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We've dated a bit but it came to seem he was more interested in sex. Something I broached & in response we arranged to go to a movie.
Come movie day we talk 3 times over the phone. He doesn't mention this friend once. Says he'll be at my place in a few hours.
Long story short he finally answers why he never showed 3 hours AFTER arriving at his friend's. 6-7 hours after we spoke about going to the movies.
Never thought about texting or calling.
And this is despite saying he loves me.
This to me proves he's only interested in sex. But he is trying to say he's not and that to find the "truth" I should be more objective. What truth? He failed to prove he cares beyond sex in my eyes.
Should I ask what truth or just block him?
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Is this the first time something like this has happened? If it is maybe give him another chance but if he has a habit doing such things definitely block him.
No. We spoke about meeting up Christmas afternoon on the phone.
When it became apparent sex was unlikely to happen he bailed then too.
That's what caused my doubts about the truth in his words. And he knew this. We spoke about it. He said it was great I was upfront.
And then he pulled this
I didn't tell him I doubted his words of love, etc
I wouldn't waste anymore time with this guy. Sorry he is being the way he is.
Yeah so am I cause I was falling in love
I know how it feels sadly for me. I spent more then 5 years dealing with such behaviour like the guy you are seeing behaviour, and I stupidly got married. Now I am pregnant and he has completely abandoned me and our baby. Only difference, if I even dare call out his bad behaviour or dare try and get to the bottom of what is going on, I would be fed a bunch of lies by him or worse he would accuse me of abusing him.
I think your gut is your best line of defence for telling you, this guy is not the guy for you. If he can even behave in such a way once or even twice. It shows your relationship is not a priority to him.
Sorry to hear that about yourself. I am fortunate in "escaping' such a relationship early then
You definitely are fortunate to leave now. You deserve better. There is guy out there who will make you one of the happiest women on this planet. This guy doesn't deserve another second of your time and he definitely doesn't deserve your love.
He is playing you, don't let him lie to you like that.
I couldn't do that, I wrote a summary & texted him. If he responds, I felt like a cheap whore waiting for him yesterday so my feelings are not what they were. If at all.
You shouldn't have wrote him, I think you will regret it.
I would agree with you but I'm not one of these desperate poor-me women. We'd already spoken about this the day before yesterday and yet he still pulled this shit yesterday despite knowing my feelings.
I mean I'd have to be pretty damn pathetic to give him much leeway after that.
He see's you as someone he can toy with, so just block him and don't worry about the how and why.
I couldn't do that, I wrote a summary & texted him. If he responds, I felt like a cheap whore waiting for him yesterday so my feelings are not what they were. If at all.
Excellent.