Would you take control with a shy bashful guy?

[timidmale]

Note: shy guys can get confident afterwards but personally i enjoy more a female leader so i don't want to be the one in charge like most guys do.

Sure, i'm very extroverted and confident.

No, i'm a shy girl, i'm not a leader.

Updates

+1 y

By the way, we are not wussies, at least not me, i am very masculine, i'm tall with muscles and deep voice, i just need female authority, so don't imagine me as a weak nerd with glasses hehe.

[lizziepooh03]

If I am in a relationship, then I have no problem initiating physical touch.

If I am not in a relationship but just dating, I would not have a problem initiating if physical touch has already been established and seems normal and expected.

If I am just dating and no physical touch has occurred, I will not initiate. Check that, one time I have initiated first but that is just because my current boyfriend went in for our first kiss and I turned my cheek. He later told me he would not try to kiss me again so it would be up to me to initiate a kiss. Me initiating that first kiss was the scariest thing I have ever done and I had a 100% guarantee that I would not be rejected and it still scared the shit out of me.

That experience made me really appreciate what men do and are expected to do in dating and I will never take that for granted again.

And I am thankful my boyfriend is the guy that tells the truth regardless of whether he should or not because otherwise we may not be together today if he had not directly told me he would not try to kiss me again.

That does not mean I will initiate more if I am ever single again; I am still a coward. :) And very thankful to be a girl and so I have the luxury of being a coward. ;)

[timidmale]

I know right, that's why i wish i was a girl.

[lizziepooh03]

I am glad you are a boy. :)

[timidmale]

Why?

[lizziepooh03]

I like honest people in general but especially in a male. I think society is trying its best to eek that out of people, especially men, so I will always champion a man that is honest. (I do not need to champion a woman to be honest; she is not vilified for being honest. Heck, she is not vilified for being dishonest, though she should be.)

I believe honesty is the sexiest quality in a male. Women may not admit this but women know deep down this is true even if they hate it sometimes.

I believe that the number one concern of a female is safety and the one way to ensure safety is to be with a honest man since then you always know and understand your options in life.

[timidmale]

Yeah, honesty is very important.

[lizziepooh03]

I am not sure if men or women, for that matter, understand how much honesty matters. But it does matter... a lot. :)

[JustRollTheDice]

I wouldn't personally be attracted to someone that isn't confident and can't take control, I don't mind being in control though
In referral to your update, with your questions I assume that descriptions not you and that you are a wuss

[timidmale]

Why would you think i'm a wuss? I don't get it.

[melanieeeB]

No I wouldn't, I'm not shy but I do want to have a dominant guy

[timidmale]

Ok i understand, just so you know submissive doesn't mean feminine, some girls can get confused.

[melanieeeB]

I know the meaning

[bondobilly]

It a kinda nice that she shows and takes interest. When guys ask and keep getting shot down, eventually they will quit asking women out, then women wonder guys quit asking them out.

[anmari2001]

really depends on the person, i am also a shy girl butif he is my type of person, i would give it a shot but you can't stay shy forever so i would expect some development

[tntfa]

I would have no problem taking control...

[timidmale]

Thank you for existing hehe.

[Anonymous]

I'm shy but prefer submissive guys

[timidmale]

Aww, you would have to ask him out though, maybe push yourself out of your comfort zone so you can get a submissive guy.

[COCOCHANEL]

i'm shy but i like shy boys

[timidmale]

You should take the first step then so you get one.

[Jennifer398]

Yes I would if that what was needed

[Sha84]

i avoid feminine mommy boys

[timidmale]

First of all i'm not feminine, if you like confident guys good but don't generalize, not all shy guys are wimps just like not all extroverted guys are masculine.

[Sha84]

we have discussed in chat many times, honey

[timidmale]

Then why are you still making the same mistake?

[Sha84]

your deficiency no me

[timidmale]

You think i'm a feminine mommy boy?

[cupidkisses]

Sure

[Anonymous]

But you are weak

[timidmale]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Girls need to be controlled and corrected. It is hardwired directly to their dirty little pussies.

[timidmale]

A Dominatrix wouldn't agree with you.

[Opinion Owner]

She needs the most correction

[timidmale]

Lol xD