What do women like for polygamy?

[almaz]

I am a polygamist. I have 2 wife who stay with me in one house. we share everything. Food, Cloth, in Bed also. I want to know what women likes or hope such as husband like me?

[ketfoen]

i honestly don't get polygamy marriages, it seems that the man in these relationship have more to gain then the women. Like if the man has an argument with one wife he can get comfort at the second wife and the other wife can't do sh*t about it, because she can't get jealous of the other wife for comforting him. This is twisting my brain.

Would you ever let your wife marry more men if she wishes it, seeing that your so open minded and all. Because if I was a woman and seeing my husband enjoying himself with more wives I would want to enjoy more husbands also, it's only fair.

[Frostie]

It's beneficial for the wife if the man is rich, which is usually when these instances occur, when all women benefit from being able to have offspring with a secured future, it is very beneficial, however for someone who is broke or in the middle class, it isn't. It is far better to be with one person, which benefits the woman, as the man can't get too much out of it. It truly depends on who and what we're speaking of, as it is situational.

[almaz]

thnk u. I really want to answer the reasons why. But see the response most people do not agree. So I can not speak here. Because it will add another much debate. I respect women's feelings.

[ketfoen]

what else did you expect? it's not a normal everyday thing many people live with or even grew up in. Your way of life is just strange to us and not something many would accept, me included. And I'm a guy that does fantasize about being with more then just one woman, but still wouldn't want to live or marry more then one woman. I'm just not that open minded as you and being with one woman doesn't mean you respect her any less, instead I respect her more for only choosing to be with me and no one else.

[Izzy2102]

I would like to hear the reasons, you're probably right and I won't understand but I never got why people do this, an I'd like to hear what your stand on it is

[almaz]

I feel thanks for it. this how women feels.

[Anonymous]

I have uncles that are polygamist,no matter what it is,you must try hard to be fair not try hard,you MUST!,I'm not saying you are not fair,but even though e.g your 1st wife gave you more children ,you cannot give her more pocket money than of that your 2nd wife. and you are too young to be a polygamist you know that.But in my family I'm more fond to my uncle's 2nd wives because I grew up with their children,but they live in harmony for like more than 30 years.Sometimes I don't even realized I have a polygamist + multicultural family.LOL

[almaz]

thank you for sharing. I respect your uncle to dare to be a Polygamist.

[beerY33]

Your question is not very clear, for the record- but different people want different things out of relationships. Not everyone is open to polygamy, and those who are have very different desires.

[almaz]

thank u...I hope other family has to understand that.

[Izzy2102]

I would hate it. I'd never do that. Altough I can see that there are some advantages but they absolutley not worth the price you pay

[almaz]

I see...

[BeautifulMischief]

I grew up around a lot of polygamists and honestly the whole idea disgusts me, I think its bigotry at its finest and everyone in the relationship is itemized.

[Frostie]

when aren't people 'itemized'? Unless you're on the streets giving your money away out of kindness (not taxed or being forced to do so), I don't see how you wouldn't be a Hypocrite in this situation. Then again, something tells me you don't know what a 'bigot' is. And only you are judging him right now based on your intolerant opinions.

[BeautifulMischief]

Have you met any polygamists? Have you heard any of them defend their case? Probably not you sound as ignorant as they are. In a relationship I do not expect to feel like an item, If you think I'm wrong for that I will not pretend to give a rats ass.And judging him? I simply stated my opinion of polygamy there was no personal hit against him. I DON'T LIKE POLYGAMY AND I THINK THOSE IN IT ARE BIGOTS WHO NEED TO COME INTO THIS CENTURY. You will not change this.

[almaz]

Sure you do. I didn't blame for that. I do loved my wives fully as they loved me as well.

[ivarei]

yeah, that really wouldn't be my thing. At least not unless I could have another husband.

[almaz]

It can't be dear. but I accept your disagreement thnk u.

[ivarei]

why can't I have a second husband if you can have 2 wives?

[madiocre]

meh maybe if I could have another husband... actually another toy boy would be better.

[almaz]

see-see...

[MforMiami]

I've had a boyfriend cheating on me. so, no polygamy for me.

[Betwyn]

it isn't cheating if it's Polygamy tho...

[almaz]

thank u, I do believe that you are nice lady.

[dodgersmom11]

i m not sharing my mn with another woman thank you

[almaz]

Thank u. I so understand.

[Deeb211]

NEVER ! I'd hate that honestly .

[almaz]

I'm sorry for it...

[Nicci]

I would hate it to be honest.

[almaz]

thnk u. for it.

[calialltheway1993]

Sharing is NOT caring when it comes to my husband.

[almaz]

its OK, I wish you find a good husband thks.

[Fiona83]

Do your wives have other men beside you as well?

[almaz]

No she doesn't. thanks for participate...

[Fiona83]

Would it bother you?