Do you think melancholy is sexy?

[Pingju]

If you do, what are the reasons that you feel this way? Thanks for sharing and casting your vote downstairs.

Yes, I think melancholy is sexy.

No, I don't think so.

I don't know.

[martyfellow]

What an interesting, philosophical question! Thank you for asking it.

Yes, I thinn melancholy is sexy, because only someone with a developed heart can feel melancholy. Shallow people can get clinically depressed,
but melancholy takes intellectual effort and reflection.

One if melancholy obecause of life's limitations and disappointments, not because of any irrational fears or damanged personal development.

Those who fight against life's obstacles are such valuable people, and they don't feel hopeless because they understand WHY negative developments take place.

[Pingju]

Very nice answer.Thank you.Could you please correct the typo in the third paragraph? Thanks!

[martyfellow]

Sorry, damaged

[Anonymous]

I drown in it.

The music and books i enjoy would certainly make people sad, but i get a lot of please off them.

I love to be around people who are feeling down, and the most intense relationships i had started because of it.

I can't describe why i do it though. I suppose once you're in a lot of pain, as i was when i was a teen, you start to like it.

[Opinion Owner]

i meant pleasure, not please.

[justbanANNAz]

na not really… i like good vibes, I'm just that kinda girl.

i like a mysterious guy tho, who doesn't speak much, and he's got that serious look… not sad tho, but a lone wolf kinda thing… thats the closest id find sexy lol

but my top preference is a happy crazy guy:)

[Vivaldi]

I take it you are quite a girl.

[justbanANNAz]

@Vivaldi how on earth did u find this? lol.
as for what kind of girl i am, I can't be the judge of that.

[Vivaldi]

From what kinda girl you are.

[justbanANNAz]

@Vivaldi well thank you.

[earlyriser]

I, personally, prefer someone who is joyful and energetic. Not to say that they have to be like that all the time, and I do like seriousness, but I feel the happiest when the people I'm with are happy.

[enigmatta]

Someone that is constantly melancholic makes me think that he's weak and won't get over things, maybe dwells on the past to much and I really find it a burden.

[AndyWes]

No way. Serious can be sexy, sometimes. Serene can be sexy. Sly can be sexy.

Melancholy just makes one want to get away from the melancholy person. It's not sexy at all.

[EyeSeaYew]

No. Whenever I'm around a person who has an air of sadness around them, I find myself trying to get away from them as quickly as possible.

[trgffggffgfg]

Melancholy only happens to me if I am really fucked cognitively speaking so that is a complete turn-off.

[RealityCheckTime]

A sad vulnerable hot girl is intoxicating!

[MaskofInsanity]

No. Positivity is sexy.

[Vivaldi]

Sadness is sexy. We should be sad.

[RideSallyRide]

No melancholy is not sexy, eh