Am I sexist for prefering virgin men and rejecting non virgin men?

[hi_it_is_me123]

I have been called sexist and feminazi by mgtow/redpill cunts just because i prefere virgin guys. I call them mgtow/redpill cunts since they talk like a typical mgtow guys that hate modern women and see non young virgin girls as leftovers and only good for sex and they also watched some redpill/mgtow content on youtube. They told me that men can't be cunts and their bodycount should not matter. Sorry for sounding angry but this is the third time i am approached by a redpill cunt that threated me after rejecting him. All of them only like my youth, innocent petite looks, modest clothes and my zero bodycount which disgusted me.
Whatever am i really a sexist? I can't control how i feel and i am not hypocritical. I dont know why i can't like promiscuos or non virgin guys. If i am a sexist, i am sorry then

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I realized that this post may be sexist towards men. So i am sorry for it. I did not mean to be sexist

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These hypocritical sexist guys who approached me were not necassarily promiscuos but they had sexist views and admit that they agree with mgtow content. Most of them only want virgin girls although they ain't virgins. For me a manhoe is a cheater, player who play with people's feelings to have sex/money and hypocritical sexist people. I would be ok if they did not shame on non virgin girls and only prefered virgins but they shame on every woman who does not fit their dating preferences.

[Dchrls78104]

No, you are not; but that raises this question: Are you a virgin?

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes, i am not hypocritical

[EaterPeter]

Not sexist in my opinion.

[EaterPeter]

Thanks for MHO!

[EaterPeter]

What do you mean when you say virgin men. You mean multiple guys?

[InventorofWarp]

This is fuckin' weird since I've literally always experienced the opposite: I've been flat-out dumped for having no experience by a younger girl even who thought I'd be too much "work" or "effort".
Really hit my self-esteem for a couple years.
Only in the last year did I really get okay with myself and even then I still have insecurities and thoughts that get to me about it like such"
-"My best younger years are behind me spent waiting for someone who'll never come".
-"I'm ugly and unattractive".
-"The older I get the weirder it gets and now I'm at the point in my life where so much has passed and I've done so much, how the hell will I explain it all to someone properly and get someone to actually see me and realize what I was like as a boy?"

Frankly I don't think there's anyone out there anymore who'll be able to convince me that they actually see me and genuinely want to put in the effort to get to know me. I also had my close friend (and crush) tell me it's not 'cause I'm ugly that I've never had someone interested before but because my personality sucked because according to her I'm hot.
That's bullshit though because I know I was a good kid, I was a kind, decent boy and I know that. She doesn't.
Besides it's an easier pill for me to swallow to think that I'm ugly and either she's wrong or everyone from my schools is wrong.

I would think the reverse of this would be more common.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Yes, i believe you. You are probably a western guy. I dont know i like virgin guys since it is special for me that he gives me his first time

[HugoThe2nd]

It's ok to hold that stance, but I'm afraid you have got it a bit wrong.
Most of those red pillers and mgtow are themselves virgins, all that resentment towards women is fueled by the lack of success with women and subsequent jealousy over the fact that other people are more successful sexually and romantically.

Very few promiscuous and sexually liberal men have this double standard that you are fixated on.
Sexually liberal people like other sexually liberal people, they don't care about other people's sexual behaviors or their body counts.

It's all the fucks who don't get laid in the first place who shit on other people's sexual behavior.
Because, again, it's jealousy.

[wankiam]

you like what you like and you have your own path... thats fine by me but i wonder how you judge me because im a chronic masturbater and porn addict... after all thats what i like and its the path i have chosen. my point being, i wonder if this is a question about judging others or just a comment on the fact you dont like being judged eventhough you may do it yourself

[hi_it_is_me123]

I dont judge you. Virgins can mastrubate a lot too

[wankiam]

well thats good then but im far from a virgin lol

[anylolone]

Why would that be sexist?
You have a preference.
If virgin men are in any way like virgin women, you have a stupid preference, but a preference.

I find odd that incels or MGTOW would call you sexist about it, specially given your motivations.

[hi_it_is_me123]

These mgtow guys expect from women to be virgins while they dont want to remain virgin. Stupid preference? Thank you for stupid post then. I am not hypocritical. I am also virgin.

[anylolone]

I never called hypocritical. Selective standards one doesn't meet does not make hypocrisy alone.
Expecting those standards to be met is what does.
But it makes even more sense, given that you are also a virgin.

And yeah, stupid preference, it's, ultimately a shot in the foot, but given you are also a virgin, it makes sense, it becomes less dumb, it does makes sense.

I met virgin chasers who were not hypocritical, men and women. But they weren't disparaging non-virgins and demanding the world to provide.

But I find those MGTOW you met quite weird... and also incels?
Most self professed male incels are virgins who want virgins, at least that I've seen in the forums between them cursing me as a "chad".

[hi_it_is_me123]

But these incels want to loose their virginity and has sexist views. I also care about personality and not just virginity

[hi_it_is_me123]

Cursing you as chad? This is more weird. This is a compliment. Some of your points are stupid and idiotic. I also respect non virgins. I rarely slutshame anyone. I only slut-shame cheaters, people who play with people's feelings to get sex and money etc. Sorry

[hi_it_is_me123]

For me anyone with sexist views are incel. I dont care about their bodycount

[anylolone]

Well, that's quite retarded.

I'm not saying the body count matters, it doesn't, most self professed female incels, and quite a few self professed male incels aren't really celibate, but at the very least they much bitch about being single and demand the world to fix it.

Calling MGTOWs incel is oxymoronic (if those are even MGTOWs), going monk (IE, celibacy) is venerated in those circles. Just being able to go monk for extended periods of time is a venerable atribute unto itself.

You speak as an involuntary celibate, for what I could gather, but not that involuntary, virgin men are plentiful.

[hi_it_is_me123]

Stop acting stupid and stop being retard. Incel are seen as mostly woman hating inviduals and so are mgtows. By your logic feminazis dont hate men. Whatever mgtows and incels has a bad reputation due to their antiwoman views. I dont want to discuss anymore. I really dont get you right now

[anylolone]

Nope, that's not how language works. If you want to use incel as a slur, congratulations.
But started with incel as a group, not a slut, and MGTOW as a group, not a slur.

As a group, it doesn't matter how they are seen, but what they are (not even how they define themselves, by the way) and that's how it works with any other freely associated group of people.

Feminazis is also a slur, but it's a different kind of slur reserved to someone who's a feminist, but technically can be used for anyone, as slurs are very flexible.

Also, we aren't discussing if they have a bad reputation or not, certainly incel bad reputation is earned, but an incel is an incel, you can't use it as a group and then pretend it's interchangeable with the slur.

It's like saying you achieved self powered flight because you got drunk and wanting to be taken seriously. Those two "high"s are completely different beasts.

It would be like calling a cunt an anti-feminist a feminazi just because the cunt is misandric and then trying to dodge the fact that the cunt ain't a feminist or even feminist like.

[Yourfriend2021]

It's ok to like who you want. But for example, you fall in love with a virgin and it's working out for a while but then someone cheats. Now neither is a virgin and you are in the same category as the ones you don't like. Watch what happens in life after you lose your virginity and ask yourself this in 30 years..

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Everyone has their own preferences, nothing wrong with it.

[Dchrls78104]

Well said.

[Dazed0N0Confused]

I wouldn't call it sexism, but it sure as hell limits your dating pool.

[SupremeWarlord]

No, that doesn't have anything to do with sexism, if you're being unfair to anyone, you're being unfair to non-virgin guys. But since this is about your preferences, there's no right and wrong.

[LogicBomber]

Virgin men are losers. NO male chooses to be a virgin, regardless of what they tell you. They are weird and lack certain social skills and personality.

[FullAfterburner]

I'm a virgin man. It can bother me, but I've been trying to turn my life around and be happy without anyone else to rely on. It is quite lonely though.

[GingerGuy]

It's a preference, that's it. It'll limit your dating "pool" of guys, but it's just a preference.

[DaveToo]

No offense taken. Of course, I'm far from being a virgin so that puts me well outside your sexual preference parameters.

[ForgottenFuRyan]

No, that's perfectly fine and I'm a redpill MGTOW cunt, myself.

[Jackblue]

I have my doubts about what you are saying since red pilled guys to my knowledge are virgins usually.

[marc94]

No, you're not. Rejecting non-virgin men has nothing to do with sexism.

[Pulseofsulfur]

It's not sexism it's more of sexual preference. Like I'm still a virgin and wanting to lose it to the right woman.

[Gustav1]

Nope. I prefer virgin women too, seeing that I am a virgin man too...

[Open2It]

Someone needs to look up the definition of sexist...

[Ironcricket111]

You honestly sound a little crazy lol so I don't know what to tell you

[hi_it_is_me123]

I dont understand idiotic people like you who shame on for my preferences

[LadyCroft]

lol no you're just being stupid

[hi_it_is_me123]

Lol and you are an idiot for shaming me for my preferences

[Bean2k]

I prefer sluts who know how to do laundry.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, you are definitely not sexist.

[red_knight]

Greedy but not sexist lol

[TallAnon]

Nah, you do you fam