Every night now for the past 4 days, I have been dreaming about the same girl that I like a lot. And yesterday, I rarely thought about her, I had been busy all day, and when I went to bed, I had another dream about her. We were dating, kissing, and I couldn't have been happier. But for some reason I had left to go somewhere, wanted to see her, and couldn't find her. It's been like this for the past 4 nights, but every dream is different, but with the same girl. Every dream it got better.
First one, it was just a text from her, don't remember what it said.
Second one, we were just hanging out, and she kept smiling at me a lot, and all I did was hold her hand and fall asleep next to her in the dream.
The third one we were making out on the beach we had went to a week ago.
And the last one I already explained up top, which was by far the one that made me the happiest, until I woke up.
Why do I keep dreaming about her? It's waking me up early, I'm getting little amounts of sleep, I feel depressed and alone during the day, and she is all I have been able to think about.
The only thing bad about these is that we did have a deep connection 6 days ago, but then she had started to ignore me, I don't know why. She had told me she liked me a lot, and wanted to have me by her side every night, and I wished for the same. We basically had a relationship going, but it wasn't anything official. This had been going on for about 3 weeks prior, and I was going to ask her out, but something had came up and she had to leave. I was waiting for the perfect moment, but I think I had waited a moment to long. I had taken what we had for granted, and now I think I am regretting it, and I am realizing it now. I want her badly. I was going to try to wait a few more days before texting her, but I can't stop thinking about her, and I caved in.
What should I do? This is killing me. If she would just respond I would tell her how I feel, more than anything I could have said before.
First one, it was just a text from her, don't remember what it said.
Second one, we were just hanging out, and she kept smiling at me a lot, and all I did was hold her hand and fall asleep next to her in the dream.
The third one we were making out on the beach we had went to a week ago.
And the last one I already explained up top, which was by far the one that made me the happiest, until I woke up.
Why do I keep dreaming about her? It's waking me up early, I'm getting little amounts of sleep, I feel depressed and alone during the day, and she is all I have been able to think about.
The only thing bad about these is that we did have a deep connection 6 days ago, but then she had started to ignore me, I don't know why. She had told me she liked me a lot, and wanted to have me by her side every night, and I wished for the same. We basically had a relationship going, but it wasn't anything official. This had been going on for about 3 weeks prior, and I was going to ask her out, but something had came up and she had to leave. I was waiting for the perfect moment, but I think I had waited a moment to long. I had taken what we had for granted, and now I think I am regretting it, and I am realizing it now. I want her badly. I was going to try to wait a few more days before texting her, but I can't stop thinking about her, and I caved in.
What should I do? This is killing me. If she would just respond I would tell her how I feel, more than anything I could have said before.
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I haven't felt this alone and sad in years, I don't know what to do. The more I think about what we had, the more I miss her, and I feel like I did something wrong, when I knew what I should have done.
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I need to figure out something fast, this is not good for me. I start college today, and I feel like sh*t and I don't even care, when just yesterday, I was happy as hell and excited to go. How am I supposed to do good when I feel like this every day now?
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at this point I'm about ready to give up... I'm tired of feeling like this
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