When she adjusts my clothes, is she trying to get my attention or not?

[Anonymous]

Is she flirting or just too comfortable with me as a friend? I was minding my own business and this girl, who I've been getting signals from but I'm not totally sure, came up from behind and fixed my collar and then kept walking.

[journeyman1126]

Any time a woman touches you it is a goooood sign. She's comfortable with you. So you're free to see if she'd be interested or not. Think of it that way. There's no telling for sure, but you've got the open door.

[Anonymous]

her touching you is good she not gonna touch an ugly guy try to read into one sign to much look for clusters, like her smiling after doing it or looking back when she walks away etc

[Eva_Grace]

If one of my friends has a thread or messed collar I'll fix it, just because it bothers me, it's not me flirting though(:

[Anonymous]

she's probably into you... I wouldn't fix someone's collar unless I really like him or he's my best friend

[Asker]

well, we're certainly not best friends, but maybe she's just too comfortable with me? She's been giving me other signs, but I hope it's not just because she's too comfortable.

[Opinion Owner]

why don't you just ask her out?

[Asker]

because I've known her for a bit, and it seems like straight-up asking her out will defuse the sexual tension. By kind of playing it cool and reciprocating/escalating the flirting, things seem to be going smoother and getting better.

[Opinion Owner]

oh... in that case...

[Anonymous]

Flirting

[Opinion Owner]

She definitely wants you to think of her.

[moobb]

Depends on her personality. But personally, I wouldn't read too much into it.

[Asker]

ok. I'm just trying to combine it with all the other signs I've been getting from her. To an objective person, it might seem like she likes me, but she might just be too comfortable with me, which is what I'm afraid of.