use to do that. I brought up her being distant, and she assured me she was just really tired and busy, and she of course still loves me.

Point being, even after bringing up to her the lack of attention, she hasn't changed. People would say I am being clingy, but she has a double standard. If, in return, I don't reply after 20 minutes she sends me another message to get my attention. So I have to wait for her replies, yet I can't wait to reply to her. It makes me annoyed.

I'm just considering how to fix this. I love her, I want to be with her, but I want to put it through her head not to take me for granted. I'm considering backing off a bit, sending more less enthusiastic texts and withdrawing from asking her to hang out and putting it in her field(as she typically invites me over every day).

I don't want to lose her, and I hope that plan doesn't do that. I just don't know what else to do but to say something about it(however, that will come out as being clingy and I don't want to do that.)

Any tips?
How to handle lack of attention from girlfriend?
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