By "show more skin" I mean stuff like tank tops and short shorts, and by "cover up more" I mean stuff like long sleeves and long pants/jeans. As you can see in the attached photos.
I don't know why, but to me it just seems like women who show more skin are often more warm/friendly than women who cover up more. I often associate the former with smiling more often, generally hugging more and being more touchy feely, and displaying overall more extroverted and outgoing traits... and the latter more with smiling less, disliking hugs and physical contact, and displaying overall more introverted and reserved traits.
Another thing, women who show skin seem to not care when another woman decides to cover up... at most they'll ask them "aren't you feeling hot" if the temperature is high, but they'll leave it at that. However, women who cover up often seem to be quite judgmental of women who show more skin, and seem to think that they are morally superior to them. They seem to think women who show more skin are "dressing wrong" or "being slutty."
I'm not sure if this is just me/a coincidence, or if it's actually a common pattern that exists in a lot of places. Which is why I'm asking.
If it matters, I myself would usually dress something in-between the two photos. Like a t-shirt and shorts that are closer to knee-length. Though I occasionally may adopt the style shown in the photos as well, depending on the weather.
I love wearing revealing clothes though I always make sure that I looks classy. I am known for my hospitable, warm and friendly, easy going/chill kind of trait. Anyone who comes to my place usually doesn’t really want to leave lol.
From what you're describing women who show more skin being more friendly is indeed a thing, and not just a coincidence that only I picked up. While you yourself are just one person, the fact that someone else besides me notices this tells me it's not just a coincidence.
Looking at your profile picture and cover picture though... wow, you weren't kidding when you said revealing, lol. Don't get me wrong, you look absolutely lovely and have an amazing body, but is it comfortable to wear a dress with slits that high up on your thigh? Aren't you worried someone might see your underwear? I'm not dissing/judging you, it's just I don't see that style too often.
You definitely do look classy though. While you are showing a lot of leg most of the upper body is still pretty well covered up, and the style/material of the dress looks quite fancy.
Oh lol yea I didn’t wear undies when I was on this dress. The shot was taken during my vacation and it was all nearby my accommodation so I didn’t have to move around a lot. If I ever wanna wear it for dinner gala or something though, I may need to pin slightly a little of the edge so it the slit won’t be as high.
Thank you! I try to remain classy.
Wow, your warm/friendly personality is already showing quite a bit in this small interaction, lol. First of all, I gotta thank you so much for answering honestly and not getting offended at anything I wrote! Sometimes people online take what I write the wrong way, which leads to unpleasant interactions. But I'm glad you didn't!
And wow, um... no panties under such a revealing dress. Not gonna lie, because of you I literally Googled "what the fuck do women wear under really high slit dresses." Most of the results were stuff like strapless panties, c-string panties, or just really high rise/high cut panties. But it also did cross my mind that a woman could just wear nothing at all too, lol. And it turns out that's exactly what you do. And that's um... quite brave, lol. I mean plenty of women go braless, so it's not that different from going braless right? Though periods or vaginal discharge can sometimes complicate it, you just gotta be aware of your own body and you'll be fine.
At least you specified you didn't have to move around a lot though. With that in mind maybe what you're doing isn't as "dangerous" as I envision, lol. If you're not moving around a lot you're gonna be covered up anyway, and not in any awkward position that could give someone "a show."
And ah yes. To a dinnger gala I'd imagine you would want the slit a little less high. Especially if you're going with no underwear, lol.
And no problem! Your style is definitely very classy to me!
May I ask though... you are Indian right? Aren't Indian people usually conservative and covered up? Do people judge you harshly for dressing different than the majority? Though your profile says you're in Malaysia, so things may be different than I think.
Yea some people can be sensitive over petty stuffs that strangers said online lol. I don’t take things too seriously if it is just a general discussion. People can have different views on how they see things. Gag has different people around the world so I don’t expect everyone to haves similar mindset.
Yea, tbh there are many outfit that require you to go without undies or bra. I am always braless nowadays in public. It feels more comfortable. I usually get vagina discharge before period so I will be aware of what I wanna wear outside.
I am Indian yes, but was born in Malaysia. It is a Muslim country but multiracial. You’re free to dress however you want but be ready to get stared by the people around you lol. Just need to be confident. My family is the progressive type so they don’t mind much about my choice of dressing.