Polls: Girl's Behavior

i was always though that a humble person is a person who doesn't care about being the best at everything, never looks for any type of entitlement, and never sees money as a priority which is where it gets confusing for me, because I think of myself as a humbled person because I really don't care about money, but I do like to wear nice clothing, etc, so does this make me materialistic? I mean the opposite of humble is "arrogant" rather then materialistic. so can you actually be these two things at once?

...or guys with muscular legs to match their big pecs?

To be more specific-- Captain Upperbodies are those guys that go to the gym on Monday for national Bench Press Day.. then go to the gym on Tuesday for national Bench Press Day part 2. Guys who completely ignore lower body workouts and only focus on, those so important to be sexy, pecs (and granted, good pecs generate a very pleasant looking upper body).

I know I've biased this question already quite a bit.. but what do you think?

Fit upper body, with small legs

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Overall fitness (and to be fair, ignore the fact that Mirko's upperbody is sexier)

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Lots of people say "the bigger the hoop, the bigger the hoe" when describing earring styles.

Now, I think that's taking things a little too far. But, some psychologists found that different personality types gravitated towards different earrings styles. People with big personalities that loved attention gravitated towards hoops. Different personalities wanted other styles.

With that in mind, what would say about girls who don't have pierced ears at all? What kind of personality do you think they've had? What are your girl friends without earrings like?

Do you believe being serious is a good or bad thing?

Explain if you vote. Please/thanks.

It bothers you when you have to obey a lot of rules? This is yet another question to one of those job assessment tests at the end of an application. So pretend you are answering from that perspective

Choose from the following options:

Why would some girls stare and not talk (nor smile) to me ?

I am mostly quiet/shy sort of person, so why would some girls stare at me ? I look at them back ... still they don't talk and smile ...

I mean , why to look at me when you don't want to talk and smile ... just passing me a weird look ?

Also, those girls aren't shy too .. they are really outgoing and they go and talk to every other guy .

What is that all about ?

ALL GIRLS , TELL AS TO WHY YOU WOULD DO THAT PERSONALLY

Also, guys comments are welcome too .

Girlfriend is irrational, erratic, and hurtful during her period. How do I respond?
8 months together, she's perfect for me 3 weeks out of the month. she's responsible, loyal, calm, easy to talk to, loving, and I can really tell she cares about me as much as herself, as do I her. But damn, everything just goes downhill on that fourth week, she'll turn something I'd say that's trivial and not even remotely offensive to her into a huge fight, as in every comment I make about anything is an insult to her. She'll change her tone every other sentence (Ex: Ignoring > Angry > Quiet > Angry > Apologetic > Quietly angry) and I think what bothers me the most is she'll accuse me of completely irrational things, and then I feel both guilty and angry because while I feel bad for making her feel that way I know its entirely wrong. So what can I do? As a fairly level headed male I can't even begin to understand how someone can be this subjected to their hormones. I know this isn't her, she's a complete sweetheart and rarely gets angry at me, even when I deserve it. Can I blame her for this? Do I get mad at her and fight back when she starts this? Do I avoid her? Any detailed answers are greatly appreciated, but a Yes or no is fine too, so poll question: Is this her fault? Do I hold this against her?

...how much truth, in your opinion, is in the statement stated above?

I frankly believe there is a lot of truth to this statement.

There are plenty of times that I've noticed a female date a guy, that was obviously & genuinely "bad"...yet she get involved with, & stays with, him because of some imaginative "goodness" that NOBODY else she knows ever seems to see.

On the flipside, I've seen a female date a guy that is a overall good-looking dude, and is the idealistic boyfriend in all ways. However, I've seen the female in question:

1) randomly get "cold feet" about the relationship, when there are no glaring problems within it

2) she intensely searches for serious flaws in the guy's personality/character, when there are non there

3) she picks fights over very small stuff (or the "created" traits "found" in #2) to "create" problems in the relationship

Share your thoughts, please. Since this subject can be, um, touchy...anonym answers are allowed.

Thanks for your input. :)

There's this girl I've been dating here an there.. A month ago id ask her a lot of times to go out like once a week.. But I've been doing it less and less.. Giving her time to ask me out

Ill ask her to go on a date and she's there.. Happy smiling.. What have you.. But she has never asked me out on a date.. Why not?

Last month I asked like once or twice..

Ive told stories on here about what happens on our dates.. Nothing sexual but I've been told jokingly to get a room.. :)

And my friends who met her and we talked to for several hours told me after she left that "you should date her she really likes you" I paused and told them.. "that was a date we went to the mall before even meeting up with them"

I told them "shes told me I'm not the guy for her" the turned to me, mind you there a married couple, "my wife said that to me.. And if she's going on dates still.. She likes you"

So how is it that she's never asked me out?

Should I just keep asking her out and see what happens?

On a side note/question

I sent her a text a week before the county fair telling her about the special prices for each day to get in.. But forgot to actually ask her to go.. When the subject of the fair came up she told me she wanted to go but she was busy and I never asked her.. I said I swore I did (I asked everyone I could to go with me I thought.. but I must have missed her.. :( .. I was sad I thought she didn't want to go cause I never heard from her)

Anyway I said I thought I did.. And she checked her phone right there in front of me.. And said nope you didn't you just said what days had specials and then nothing..

Later that night I checked my phone and yeo I didn't send anything asking her to go :( sad.. I thought I did.. I went alone to the fair

Views? Did she really want me to ask her and sad or upset because I didnt?

My friends, the married couple, told me about another fair not to far away in about a week.. They told me to ask her to it to make up for the last one.. Will she go you think? And I'm not asking you "hey do you think she will.. Becuse you don't know.. I'm asking do you think she wants to go out with me from what you read?