Guys how would you feel if your girl missed you this bad?

[Anonymous]

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years and I've always missed him when we are apart but lately I miss him so bad I feel silly but I can't help it. This last week when I'd go to work id start crying because I didn't want to leave him and I just wanna cuddle with him and give him kisses all the time. I was just crying because he's away for the holiday and I miss him so much, just wanna see him and be with him. A few weeks ago I text him I missed him and he sent back a funny face like I was joking or something and I wasn't. He doesn't know how upset I get when I have to leave him and I'm afraid he'd be freaked out or something. I just wanna make sure he's taken care of and safe and needs cuddles and lots of kisses. Guys how would you feel if you found out your girlfriend missed you this bad when your apart?

[ScarletteFox_Red]

I'm the same exact way. I have abandonment issues. except, I couldn't hold my tears in every time he left so my boyfriend knows and we have talked about it. He feels sad that I'm sad but he understands my feelings and makes sure I'm okay.

[Asker]

I used to make it at least outside before I'd start crying but this last week is start before I even got out of bed, luckily he's always asleep when I leave in the morning so he doesn't see, I have no idea what he'd even say if he knew

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Awww I think you need him to just hold you while you cry until you're better. I would wake him up, honey. I'm sure he loves you enough to want everything to be okay. And you shouldn't be leaving the house like that's. It's just not healthy. I feel for you

[Asker]

He usually does hold me when I cry but I try so hard not to cry and it happens every time. I always give him a good bye kiss when I leave and that usually helps but not this past week I've been just a mess and now he's out of town and I miss him so badly.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Can you talk to a counselor/therapist? Mine gives me ideas on what I can do to take my mind off of him when we're apart.

[Asker]

I used to see a therapist and I stopped going because that lady was more crazy than I am.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Hahahaha hats funny. It's hard to find someone crazier than I!

[Asker]

That's what I thought too lol. I have anxiety, depression, cut, PTSD from being raped, I had a miscarriage last year so have had a lot going on. I probly should still be talking with someone but that lady was ridiculous and I wouldn't feel comfortable going to the same place and seeing her when I'm there for another therapist.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Yeah, I understand. Can you try at look elsewhere?

[Asker]

I don't know, I'm not sure there is another place around where I live and I'm sorta afraid the same thing will happen. She wasn't helping me at all I was just her entertainment for the week when I went in.

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Aww I'm sorry that you felt that way, that's not what you want when going to confide in somebody :(

[ScarletteFox_Red]

Well, maybe you can just try a Google search with the word, therapy and your zip code

[LovestruckDreamer]

You might have seperation anxiety or something similar. I'm like that too.

[Asker]

It's so bad. I can't even sleep without him, at my place I'm up all night long or sleep a hour at a time and still up all night or at his place when we got to bed in asleep as soon as we get in bed and only wake up to go potty.

[LovestruckDreamer]

Maybe tell him how you feel?

[Asker]

I'm afraid he'll be freaked out and think it's too weird

[Mike12341994]

I would be happy, i miss my girlfriend a lot when were apart for only a short period of time, so i know how you feel, if he loves you then he should be happy too