Does she want me to chase?

[Anonymous]

What are signs she wants me to chase her? I feel like this girl wants me to chase her, like she gives me a few hints. It keeps me interested and makes me want more. I can't figure it out. Help!

[quietvixen17]

Yeah, she wants you to chase. I am a shy gal and I feel like if the guy really wants me, he would take on the chase method. If I notice that a guy doesn't chase or tries as hard, that will push me away, and cause me to become not interested. So, just fill her out more just to see how she feels about you, if you are happy with what you found out and you still like her, then yes chase.

[Asker]

How should I feel her out? I feel like she is back and forth.

[quietvixen17]

What does she actually say to keep you interested?

[Anonymous]

if she flirts but doesn't give you all out then she does want you to chase her

[Asker]

What you mean all out?

[Opinion Owner]

that she pays great amounts of attention to you

[Anonymous]

I'm also having same kind of concern...
She is so cute and most time when we are together we get a lot of attention ( lol. I'm also a cool and handsome dude that gets lot of attention from girls), sometimes guys just keep looking at us and some would even approach me just to get an opportunity to come close to us when that happens she just smiles and then looks me in the eyes and wants us to continue our conversation. I feel she doesn't like the distraction when we are together ps: she has never been on phone when we are together, but she does have male friends, she tells me they are just friends nothing more / nothing less...
We have had a lot of great time together, she kinda respects me but she is always moody. Sometimes she doesn't want to talk or ignores my message and I wld notice and ask what's wrong and she says she is not fine, we talk over it and then she is good but at same time she is spending time with the others. I never had the intention of chasing her but she gave me that impression... I don't wanna waste my time. Should I go silent and be sure of her intentions or is it just her moodiness?
I'm not sure but I feel if she got a busy productive life she might not have much time for the guys but I don't wanna be pushy or bossy if she wants me as a boyfriend... i want it to be mutual but I don't want to waste my time fixing girls.
Can I get some opinion?
Context: she jst lost her father too and I don't know if that's always impacting her mood especially she is always alone /home with her family... she says she is not so lucky with friends cos she don't have much females.
She is still young too but got a lot of maturity already, she is planning to go to college in a different city from where we are currently, she has got a future to build for herself. Likewise myself getting super busy and I'm really focus and a quiet dude might go days without talking to no one.

Should I chase her?
Should I give us the opportunity to love, anyone think its gonna go well... considering our current state and transition we are about going through. I need your opinions pls...

[lauramor]

which hints? if she taks to you but then stops to see if you talk to her (you will know because she will be happy and answer quickli in my experience) then I would say she does want to.

[Asker]

She is pretty shy normally, but began initiating conversation with me. Then won't say anything next time I see her only smile. Like its my turn to initiate, is that what you mean?

[lauramor]

yeah I think that's true,

[CarlaDiaz]

Probably she wants you to chase her. If you're interested in her do it but if after that you still don't know what she wants from you and you don't get anything back, stop the chase right away.

If you don't try it you'll never know.

[Anonymous]

How can we answer if she wants you to chase , If you haven't given us details to go on.

[Asker]

Good point sorry. I just feel like I get little hints and tidbits, and then there is a change up, something that makes me go hmmm. What are signs she wants a chase?

[Opinion Owner]

It could be a little of anything , If you like her chase her . All women like to be chase to a degree , Especially by someone she likes . It will turn her own more

[dommage]

From what you told other answerer she does want you to chase her

[Anonymous]

Don't chase man, that's all a big game. If she wants you, she'll express it.