Guys: If you make your girlfriend or a female friend cry, how do you feel?

[Katy16]

If you make your girlfriend cry(or find out later that you did), how do you feel? and What do you/would you do?

[Malcom_Reynolds]

It really depends, I've often said "crying doesn't work on me," because I've seen too many girls cry to try and guilt trip guys. That being said, if I do something that inevitably ends up hurting her feelings to the point of crying that I really believe is not an act and not "over nothing" then I end up feeling absolutely terrible. In cases like that, I really do feel like I want to do anything to make them feel better.

[HifsMit]

I feel bad enough making a dude cry, if I made my girlfriend cry? Kill myself. But buy her some flowers and chocolate before doing so. Chocolate makes everyone smile.

[Katy16]

"Chocolate makes everyone smile"

Well, not everyone...I hate most kinds of chocolate. lol But I'm weird in that respect I guess.

[HifsMit]

Celery with peanut butter? =)

[Katy16]

Haha nope. I'm a REALLY picky eater. lol

[HifsMit]

Lol. Well, then let's just go with "something specific she likes that her boyfriend should know".

[Katy16]

Haha that'll work.

[toulouse]

i feel bad if I make a boyfriend cry, but its also kind of hot, when he's all sad. looks really cute& innocent. & I want to make him feel better & it feels powerful, if I can.

[Wesdaman21]

I have made my gfs cry a couple of times, she cries very easily. I'm not happy when she cries and her tears get the best of me. She has wronged me in the past and cried for my forgiveness which sucks because it works. While she cries I apologize for my harsh words hug her and then tell her what she shud do differently so we don't repeat our mistakes.

[arashmenalagha]

I would never want to make my girlfriend cry that would be so mean! If she was crying I wouldn't feel good, I would want to comfort her and take care of her until she feels better.

[Andrewz]

Well if I made someone cry unintentionally, I would feel like an a**hole. Maybe it's one of those things that you say that is taken the wrong way or was just a joke - I get that a lot. I would apologize or do something to make it right. And I said unintentionally because the fact that I would never try to make someone cry.. especially a girl, it's just not right.

[Blobb]

I feel bad. Inevitably, because I care for them. So them being sad makes me sad and guilty and I then go to comfort them or make them feel better.

[Anonymous]

If it was on purpose, I laugh it off. But it makes me feel a little sinister.

[TheUglyOne]

Usually like crap...