Don't want to scare a shy guy away?

[bntmwannabe]

There is this guy I'm really into..he is gorgeous and funny but very shy which I also find very attractive..I want to approach him and make the first move but don't want to scare him away..Suggestions please

[vernen88]

Even the most shy of men aren't Rabbits, so don't worry about him scampering off into the woods the moment you show any interest. Just find a scenario where you're both most comfortable and get to know each other better over time - if he even has half a brain he should be able to take the rest from there.

However I would warn you not to divulge too much straight away since you're liable to unnerve him by coming on too strong. Plus there's the fact that you still classify him as shy, suggesting he hasn't become comfortable enough to open up to you just yet. As someone who was once classified as the shy guy (as I grew older I killed that part of my personality and ate his brains - now I'm dangerously overt) I should advise you that trust is the biggest issue when it comes to winning him over.

[dan87]

i don't think you would scare him away if you told him how you felt, what you need to do is try and make him come out of his shell a little and tell him then

[Anonymous]

Shy guys often just need one good nudge in the right direction. If you're worried about "scaring him away," IMO he's not worth the trouble of pursuing.

[Log1414]

He's not a deer if you approach him he will respond if he likes you too

[Anonymous]

on your profile it says you are very feminine, I thought, feminine girls disliked shy, passive guys? sarcasm

[kisaragi5TH]

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