I don't believe when my girlfriend says she has never had a boyfriend before me, is it possible?

[Anonymous]

So I'm really happy with my current relationship, I love my girlfriend, but I can't get a thing out of my mind, I know I should trust her and I do but I find it hard to believe that she never had boyfriend. At first I though she was joking, but she keeps insisting.

My girlfriend is really gorgeous, the kind of girl that makes everyone stop and stares, it drives me crazy how much guys drool all over her.

And she's also very out going and always speaks her mind. So I don't understand why?

Can someone give me legit reasons

I want to understand her better.

[soa88]

Some of the most beautiful women you think have experience with sex, relationships, and men--honestly do not. She might have always focused on herself. Most people assume I have had boyfriends because I understand guys, and tend to be very indifferent toward what men think of me. However, I have never been in a relationship, been asked out plenty of times, and have had plenty of opportunities to have sex. Its just something that is there, but not something I am truly interested in. I hate how much attention I get from the opposite gender because I have never been a girl who likes or even craves attention.

It is possible---When I walk into a room, I get attention right away naturally, I do not even try, but she might have always been trying to understand herself before she was ready for a relationship. That is what I am currently analyzing with myself. She is being honest though, there really is no reason to lie about that. She sounds smart as well.

Good Luck!

[Anonymous]

i don't think she would lie about that.

i'm 20, and the guy I'm with right now is my first real boyfriend.

throughout my teens, I've never been interested in being in romantic relationships..i focused more on finding and learning about myself. I think a strong self-indentity makes for better relationships :)

[nancy001]

yes maybe she's telling the truth, I flirt & I enjoy the attention from mens, never went on a date before with a guy or had a boyfriend until I was 22 years old, but I did hang out with them just to buy me stuff lol which I don't think is dating (friends with benefits) ;D

[Orion]

What's to under stand man? sometimes even the pretty girl doesn't get asked out, or even if she does it's probably not by a guy she'd consider being with on a regular basis. It's entirely possible you;re her first REAL boyfriend. She may have had male friends that wanted to get closer but just didn't make the grade with her and you did. Stop worrying about it because that seed of doubt can grow and crack the relationship and the next thing you know you;re alone and she's off looking for a new guy because she got tired of your mistrust.

[guy532]

Damn where do you all live that you know beautiful girls that have no exeperience? I'd like to move there haha. The only girl that I have met who was beautiful and not promiscous was severely anti-social, all other pretty girls that I have met, most have been on the slutty side. You should though trust your girlfriend, if you don't it'll just get worse and grow into something that will ruin your relationship.

[Loools]

Maybe guys were intimidated by her, assumed she had a boyfriend already, and so didn't want to ask her out? I have a close friend who is stunning. Seriously, she's really pretty, most guys fancy her, but she's never had a boyfriend. It's not unusual for pretty girls to be overlooked. Most guys (well, the guys I know) figure if she's that good looking, she must have turned down better looking guys than them, or is taken. Weird, but strangely true.

[irishelen]

Some attractive girls have never had boyfriend. It is because they feel that they never needed one :)