Polls: Girl's Behavior

NOTE: guys and girls are welcome to answer this question.

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I have noticed many guys in real life (not just guys on GaG) tend to go for more introverted girls vs. "extroverted" girls.

Extroverted as in highly sociable, outspoken, and overall radiating more "social self-confidence" in terms of appearance and self-assurance for the world to see.

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My theory about this is that these guys that prefer the more shy/quiet, introverted girls...

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...is that these guys find them "easier targets" than girls that are more sociable, bold, and have a stronger aura of self-confidence in their appearance and themselves in general.

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The idea of "easier target" can be viewed different ways, including:

1) less "intimidation" to initially approach (however you define this)

2) presumption of lower self-confidence in introverted girls = she'll have lower standards

3) introverted nature = easier to "control" in a dating/relationship scenario

4) the lower level of "social self-confidence" of the shy/quiet girl = she is going to attract less "male competitors" than the more extroverted females

5) etc. [any factors that I may have overlooked]

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My question to you is; do you believe that my theory in the question is true for the majority (as in more than 50%) of the guys that prefer more "shy/quiet" girls over extroverted ones?

Feel free to refer to the numerical points in my answer by their respective number in your answer.

Thanks for your input. 8-)

Ladies when texting someone when you put a kiss ..x..on a end of a message does it mean anything. Does an amount of kisses mean anything? I'm trying to get back with ex and now and then she puts an kiss on the end of the messages

Do you care if your guy knows how to fix a car or build a deck? My girlfriend seems to think it's hot. When I'm doing something like that, my girlfriend always snaps a picture without me knowing it. She's taken pictures of me installing my hardwood floors, installing garden wall stones, building shelves in the garage and fixing the car. She says the workbench in the garage with my hundreds of tools hanging from the pegboard or on shelves is very manly. In contrast, her sister's husband doesn't do any of that stuff. He calls a guy to hang a picture on the wall or fix a leaky toilet. However, I'm not sure whether my girlfriend is in the minority of girls or not. I'm almost tempted to say that most girls don't care one way or another. Is this true?

Alright, so I've been talking to this girl for awhile now. she's extremely introverted, and has never dated before. Which is odd, as she could have any guy she wanted. But, that's beside the point.

Anyways, things were going great, we went out to dinner which went very well, and as we were splitting up she asked me when I was leaving to go back to my university, and said we should meet up before we both go back...

But now whenever I text her(not often, nor do I reply quickly usually) she does not reply. Or she takes a day or two, and will reply to a message with 'Sorry! I was blah blah blah so I didn't text back until now'. And That will be the last message she sends.

If she were any other girl, I would take it as a hint to kindly f*** off, however with her I'm not sure. Does she just want me to call her? (I'm heavily an introvert as well, and there are few things I dislike more than phone-calls)

Anyways, what do you all think?

I'm a strong believer that every single human has at least some good in them. And I feel like that helps me a bit in judging people less, which I feel is a really important thing in life. I often get a lot of hate for saying something like this, but even for people like Hitler or Osama bin Laden, I feel like they have at least some good in them. I'm sure Hitler gave some people hugs haha. I'm sure bin Laden brought joy to some people (and not by harming others).

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So I have been dating this girl for about six months now and while things have been good, they have been far from great. When we first started our relationship, things were going quite well, she was a sweetheart, would say nice things about me and never really questioned what I was doing.

That being said, she also would call me on my cellphone, my house phone, wherever I went, she'd get the number and would call to check up on me. Now, while this might seem nice at first, it became quite odd and my family and friends began to question why she felt the need to call me every two to three hours whenever I was free to talk to me.

As time went by it began to become like it was almost too intrusive and overbearing and got in the way of my livelihood, would keep me up late at night when I had work the next morning, was unable to go to the gym because it would upset her that she didn't get to talk to me during the day, etc.

I have slowly tried to ween her off of calling me all the time, I am comfortable with texting as I am able to do other things, like go out with my friends to a game and not be attached at the ear canal, but she will message me on Twitter, Facebook, Skype, inbox me, text me, call my phone, call my house, call my friend's phone until she gets a response.

If I do not respond to her right away, I can be sure that the next time that we are together that at some point, whether it be while I am asleep, showering, on the toilet that my phone is going to get checked to see what I am doing, who I am texting, what I have said. She'll often confuse playful banter between coworkers and friends as flirtatious and has accused me of cheating on her on multiple occasions, which I have not and have no intentions of doing.

I have warned her that her continuation of accusing me of cheating is going to pry us apart and that we will not work out if she cannot trust me and yet she continues to say things that sound like she does not trust me, asking me who I am talking to and tells me not to talk to other girls or cheat on her everyday.

I am looking to generate some more space between us, not emotionally, but in the time we spend interacting because it has gotten to the point where she calls and I'll let out a sigh of exhaustion from talking to her so much.

How should I handle this situation? Am I doing something that is clearly in the wrong that I am overlooking or is she really just far too clingy?