How can I convince my girlfriend to marry me?

[yousif]

Hay Every buddy

actually I'm in love with my girlfriend and she love me too, and I want to marry her because I'm afraid from breaking down our relationship because there are a lot of problem between us cause both of us are nervous.

so what I should do to convince her to accept my request to marry her.because when I asked her in the last time she said not now may be in the next year..i feel so sad.i really want her..

[relationshipDNA]

The last thing you want to do is get married when you're having problems.Thats not what marriage is for. She's probably well aware of your issues and understands that marriage won't make things better.

Before anyone gets married, you should have mastered and gotten over most of your issues. Marriage will only exacerbate your problems, times 10.

You should be worried, girls typically dream for the day they'll trudge down the aisle. If she's saying, no wait...I think it would behoove you to pull the reigns on trying to "convince" her to marry you. No one should be convinced to get married. It's a bad way to start. Just work on making the relationship better if you can, or else you might end up with a runner.

Good luck!

[yousif]

thank you so mach...you opinion is amazing

[Anonymous]

Okay #1 you can't "convince" her. You asked and that's all you can do.

#2 even if you could convince her, wouldn't that be less special than if she decided to say yes on her own without any persuasion?

Finally, dude, "i really want her"? You're already with her! If you're in love with each other and plan on being together forever, there shouldn't be a big hurry to get married. Marriage will also not fix your relationship problems.

[Izzy2102]

getting married won't slove any problems or what kind of problems are you talking about?

There is nothing you can do to convince her,she has to want it too, she shouldn't have to be convinced

[Izzy2102]

maybe you could find out why she said not yet the last time and talk to her about it

[yousif]

i'm talking about trust problems and she have strong personality and she don't believe every things from what I say...so after marriage I'm sure she will change...

[Moloch]

Don't convince her. You should never have to convince someone to marry you, it's either they want to or don't want to.

[yousif]

the talking is so easy buddy..but I don't think to lose her at all...

[TessAshwin]

are you obsessed about her ?

[TessAshwin]

If you guys are nervous and not strong enough , Am not sure how long will the marriage last ? I don't mean to offend you though.