She asked me on a date?

[Anonymous]

Ok so i'm 17, this girl who is 18 just asked me on a date, basically.

i met her online, she lives in my area, there's an event held in our area once a year where they light fireworks, we already had it this year.
She asked me to go with her next year, we are in an online relationship, she wants to meet me at the event next year.

It sounds like a good plan but i'm so shy, i've never had a girlfriend & she's older than i am..
I'm 17 ... i'm still practically used to being babyfied by my mom...
she contacted me & i said i would put myself out there more... & try it out

"She's not some predator, no predator would wait a year to meet someone"
& i have her number
although we may meet up before then, she lives across a bridge, it's not far... but i can't drive so its not like i can just come over.

Should i go through with this?

Yes go through with it

No, stop

results.

[GaBQjason]

maybe do some face time with her to get use to her and interact with her not by text. that will help you build some confidence with yourself and help calm you down before meeting her face to face.

[Asker]

yeah i've thought about that but i would probably be too shy & run out of things to say..
i don't want this to happen when we actually meet up

[GaBQjason]

just find common ground that you two enjoy talking together

[Tom_Anderson]

Be careful, play it cautiously. And make sure you meet somewhere public like a restraunt or a park with a lot of people.

[Asker]

The first place i plan on meeting her is in public and my mom won't let me go without going with me

[Tom_Anderson]

Yeah make sure your with someone in case something goes wrong.

[Anonymous]

Sure, go for it.

[Anonymous]

You's aren't waiting a year. Either meet up earlier or you's both move on.

[Asker]

its probably better to wait

[Opinion Owner]

It won't happen if you wait that long