If a woman has never had a boyfriend, is there likely a reason?

[Anonymous]

I am 29 and never had a girlfriend. I am only wanting a woman that has never had a boyfriend or romantic bond, especially from her youth.

But my concern is, if a woman has gone into her 20s never having a boyfriend, is there likely a reason, such as being aromantic or asexual or less of a desire to fall in love?

Yes

No

A total of 22 votes were cast: 7 girls and 15 guys. See detailed results

[dynamicyandere]

Most women have boyfriends while they’re in their teens.


For women to reach their 20’s without a boyfriend, they either have very high standards and/or are very religious/conservative (or perhaps both).


Now, your 20’s is usually when you find your life partner.


So, if she’s past her mid 20’s and has never even had one romantic relationship?


There may be something unusual going on.


For example, perhaps she is celibate, perhaps she is asexual, or perhaps she even has traits that repel men.

[Asker]

Being a Christian and conservative is alright with me. I am just wanting her to fall in love as intensely as I do. I seek a woman where we can be each other's first real relationship. I never wanted to end up this way.

[dynamicyandere]

The first virgin I dated, I was 17 and she was 15.

The second virgin I dated, she was 18 and I was 21.

The third virgin I dated, she was 20, and I was 25 — and we’re still together.

(I’ve dated plenty of other girls that WEREN’T virgins too by the way, but since you’re looking for girls that have never had a boyfriend, I’m using virgins as an example.)

If you’re looking for a girl that has never had a boyfriend before, your best bet is to find someone under 21.

But, you’re already 29…

So, you’re going to be almost a decade older.

So, I believe it would be best to go for someone with a smaller age-gap and let go of the need for them to have never had a boyfriend before.

[Asker]

That won't happen. I refuse to settle for less. I found a girl that is 25 and never had a boyfriend. I am hoping I can contact her again.

[dynamicyandere]

If you don’t want to settle for less, it’s fine to stand by that.

Though, what you’re looking for will be harder to find, the longer you delay.

I just wanted to make sure you knew what you’re signing up for:

A very difficult pursuit with very small probability of success.

If you want to take the risk though and are willing to pay the price, you do you.

I wish you the best. 🍀

[DextroShade]

Most guys struggle with women nowadays because modern women tend to be incredibly narcissistic and entitled, so I will not judge a guy for not being able to get a girlfriend in his 20's while he is still building himself up.

Women however are given their value upfront, and their 20's are when they should find a man because that's when they have the most and best options. If a woman cannot find a man during this time in her life it means there is definitely something wrong with her.

[Anonymous]

its so much less common for women to not have dated than guys , as girls tend to be more desirable when there younger and even like average women will still generate a lot of interest from single men

[Asker]

I have seen several online. Don't know how common in real life.

[Opinion Owner]

sometimes i do see girls on here who say they've never dated but i really can't think of any in real life like that , every girl i know dated someone at some point even if there single now

[Opinion Owner]

most girls too go to college these days and college is like 4 years of parties and nights out in a different city than back home , its hard to believe an attractive young women would have not dated or been with anyone during 4 years at college when there younger and more desirable

[msc545]

She might just be ugly and fat or crazy. Even more for you to take into consideration if you actually find somebody that meets your requirements, which I doubt you will.

[Anonymous]

Not again. Just please stop.

[Anonymous]

My GOD, JUST STFU you WHINER