It can be sexual or even just to show affection.
Would y’all say that is something that could make you fall for a woman?
do men really love that kinda thing?
There's a woman's touch, and then there's a woman's touch.
The touch of a masseuse is more pleasant than the touch of a masseur, but the touch a woman who is emotionally connected to me is an entirely different feeling.
Yes, the touch of a woman who shares an emotional bond with me is an added component to my falling in love with her.
Just touch. no. not in love.
It's just one peace of many to be able to trigger in love.
It could be the missing peace to fall in love. to get over the edge.
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Yes, absolutely. When my fiance touches, and kisses me, I know that it's absolutely genuine!! I am an incredibly lucky man.
Yes same for me, the guy I mentioned in my question he did all those things for me and that’s how I fell for him he don’t even realize it
Touch and time is the way to make me feel most loved!
Every time my fiance just looks at me and smiles or tells me she loves me i get emotional and feel very fragile. Not to mention every time she sends me a message telling me how much she wants me and needs me in her life... some of those actually make me cry. I'm not perfect but she sees me as the perfect person for her. That feels me up every day and gives me that extra strength to keep fighting and to be a better person for her. I used to feel dead inside and lost my fear of death a long time ago. Even got married to the wrong person for no reason. But everything changed around 2 years ago when i had a car accident that helped my marriage to end. My own wife was very hurtful to me but her words and actions made me get out and try to live life once more and i woke up... still feeling empty inside and not afraid of death. Was involved in 3 shootings and kept calm all the time. Even covered my little brother and cousin at the sugar loaf mills fair shooting 4 months ago. The shooter was less than 10ft away from us and calmly covered them and got them out of trouble. Everything changed when my now fiance started putting interest in my life and worried about my well being. I still don't know how someone so fragile actually worries about my well being. Even after i told her all my flaws. She still protects me, worries about me and let's me know every day how much i mean to her. That makes me feel blessed every day and brought meaning to my life. I'm even looking for a more profitable, less dangerous line of work
@coby that’s so genuine.
I understand yeah it means a lot when the person you’re with is not all about sex, the person you’re with and love should touch your heart before just being with you in the bed.
Like you women, we enjoy touch as well and it can be powerful, but I wouldn't say "make you fall in love with her". You can love that about her though. There's so much more to loving someone. It would be a little silly to base it on that alone. Example if I guy went to a hooker, he could love the way she touches him also, but should he fall in love with her because of it? Absolutely not! lol
And a personal example, that kind of says "yes" to both of our views, my ex fwbs was fantastic. I feel for her and yes partly for that, her touch and the intimacy I felt with her was very strong. I thought it was mutual, but how very wrong I was. She didn't even respect me, never mind share any of my feelings. So you have to be very careful.
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I love when a woman does all that for me. Not because I want her to but because she cares enough about me to do that for me. A womans touch doesn't make me fall in love with her. The womans personality and the kindness in her heart makes me fall in love with a woman.
I LOVE that kind of stuff. I can't say that it will be the only reason I would fall in love with her for. But its a huge part of the commitment conversation.
Potentially. It'd make me attracted to her or turn me on, but more than just that would be needed for love.
i dont think so, with me if i see she's a genuinely great person and respects people and is fun to be around and is attractive to me then she has my heart.
True, I guess it depends on the person and what makes them feel loved. Not every body feels loved by touch. Me on the other hand he did all that for me and it’s how I fell for him. It’s not always vice versa.
Nope my massage therapist is female and I don't fall in "love" with her, in fact it took me a long time to find a massage therapist who can consistently use the same pressure during all our sessions without me having to say apply more or less, also it took me a long time to get used to her touching my shoulders, there's not another person out there I would allow to touch my shoulders.
That's not how guys fall in love. Guys fall in love based on your looks (to a degree) and your personality (more than you'd think). But if we already have those feelings for a girl, we definitely enjoy and appreciate her touches.
No. Sometimes my kids use to walk on my back when they were toddlers. I miss that more than backrubs. Touch is good. But benefit. Not the reason less your blind.
Yea touching is the fast track to intimacy. Just be confident and do it. If someone doesn't like it they'll tell you.
definitely. But it's gonna have to be the sluttiest kind of touching for me tbh
Yes it doesn't even have to be sensual.
Just the feeling of woman wanting to touch you is enough
For me it's that simple touch on the cheek while looking into my eyes. Kinda like she's checking the smoothness of ur shave.
No. Do men who go for happy-ending massages fall in love with their "masseuses"? Higher chance of falling in love via eye contact and smiling.
For me it's more about her personality and how we fit together.
No. All a women’s touch does is dumb oxytocin into our brains. Love is not a chemical reaction.
Yes,
I think so because when a girl stroke my arm and keeps touching me theirs a feeling i have which never had before. I fallen in love with her
That’s how my man fell in love 🤷🏻♀️
I ask this question cause I like this guy a lot and he try and pretend he don’t like me, but he let me give him back rubs, foot rubs, hand massage, scalp massages feed him,
And he even used to eat off my plate, drink after me…., and I’m like dude you know you like me.
I think he does like me but pretending to not like me. Why else would he allow that and want that?
He may just like the attention you are giving him. When a guy says he doesn’t like you, you kind of need to believe it.
That’s true
He didn’t even say he didn’t like me tho
When I was younger yeah.
Not now lol! All those things you mentioned would just make me suspicious. Because women are predators. If she's doing that you best believe there's an angle.
True. Depends on the relationship.
So if it’s someone you’re already close to would it be different for you? Like say a friend you’ve been knowing for a years or what not
No. Because I'm different now. I don't believe in love. I believe in good circumstances. And the minute someone finds better circumstances they pursue those. If a woman I was closed to all of a sudden started taking a liking to me I'd be like "why now"? Pretty sure it's about you and not about us.
Become attract to? Easily yes!
Fall in love with? That’s much more complicated.
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