Guys, how do you feel if a girl cry for you?

[Anonymous]

Assuming you guys are bestfriend. One day u guys are discussing about each other’s feeling, then suddenly she cry infront of you, reason is because she feels like u are leading her and giving her a fake hope where she only realise after u tell her that u like other girl.

How do u feel when u see that tears? U starting to hate her, or u starting to feel bad, or u feel nothing..

[Mr_twoface]

Any true gentleman would surely get upset over the situation and try to discuss the matter with you. If you are bestfriends, that's what you opt to do, to clear the air and cheer up your bestie. It may not been intentional to give you high hopes but here we are and should resolve the situation so the friendship continues.

[LuminousMind]

@Mr_twoface hi I just wanted to say I really like your advice and wanted to ask if you wouldn’t mind giving me your opinion on a situation? I’d like it if you can follow me so I can send a pm

[Mr_twoface]

@LuminousMind Hey. Thanks n following you now. I'm on the move so might be a short delay before responding though will gladly help the best way I can.

[Asker]

However tho, after witnessing that, do u think u will be able to continue your friendship like normal or you will start to feel awkward and act differently?

And would u also mind following me so i can dm you?

[Mr_twoface]

@Asker, I can't follow you, can you follow me? If yes, I will follow everyone so u can dm me.

As to your question, I can't speak for others and people are obviously different. What I can say from own experience, is that I would feel our friendship has taken on another level and I would not only continue the friendship but would also cherish it more. We have a bond that others don't and would try to build on the friendship to let her know that I sincerely care for her as a friend and will be there for her when needed.

[Asker]

Done following you.
Thats actually so sweet of you 🥹

[Anonymous]

Sorry but once you friend-zoned someone you cannot be friends, why you care? You can have other friends you don't need her. Also, I think she understood the missunderstanding and moved on with her life. many people cry for unrequited feelings but this is just life. Also, you said you like another girl so just forget about the one crying and focus on your girlfriend.

[Hellraiser1984]

I would feel like crap forever. Personally I hate seeing women cry because I had to watch my mom cry a lot as a kid because my dad was a total ahole. It makes me feel very sad. I would never do what the guy in the question did.

[jahaims]

If a female friend thought I was leading her on then she is in complete delusional

[Asker]

Not if to the point everyone literally thought and sense u love her. So she is not at fault

[Anonymous]

I'd feel nothing because I don't lead people on

[Asker]

Ok if thats how u feel, but she still feel u lead her on. N she cries. What would ur reaction be? Would u distance from her? Or u would discuss properly and be friend like usual again