Ideally I like a balance. But If I had to pick, I usually prefer the more innocent and quite types. I definitely don't like the party girl who wants to get drunk 7 nights a week.
I think part of this has to do with age. Being older and out of school, I want a girl who is similar to me in maturing and parting 7 days a week is not mature.
I also find there to be a correlation between this habit and a persons morals. The girl who parties every night is way more likely to cheat on me, or be an all around bad person (bitchy, no life goals, causes drama, etc.). Same reason I prefer not to meet a girl at a bar or club and much rather meet her through a mutual friend or at a place like a coffee shop, book store, work, etc. Just more likely she is genuine.
It's hard to answer this question because I always think girls that tend to like to party are hot, but I strongly dislike how they're so adamant about partying... It's like all they ever seem to want to do and if you don't, you're a loser. It's that immature "I'm cool, you're not" attitude that makes an attractive girl completely unattractive, for me.
But I do like a shy, more homely girl as long as she's cute. She can like to party a bit too, I don't care... given that I'm around the right people I like to let loose and have fun too, but don't let it freakin' take over your dating/social life... which SO many girls do...
I'm a quiet girl. I like to stay home and play games or watch a movie and then there's sometimes if I'm in the mood for it, a party girl.
My boyfriend was a partier. But now he's a quiet guy and likes to play games. We're getting old. Too old for parties all the time.
But my sister, she's a huge partier! She goes out every night. That would kind of get boring and expensive for me.
A certain type of guy answers questions on a website like this. The results can not be generalized for the whole male population.
you do realize there are more than two types of women right?
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You do need a mix between the two. The "party girl" for the nights out and the "shy girl" for the rest of the time.
(And when I say party girl, I mean a fun girl who doesn't mind a drink, but knows her limits. Party girl doesn't mean messed up drunk.)
I'm currently trying to be with a party girl right now, only problem is she's way into partying to be with me. I'm not sure how it's gonna work out or even what kind of girl she really is deep down. Still I can tell she has a good heart and that's enough for me to wanna be with her.
I want the devil in bed, angel in public girl. You know, the girl who looks like she can't possibly have sinned in her gloriously pious life, yet indulges in every sacrilegious act that would leave a satanist blushing during sex?
I don't like party girls at all. Almost a fancy way to say "prostitute" but not quite. I am not saying all of them are like that but the moderate to extreme ones definitely are. Each person is unique so I wouldn't automatically disqualify them for a serious relationship but 95% get disqualified. I don't mind little partying ( as in knowing your limits and doing it once in a while. Also not loosing your modesty or decency at it. Partying should not automatically be an excuse to act loose).
If I had to pick, I would choose a girl who spends her time reading, working, doing charitable stuff and either exercises or participates in sports for fun ( Sports or whatever her hobbies are...even video-gaming). A girl with a good heart and a level-headed mind who can think for her-self, does not compromise her standards, has integrity and does not follow the crowd like a mindless sheep!
I'd have to say niether. I don't want a crazy party girl or a shy quiet one. Just one that knows how to have a good time regardless of her environment or what she's doing.
If anything, I would prefer the quieter one who wanted to go out occasionally. Not painfully shy that she didn't enjoy meeting with other people, but not always insistent on being the center of attention either. A balance is good.
i think quiet girls are more considerate , thoughtful ,caring ,etc . when dating with them ,its more interesting to know her little by little ,because she won't tell you all the thing of her .
I definetely would prefer a quiet girl if she wasn't so much of a coward and show attraction as well and didn't leave me guessing all the time. Heeey at least party girls know what they want and are not afriad to get it, that's pretty hot to me.
eh both have uos and downs. the quiet and shy girl can be hard to get to know... whearas the party girl is typically outgoing and stuff...
i guess it'd depend lifelong partner, id say shy
quick date & f*** type thing id say party girl
Of those two types, I'd probably have more in common with the quiet type. I never really enjoy myself at parties, though being a non-drinker will do that.
what about the metropolitan social butterfly? a girl who knows her city, can hang with even the most awkward people and parties moderately is just about the hottest thing that's not the sun
some where in the middle, I would would find no interest in dating party girl but I would gladly be friends with her. a shy girl in my opinion seems more of the kinda girl I would date
in real life most guys go for the party girls. its a fact.
im a quiet girl myself, I know what I'm talking about :D
it does seem that most guys go for the party type..but the quiet girl usually gets the better guy in the end. I prefer a mix of both types..party in moderation...lol
It depends on their own personality. I'm a quite guy, which is why I'd prefer a quiet girl, compared to an outgoing one who might be "bored" when it comes to dating.
Got to have a balance between the two, but I'd prefer more toward the quieter and shy end of the spectrum...I would only use a party girl for sex.
Party girl is for fun and messing around with. Gamer and stay home girl to date.
O.k, we prefer sure thing chicks, we are a couple (guy & Girl) who want to try something a bit different, maybe barking up the wrong tree here but willing to give it a shot. We both into a great party & enjoy our time together. We ain't into control freaks so that's out of the question. If you both want a good time, then we are for you, we will send a pic on request. Thanks. US. :()
some where in between. lean toward the party type but really more important is adventurous. That, pretty girl, is a whole 'nother smoke...
A bit of a balance. Gamer girls always win though :)
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