Would you assume if a beautiful woman had never had a boyfriend there was something wrong with her?

[AlongCameCindy]

Yes

No

[ShortCircuit]

No. If she is beautiful, then her appearance clearly isn't the reason she never had a boyfriend, but no other "issue" would *prevent* her from getting a boyfriend because they wouldn't find out about it until after they were already together. Any other "issue" would be more likely to end a relationship *after* it had already started than it would be to *prevent* one from ever starting.

So maybe it would be logical to conclude that she had "issues" if she had a ton of boyfriends that didn't last long, but it wouldn't make sense to conclude that if she's never had a boyfriend at all. So the only explanation is that she just never *wanted* a boyfriend, and that's what I'd assume.

[notatrap]

I would be curious why, but I voted No. Absolutely not. Being alone builds plenty of selfworth, independence, selfcare, all that stuff.. but there's an essence of someone else's opinions and life around you that can change your whole way of thinking, just depends on who it is.

[Anonymous]

If I met a good looking guy who's never had a relationship that wouldn't be my first thought but the thought would cross my mind if there's something off about him, if I liked him i'd give him a chance though. I think men look at it the same way with women. In my experience handsome men who's never had a relationship are either reallyy shy or they've been too busy focusing on their studies and/or work. I've only ever come across one successful, kind of handsome man who'd never had a relationship who quickly turned out to be unstable and so that was most likely why in his case.

[Cynicaldreamer]

Not necessarily.

She might have high standards, be more focused on a career or school than dating, men are afraid to approach her, she's choosing not to date, or she just hasn't found the right guy yet.

You can't make assumptions about people without getting to know them first.

[chrissykerdock]

once you start something it's hard to stop it... so maybe this girl lived her life differently and most likely correctly... I don't take drugs but I got into oral sex a bit much where I relied on the stimulation too much... so here's a girl who never had a boyfriend but pretty... i'd say guys she's a catch but you must be 100% sincere with her and love her with all your heart because she's definitely worth it... so i'd have no problem with her if I were a guy with the fact she never had a boyfriend... infact i'd think of her as someone extremely special and go from there with her which would be getting to know her and being gentle with her.

[Drowningkingfish]

I mean my theories would be

-She lesbian
-She's waiting for the right person
-She's an asshole to people who are close to her, maybe a bit sociopathic.
-She's trans and it puts a majority of blokes off.
-Her parents are horrid people.
-She's suicidal and self harms, using people as leverage for what she'll do to herself.
-She has twisted morales and beliefs that a majority of the population find absurd.

[BitterSweetApplePie]

This is honestly pretty accurate for some of the pretty bitches I've met.

[BananaKittyCookie]

Im not really any of these, maybe 'waiting for the right person'
but i haven't met anyone that i have feelings for

[Kaneki05]

Yes unless if she is into girls or asexual or maybe to hot that no one has asked you out cause there shy lol.
I would just ask why haven't you been with anyone then be like, but you have tried right like going on a date or hang around someone you thought you may like.
Cause if not then that's just kinda weird and makes it look like that girl don't want a realtionship which is okay of course, but weird to me.

[Kurαȷ]

Well, since she has rejected everyone so far, I would assume that she either has excessively high standards or that she doesn't want to date anyone in general.

I wouldn't consider getting interested in a person like that, but I wouldn't think that there is anything "wrong" with them.

[JackSmy]

I would assume that she hasn't because guys are too intimidated to talk to her, other than players!!
Guys won't say it, but most are afraid to approach that super-hot, 'model' type, because of?
Maybe she is alone because the few that do approach her, have some stupid line, or are just wanting to. . .

[winterfox10]

"Assume" is the wrong word for it, but I would definitely wonder why she hadn't dated anyone. To be fair though, I haven't officially dated anyone and I'm 27 years old. I'm told that I'm basically a good looking guy. I've just never been presented with the chance to date anyone.

[dany018]

Dude, we aproach girls, you can't keep waiting forever, is very very very rare for a girl to aproach a guy (1 in 1 billion). You lack confidence, this comes with practice, you better start asking girls out

[winterfox10]

@dany018 "assume makes an ass out of U and me." Skip the pep talk; I have been approaching women

[mistiblue]

No. I mean it could be down to many things - she's busy living her own life, she rather be alone than be with someone else etc. Or even stuff that is out of her control - luck (alot about dating depends on luck), not meeting the right people etc. Too many factors.

[Liam_Hayden]

No. I have a friend whom most would consider stunning - basically a bustier version of a young Lynda Carter. She is smart and fun. She also had to go the prom with friends because no guy asked her. My guess is that she was too tall and so gorgeous that she intimidated guys. Her first "date" was when she was 20. She is 25 and finally got a "boyfriend" last year.

[Moonchild714]

It depends on her age, if by a certain age you've never been in a Serious Relationship then Yes there is something Psychologically wrong with any person Man or Woman. Those of us in the Field that is a Major Red Flag and we start looking further.

[brodycarmody]

I have to disagree with this as the older you get the more difficult it is to even date much less get a partner. So for example if you get into your 50's and decide that you want to be in a relationship then good luck with that because your going to need it.

[Moonchild714]

If by the age of 30 a person hasn't had One True Romantic Relationship (not talking Sex, just truly Emotions) that person has a connection problem which there are too many to even list...

As far as age and dating goes I never had a problem. If you're an outgoing person dating is not sn issue at any age...

[Moonchild714]

Also, everyone can say they don't judge or question these things but by the time I was 35 I started getting from guys why haven't you been married yet what was wrong? Some would out right ask what was wrong with me or my Relationships and many you could see they were wondering... My Husband is the only man that Never asked me that question!!!

[Trolloween]

No, I'd assume she was maybe picky or somehow had a gift at associating with the wrong people though. Or assume she just didn't want a boyfriend and was happy alone or just wanted casual sex. None show there's anything wrong with her.

[aly34]

I have a gift of attracting wrong people

[chadpattan]

Well, we have to put this in perspective.

Stacey Dash even in her 50's is beautiful.

Stacey Dash has been married multiple times.

However, we know with certainty there's a lot wrong with her.

So

[Sensmind]

I am one of the people that believe being beautiful is not that easy and has its own set of unique problems. I would not be surprised if anyone said they never had a partner and would be listen to why they thought themselves that was.

[Amizzen]

I actually feel worried about that. I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend so far. Mostly because I've never met the right person and I also want to focus on school. And I'll probably be in my first relationship on studies... I hope I'll find the right person and no one will find me weird.

[Purpleronnie]

I honestly try to never assume , but not having a girlfriend or boyfriend would never mean there was something wrong with you regardless of whether your considered beautiful or not

[Silent_Bob]

Actually, no. Maybe she doesn't want one. Or maybe guys are afraid to approach her because they think she is "way out of their league."

If it's the latter, then she can simply take small steps to prove that isn't true.

[LoveWarrior]

First off,.. i wouldn't assume... Maybe she is seriously into her career... Or maybe she's a virgin and just waiting for the right one... Or maybe she don't like guys... I would try to strike up a conversation,.. make her laugh a bit and see how she responds.

[RagingRaijin]

To be honest, yes. But let me define something "wrong with her". I wouldn't assume she would be a mentally or emotionally unstable. I would assume that there would be a reason why she would never had a boyfriend and that could be many reasons. Not all those reasons would be negative. Like for example a person tried to not go in a relationship due to a carreer. It would still be unnusual, but nonetheless a respectful choice. .

[rjroy3]

Inside I would have a flag go up, until further investigation is under way. Wouldn't assume something's wrong with her, but it would be odd enough for me to gather more info

[Reaperbot666]

Could just be she has not found anyone she can connect with mentally.

And guys might only hit on her for her looks or because they want a hookup with her.

[JacobRoto]

If she's never had a boyfriend, there's no reason to think there's something wrong. If all she's had is short relationships, there could be something wrong.