He likes me but I don't like him anymore?

[Anonymous]

Before this I liked him A LOT and so did he!

Well we hang out everyday, Skype and talk online every-night and I really liked it, I lead him on A LOT and so did he.

But this one time he became far too clingy and annoying since he always wanted to be with me and wanted to do EVERYTHING together! He would always message me and ask where I was whenever I didn't reply!



I mean I need my space too!

Mind you, he isn't really that popular, I am not bragging AT ALL but I'm just saying I have a lot more acquaintances than him.

I just stopped liking him because of his clingyness, I don't see him the same way at all! I have no idea why I have this sudden change!

It's just getting creepy now! He ALWAYS stares at me now!

I'm thinking of gradually giving him signs that I don't like him anymore but in a nice and polite way.



Please help me! I don't know what to do? What if my feelings change back and I already rejected him? What should I do?

Thank you!

x

[toulouse]

why are you being such a brat. he's not doing anything objectively wrong. if it bothered you once, you should have told him the first time. if it continues to happen , its YOUR fault, not his. he does not KNOW.

if you don't tell him something is bothering u, then don't expect him to not do it.

dont complain about him being clingy. that's just your failure to communicate. I think you like the attention. a reasonable person, wouldve just said they want to slow down, or only be casual friends, long before they start insulting someone. directly to their face, or, behind their back.

do not give him signs, like an idiot. just tell him what you want, & LET him make his own choice about what he wants to do.

lying to him, in case you change your mind, is pathetic.

if I were him, knowing you already have such little respect for me. I would not choose to remain friends with u.

if you find him clingy, it means you don't like his personality. it does not mean, he's doing something wrong. you should not expect him to adjust his personality to suit your whim.

therefore, I see no point dragging it out.

you do not like him. so tell him so, & stop wasting his time.

[Asker]

Oh shut up! Brat my ass! This is just how I feel, can't control it or anything k? Kcool.

[toulouse]

you can control being disrespectful. your talking to this guy, while you're thinking he's pathetic.. that's so completely undignified. and you are waiting instead of just talking to him honestly , in case you change your mind. none of that is JUST how you feel. its what you are DOING, which is what I already said. what you are doing, is demeaning. you feel how you feel. of course. but you can CHOOSE, to treat people respectfully, or you can chose to be an entitled disrespectful, bratt. its about choice.

[Asker]

I never even say he was pathetic. Wow you are uncouth and a dumbass, what a combination! Ha!

[Asker]

*Said he was pathetic. See I have common sense to correct my grammar. Lol.

[soccer_luv]

Be straight up with him and tell him you're not interested. If you don't you'll end up hurting him, espeacilly since you have other acquintances than him. The nicest way to do this is when no one else is around or through a text message. It's up to you how you want to tell him, but do not tell him when your friends are around or his friends.

If you never tell him how you feel he'll be really confused, and become upset if he finds out from someone else or he might become your stalker...haha:D JK

good luck!

[Anonymous]

well you can just be friends,just talk to him about it,you can't just cut him out of lfe abruptly just try to let him know how you feel,the same thing happened to me and I was pushed out rather than told in a polite way

[Asker]

Yeah but it's a bit creepy now :/ I just have mixed feelings about this whole situation. It's either I keep being friendly to him or just gradually give him signals that I don't see him that way?

[Opinion Owner]

How close you were to him ?

[Asker]

Pretty close!

[Opinion Owner]

i meant like very intimate with each other likebeing couples,me and that girl we never call each other girlfriend or boyfriend we pretty much were couples being with each other unofficially

[Asker]

Yeah we would call each otherbabe and hug and stuff... Now I just don't know what to do. :(

[Asker]

*Each other babe.

[Opinion Owner]

thing is you should ask him to give some space,but don't push him away,it's worst thing to do

[Asker]

But how? Should I just not reply to his texts or? :(

[Opinion Owner]

look talk about it with him face to face,avoiding him gonna make things worse,just because you changed he is not gonna change just like that,

[Asker]

Well I'm pretending that I'm busy at the moment, that's why I'm not on Facebook, I'm going to give it a day or two to figure things out then talk to him again? Is that alright? :(

[Opinion Owner]

well just say this to him,that you need time to figure out things and you need space at this moment,you just had a little crush and it's faded or it's fading,it's normal for your age