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No. If she is beautiful, then her appearance clearly isn't the reason she never had a boyfriend, but no other "issue" would *prevent* her from getting a boyfriend because they wouldn't find out about it until after they were already together. Any other "issue" would be more likely to end a relationship *after* it had already started than it would be to *prevent* one from ever starting.
So maybe it would be logical to conclude that she had "issues" if she had a ton of boyfriends that didn't last long, but it wouldn't make sense to conclude that if she's never had a boyfriend at all. So the only explanation is that she just never *wanted* a boyfriend, and that's what I'd assume.
I would be curious why, but I voted No. Absolutely not. Being alone builds plenty of selfworth, independence, selfcare, all that stuff.. but there's an essence of someone else's opinions and life around you that can change your whole way of thinking, just depends on who it is.
If I met a good looking guy who's never had a relationship that wouldn't be my first thought but the thought would cross my mind if there's something off about him, if I liked him i'd give him a chance though. I think men look at it the same way with women. In my experience handsome men who's never had a relationship are either reallyy shy or they've been too busy focusing on their studies and/or work. I've only ever come across one successful, kind of handsome man who'd never had a relationship who quickly turned out to be unstable and so that was most likely why in his case.
Not necessarily.
She might have high standards, be more focused on a career or school than dating, men are afraid to approach her, she's choosing not to date, or she just hasn't found the right guy yet.
You can't make assumptions about people without getting to know them first.
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once you start something it's hard to stop it... so maybe this girl lived her life differently and most likely correctly... I don't take drugs but I got into oral sex a bit much where I relied on the stimulation too much... so here's a girl who never had a boyfriend but pretty... i'd say guys she's a catch but you must be 100% sincere with her and love her with all your heart because she's definitely worth it... so i'd have no problem with her if I were a guy with the fact she never had a boyfriend... infact i'd think of her as someone extremely special and go from there with her which would be getting to know her and being gentle with her.
I mean my theories would be
-She lesbian
-She's waiting for the right person
-She's an asshole to people who are close to her, maybe a bit sociopathic.
-She's trans and it puts a majority of blokes off.
-Her parents are horrid people.
-She's suicidal and self harms, using people as leverage for what she'll do to herself.
-She has twisted morales and beliefs that a majority of the population find absurd.
This is honestly pretty accurate for some of the pretty bitches I've met.
Im not really any of these, maybe 'waiting for the right person'
but i haven't met anyone that i have feelings for
Yes unless if she is into girls or asexual or maybe to hot that no one has asked you out cause there shy lol.
I would just ask why haven't you been with anyone then be like, but you have tried right like going on a date or hang around someone you thought you may like.
Cause if not then that's just kinda weird and makes it look like that girl don't want a realtionship which is okay of course, but weird to me.
Well, since she has rejected everyone so far, I would assume that she either has excessively high standards or that she doesn't want to date anyone in general.
I wouldn't consider getting interested in a person like that, but I wouldn't think that there is anything "wrong" with them.
I would assume that she hasn't because guys are too intimidated to talk to her, other than players!!
Guys won't say it, but most are afraid to approach that super-hot, 'model' type, because of?
Maybe she is alone because the few that do approach her, have some stupid line, or are just wanting to. . .
"Assume" is the wrong word for it, but I would definitely wonder why she hadn't dated anyone. To be fair though, I haven't officially dated anyone and I'm 27 years old. I'm told that I'm basically a good looking guy. I've just never been presented with the chance to date anyone.
@dany018 "assume makes an ass out of U and me." Skip the pep talk; I have been approaching women
No. I mean it could be down to many things - she's busy living her own life, she rather be alone than be with someone else etc. Or even stuff that is out of her control - luck (alot about dating depends on luck), not meeting the right people etc. Too many factors.
No. I have a friend whom most would consider stunning - basically a bustier version of a young Lynda Carter. She is smart and fun. She also had to go the prom with friends because no guy asked her. My guess is that she was too tall and so gorgeous that she intimidated guys. Her first "date" was when she was 20. She is 25 and finally got a "boyfriend" last year.
It depends on her age, if by a certain age you've never been in a Serious Relationship then Yes there is something Psychologically wrong with any person Man or Woman. Those of us in the Field that is a Major Red Flag and we start looking further.
I have to disagree with this as the older you get the more difficult it is to even date much less get a partner. So for example if you get into your 50's and decide that you want to be in a relationship then good luck with that because your going to need it.
If by the age of 30 a person hasn't had One True Romantic Relationship (not talking Sex, just truly Emotions) that person has a connection problem which there are too many to even list...
As far as age and dating goes I never had a problem. If you're an outgoing person dating is not sn issue at any age...
Also, everyone can say they don't judge or question these things but by the time I was 35 I started getting from guys why haven't you been married yet what was wrong? Some would out right ask what was wrong with me or my Relationships and many you could see they were wondering... My Husband is the only man that Never asked me that question!!!
No, I'd assume she was maybe picky or somehow had a gift at associating with the wrong people though. Or assume she just didn't want a boyfriend and was happy alone or just wanted casual sex. None show there's anything wrong with her.
Well, we have to put this in perspective.
Stacey Dash even in her 50's is beautiful.
Stacey Dash has been married multiple times.
However, we know with certainty there's a lot wrong with her.
So
I am one of the people that believe being beautiful is not that easy and has its own set of unique problems. I would not be surprised if anyone said they never had a partner and would be listen to why they thought themselves that was.
I actually feel worried about that. I'm 17 and I've never had a boyfriend so far. Mostly because I've never met the right person and I also want to focus on school. And I'll probably be in my first relationship on studies... I hope I'll find the right person and no one will find me weird.
I honestly try to never assume , but not having a girlfriend or boyfriend would never mean there was something wrong with you regardless of whether your considered beautiful or not
Actually, no. Maybe she doesn't want one. Or maybe guys are afraid to approach her because they think she is "way out of their league."
If it's the latter, then she can simply take small steps to prove that isn't true.
First off,.. i wouldn't assume... Maybe she is seriously into her career... Or maybe she's a virgin and just waiting for the right one... Or maybe she don't like guys... I would try to strike up a conversation,.. make her laugh a bit and see how she responds.
To be honest, yes. But let me define something "wrong with her". I wouldn't assume she would be a mentally or emotionally unstable. I would assume that there would be a reason why she would never had a boyfriend and that could be many reasons. Not all those reasons would be negative. Like for example a person tried to not go in a relationship due to a carreer. It would still be unnusual, but nonetheless a respectful choice. .
Inside I would have a flag go up, until further investigation is under way. Wouldn't assume something's wrong with her, but it would be odd enough for me to gather more info
Could just be she has not found anyone she can connect with mentally.
And guys might only hit on her for her looks or because they want a hookup with her.
I would say odds are she's not a beautiful woman. Or she never goes outside. Cause i guarantee even if she's really stand-offish there are guys rhat'll hit on her anyhow.
If she's never had a boyfriend, there's no reason to think there's something wrong. If all she's had is short relationships, there could be something wrong.
Hell yeah... RED FLAG... She lying or... She is kinda messed up, but if so... I should be able to see why no one got involved with... Her... But that would also imply that there's something wrong with me or that I'm lying... Because I've never had a face to face... Relationship
No , my sister is very pretty and never had. boyfriend. She have very interesting life. She is so into diving, hiking , traveling. No time to waste on a man
I was always worried about that since I never had a boyfriend.
Not that I am very beautiful but I felt people found it odd.
Now I have a girlfriend though 🤣
There could be a million reasons. Selective, career focused, enjoying life as a single person who is self actuated. Many reasons.
Maybe she likes girls or has a bigger dick than guys she met.
Born male.
I’d think most guys are too intimidated to approach her and that she has a certain type and has rejected the few men that have approached her.
When you are pretty less people approach you actually you are more intimidating to them so it's totally normal i wouldn't think something is wrong
I would think she was high maintenance and very picky and to please her would be a nightmare lol
The other thing also the fact that she was never in a relationship just shows she only really cares about herself and probably has a lot of selfishness so being with someone like that would be a hard ride considering she doesn’t really know what it means to be in a relationship , so their would be a lot of butting heads with each other , why it’s better to be with someone that has already experienced a relationship and learned from past mistakes , but the good thing about being a girls first is the fact she won’t forget you , even when she is with her 4 th relationship , a girl holds onto her first for a long ass time lol
Yes and no. It's hard to say... I'd wonder for sure what her story is...
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Who knows. She could be a perfectly nice gal, yet the guys might be intimidated if she is gorgeous and all of that spo that they simply assume she is out of their league, etc.
* so that they
No. Not at all. Some people aren't into dating. Some people are ace. Some people are gay and don't want to be out about it. Some people just haven't gotten around to it or feel they don't have the time and energy to commit to dating.
Every person is free to choose whom they want to date or have a relationship with. Some people don't like dating or being in a relationship because they don't feel like they need a partner at that moment in their lives and that's totally fine
It's more about approach-ability, she may have an aire of get lost or I'm above you towards most. A few guys don't pay attention to that or will ask anyway and from which will be her first boyfriend.
HELL YES!! Attractive women and crazy go hand in hand. Ask any guy whose had the bad luck of jumping in the deep end by accident. (YouTube crazy hot matrix for reference)
May be or may not be she might be waiting for someone who she wants to give her flower to a permanent guy
A beautiful women out there who has never had a boyfriend?
I'm the Queen of England.
Absolutely not. Many people have a hard time finding the right person simply because they haven’t met yet.
Any number of possible reasons.
Career, haven't found what she was looking for, care giver to someone or even gay!
Wouldn't hold it against her.
Nope. I am not that judgmental. There’s nothing wrong with not having a boyfriend or never having one, sometimes it’s just someone’s choice. Just because they never had a boyfriend doesn’t mean there’s something wrong with them.
Nowadays? No. I've heard of actresses choosing to be single when they are gorgeous. I'm not sure why they chose to be single but that is their choice.
Wouldn't assume anything, but yes it would be weird, and I would want to find out why. I mean most beautiful woman not only have dated, but turn out to be sluts, because they have so many opportunities, its hard for them to resist. A girl with average love life can be found, but I haven't encountered a girl yet thats actually beautiful and never had a boyfriend.
No, just because you have never seen a boyfriend that does not mean she hasn't one.
There's truth in the saying beauty is only skin deep
There might be but then again there is something wrong with the society we live in. People are insisting men can become women and such things so I wouldn't put it all on the girl.
No but thats a ton better than too many boyfriends to count.
No, it is entirely possible that she has been busy doing other things with her life. Or just isn't interested in one at this time.
Anyone who would assume that likely isn't the sharpest one on the block.
No. I'd be more likely to think something was wrong with her if she had many relationships that didn't last very long.
No that's a little over analytical dont you think. I dont think something I'd wrong with anybody until I know something is wrong
Anyone who looks like that and has never had a boyfriend is lying, incredibly picky, or a drag queen.
That or she has a lot of fun toys. I’d let her use them on me as well.
A girl like that- attractive and never had a boyfriend- would be as rare as a unicorn.
No, a lot of people are choosing to stay single these days.
I'll try to be her first boyfriend... see ehere we go from there
No. As a single man I'd assume she was right for me.
I'd imagine she might be suuuper picky but that's not necessarily 'wrong' per se
Not of course. Circumstances people, circumstances !
No but I would assume that she is already taken perhaps to my own detriment.
Nah, I'd assume that she's either too busy focusing on other things in life or she just hasn't been with someone she felt comfortable enough with to date.
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