Polls: Girl's Behavior

So ever thought you live your life just fine. And all of the sudden you get this drunk girl outta the club and just wants to pick at you. She doesn't get physical but she says the line above. You think "she's just drunk, she ain't making sense."

But if you were to entertain such an idea, you think such person would be onto something... or that's just plain ridiculous?

It seems like men think that women are dressing up just to seek their attention. When in reality we are usually dressing a certain way for comfort, fashion and or to feel good about ourselves. Very rarely has anything to do with seeking attention from men.

Main that make me say he's lying... Just a few days ago he'd made a quip about he didn't think he was relevant to company so why would boss bother to call him for that long.

There's also the fact he usually texts good morning when he gets up. Has not yet texted. You can see activity on WhatsApp. I'm not texting him good morning as to me for all his claims about how he can't stand people looking for the "next best" (to date) he's doing just that.

By "show more skin" I mean stuff like tank tops and short shorts, and by "cover up more" I mean stuff like long sleeves and long pants/jeans. As you can see in the attached photos.

I don't know why, but to me it just seems like women who show more skin are often more warm/friendly than women who cover up more. I often associate the former with smiling more often, generally hugging more and being more touchy feely, and displaying overall more extroverted and outgoing traits... and the latter more with smiling less, disliking hugs and physical contact, and displaying overall more introverted and reserved traits.

Another thing, women who show skin seem to not care when another woman decides to cover up... at most they'll ask them "aren't you feeling hot" if the temperature is high, but they'll leave it at that. However, women who cover up often seem to be quite judgmental of women who show more skin, and seem to think that they are morally superior to them. They seem to think women who show more skin are "dressing wrong" or "being slutty."

I'm not sure if this is just me/a coincidence, or if it's actually a common pattern that exists in a lot of places. Which is why I'm asking.

If it matters, I myself would usually dress something in-between the two photos. Like a t-shirt and shorts that are closer to knee-length. Though I occasionally may adopt the style shown in the photos as well, depending on the weather.

I would definitely hide it, people already treat me like trash because they think I’m better off then them, if I became better off than now, I get even more enemies.

So last night I met up with boyfriend, we were supposed to spend the night & Saturday morning / evening together.

Unfortunately my brother (paramedic) got called into work & he was supposed to help our father with an appointment on Saturday morning. Dad is disabled so us kids take turns on who goes with him to appointments as we're both in the medical profession.

I told my boyfriend this & apologized a number of times for the short notice. I told him you know I'd have to not stay the night but we can continue on with the rest of the plan for Saturday.

Anyway come the morning he's left where he was (he comes from another city, was at a hotel). He didn't even bother telling me he was leaving or saying goodbye. I only learnt about it by asking what was he doing & a text back of "driving".

He said he was annoyed & had woken up at 4am with "nothing to do", etc. Honestly, in all the back & forth, it seems all he cares for is the sex (why else leave)

Yes I get it but honestly it was a minor situation on my side. It's not like I waited until he was asleep after having sex & walked out on him... he knew why I left and had been okay with it that evening (he'd agreed to Saturday).

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I won't be involved with him much beyond this. I am not someone who takes kindly to emotional manipulation / abuse which, in many ways, his antics are.

So olivia and the gang are looking for a black rapist. Nice, thicc looking white lady is heading home and this kid in the dark (like me but I don't wear a hoodie, i walk in the dark) is approaching her. She tells him to get back, and she claims he got about one foot close to her before she "defends" herself by shooting him. Police get there and the kid is out cold and lady is holding the gun.

So, here's the game. You asked this kid if he wants something, he says nothing and you can't see his headphones. He enters your personal space by pushing the gate separating you two and now he can practically touch you. Sooo, how you gonna handle this?

These men are all INTERESTED in being your boyfriend and maybe something more down the line.

We have been friends for fifteen years. I received a letter from her saying hey let's have a girls night and hang out call me ! I called her three times because I am going away on a work trip she seems irritated when I answer. Her husband seems happy I called. She asks who I am and why I am calling her and that she's so so busy. Then she said Hope's I am ok and happy and she so enjoys our friendship. I rolled my eyes after that. I don't think she wrote that card after looking at it. I think her husband wrote it. I looks like his handwriting. I sent her a card and said sorry I bother her. If she doesn't want to hang it's cool just tell me you have moved on. I told I do the best I can. Maybe I am projecting I am really depressed about my life in general. Her husband said something to me at their winter wonderland bash she gave me a beautiful gift but was too busy to talk to me. Which bugged me. He said he is sorry I am a good friend and she doesn't deserve my friendship. She made out with me when she was completely wasted last year when they were separated. I was stunned and it was weird.

Maybe sometimes I act like that... lol

what are your thoughts on it

or NOT be friends with her?

Last night I couldn't believe how many girls were out without their shoes on. It seemed like everyone just forgot how to wear heels and ended up bare foot. Was it just me, or did this happen to anyone else?

Say they are pretty bad but she has a good body. Be honest lol. She’d normally shave them but forgot and the guy wouldn’t know whether she normally shaves them or not. So would it turn off a guy completely?

I was goofing off with my friends before Christmas at the mall and one had major cameltoe in her leggings. I pointed it out and we all joked with her. by the way, We don't view Cameltoe as a bad thing.

All of that led us to talking about when we first learned about Cameltoe. I think I was about 8 or 9 when my mom pointed out that I needed to fix my pajama pants because they were riding up. I was confused so she fixed them and told me that us girls had to be careful with certain types of fabrics so we don't get front wedgies.

I was probably about 10 or 11 when I learned the term caneltoe from a friend's mom who I pointed out had one in her yoga pants.

We've dated a bit but it came to seem he was more interested in sex. Something I broached & in response we arranged to go to a movie.

Come movie day we talk 3 times over the phone. He doesn't mention this friend once. Says he'll be at my place in a few hours.

Long story short he finally answers why he never showed 3 hours AFTER arriving at his friend's. 6-7 hours after we spoke about going to the movies.

Never thought about texting or calling.

And this is despite saying he loves me.

This to me proves he's only interested in sex. But he is trying to say he's not and that to find the "truth" I should be more objective. What truth? He failed to prove he cares beyond sex in my eyes.

Should I ask what truth or just block him?

I am dating this guy & though had good dates, etc. there's things that make me wonder if he is merely after sex. Like he has spoken of kids but doesn't want to meet my family.

Yesterday as example we'd planned all last week to be together Christmas. He was gunho in the morning call to meet up but then when it may not just be sexual he turned around & bailed on the meet up. I called him out on it, saying that I want more than just sex.

Today in speaking he doesn't end his conversation with "I love you" as is usual.

He works an excessive amount so I've given him some leeway but honestly I am like what is there to this relationship. He can't even make time for a movie 🙄 and yet blithering about kids, etc