Questions: Girl's Behavior

I liked to dress my small brother who is 7 years smaller than me. He initially didn't like it when my mother first made him wear my old frock at 8 years old. He even hit me that day because I laughed at him but it didn't hurt me much. So, I didn't hit him back but I blackmailed him using his pictures, to dress him up again as revenge for hitting me but slowly I stated loving the power I have over him. I used to tell him that I will never reveal his secret but he had to do a lot of favors for me and sometimes I made him dance in my dresses. I dressed him till he was 13 . He was not afraid of me blackmailing him after some time. In fact, he started to enjoy wearing dresses himself. I too love to make him look like a girl. Is it normal for a girl to like to see brother in female dresses and is it normal for a boy to like wearing female dresses?

And by the way...

It's not okay to fault him for having and expressing feelings, or being vulnerable, or deeply caring about something, or being disappointed, or being afraid. He's human, just like you. And shunning him for it is a shitty thing to do. It hurts him just as much as you hurt, when you're not supported, and treated like shit. There is no difference in the pain.

So why do some of you not like it, why do some of you lose attraction to him?
I'll answer what you will never say. Because you think he must be stronger than you. Why? Because you feel weak, yourself, and because if he's not strong, all the time, then you can't be weak and vulnerable. That's the real truth. It's not about his masculinity.

"I have been mocked and have had my emotions used against me by both men and women. Vulnerability is only good when exercised properly depending on who you are with. Do it the wrong way, you get punished."

So next time, instead of telling him, or implying 'man up', maybe you should 'woman up.' Get stronger, so you're not reliant on him to always be the only emotionally strong one.

If you don't, and you teach guys that being vulnerable to you is only going to backfire and cause problems, they're going to stay closed off, not trust you (or any of us), and feel that the greatest gift that women used to offer guys - compassion, support, tenderness... doesn't exist anymore. And that will be on you. On those of you who reject men for showing any sign of vulnerability. You want this?

And this?

He's also these...

I'm giving y'all anon on this one. Speak your mind. But be constructive. I'm getting fed up with all the rage and toxicity.