I asked her out for coffee, and she said yes?

[Anonymous]

Like would you say "yes" if you didn't like the guy ?

[rachel05]

no.. I'[d have to at least be curious about him, if he had a personality I didn't like I wouldn't get coffee with him.. I would tolerate being near him, not wanna go hang with him.. so I'd say yes if I liked or was curious about him.

[Asker]

Yup. Something like that.

And this person is stubborn(lol) but so very sweet and gentle with everybody she meets.

[rachel05]

cool :) well best of luck man!

[Smokeytaboo]

I would say yes even if I didn't like him in that way yet just to give him a chance and get to know him. Just observe how she acts and what vibes you're getting during the coffee and if it seems like she wants to hang out again.

[Asker]

I reallly like your answer.

[XoAngelicXo12]

If he's nice guy, I'd take a chance with him if I didn't have feelings for anyone else at that moment.

[Asker]

Emotions are what attracts us to that girl or guy.

Do you think sexual(not saying that's the only one)energy is involved in a lot of that time ?

I say yes.

[curiouschica]

I think she likes you on some level. She could easily have said no.

[Asker]

Any ways to find out if she does(through sms and fb) ?

[curiouschica]

I think that just takes time! See how the "date" goes!

[vmw2008]

Yes, coffee seems like a friend outing to me. I'd go if I thought he was nice in a friend way.

[Asker]

Any ways for me to find out before my coffie with her that might tell she likes me more then just friends?

[vmw2008]

I suppose you could ask her whether it's a date or not?

[Asker]

I should tell her that I'm interested in her, like in more than just friends and that if she does not have the same feelings, she does not have to go out with me.

[vmw2008]

She may not know whether she has those feelings yet. That's kind of what a first date is for.

[Lou_Sanis]

I wouldn't be too excited yet unless you happen to live in San Andreas.

[upsyndrome]

I like your style.

[Asker]

I don't think this person would say yes and even oick a place where they have vegeterian food(She knows I'm interested in that)..

I got more to. I wouldent ask this (?) if not close but wonder the signs. becasue this girl is older then me.

[Asker]

Pick*

[Anonymous]

It could be as a friend also but that's just me.

[Asker]

I Agree. That & this is what makes me wonder. You must know. She just broke up with her boyfriend and I with my girlfriend. So after I asked her out. I noticed on her f..book wall she puts out links assosciating with "sex". Don't know if that means anything.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah she's probably just be Intrested in a "good time" as in sex

[Asker]

Maybe I should tell her before our meeting that "I have an interest in her more than just friends" as in sex.

I will alsow tell her that if she's is not interested like that(?), we then don't have to go out for coffie.

It really does seem as if is she's after some "fair exchange". We both are interested in spirituality, corn circles etc so not short in words when have to speak and use my mind, lol.