Does he not like me anymore?

[Anonymous]

The guy has been texting me since months, we were texting consistently every day until he told me he is not ready for a relationship. After that he was reaching out to me every few days or weeks, and the last 2 months he is been texting me every day and he also was flirty. I was nice but i didn't flirt back because i dont think he is mature enough. Anyways he was liking all my stories on instagram but he suddenly stopped 4 days ago and the last time he texted me was 2 weeks ago…i do like him but i kept out conversations light and on friendship base because he already told me once that he is not ready for a relationship and i dont really know what he wants now…

[Anonymous]

Why let a guy like him be a candidate? All he wants is to flirt or try for something sexual and when you aren’t giving him that he gets bored and goes ghost. I don’t even think it’s him not looking for a relationship he just doesn’t want one with you. I don’t say that in a mean way but I know that guys get ready when they find the woman they want. That’s why you’d be shocked and confused if he popped up with another woman after telling you he didn’t want a relationship.

[Guy13]

He was trying to see if you were interested and you seem to think he is not capable of meeting your needs. He is done with trying and done with you unless you push it.

[Asker]

I do like him but i didn't think i should flirt wirh him bc of the thing he told me once (he is not ready)…i thought he will say it directly if he wants something serious or if he really likes me, not onöy flirt and tell me im beautiful..