Most Helpful Guy
A girl that won’t drink smoke or party is a no go for me. She seems prudish and or fearful. I’d prefer a girl who doesn’t have a problem with and will partake in drinking, smoking, or partying but chooses to do it when she feels comfortable. For example: putting out my cigarette and telling me I shouldn’t do that or your breaking up with me=horrible controlling asshole. Refusing a cigarette I offered and deciding to go inside until I finish because the smell bothers you=girl I might stop smoking to date. Stopping me from drinking with my friends=buzzkill loser. Choosing to be the DD and asking to leave when being sober around a bunch of drunk people gets too taxing=cool person worth respecting. Saying no to marijuana and avoiding being around it=person I have no problem with because it’s illegal and not for everyone I get it. Spouting of facts about the dangers of weed and how only (insert condescending term) do it even though you’ve never tried it=annoying naive kid I probably won’t ever date. Drinking /smoking/partying until you pass out uncontrollably in unsafe place or create some type of public disturbance=person I avoid. So it’s not really about the acts of smoking drinking or partying that I judge you on but rather how you go about doing it
Most Helpful Girl
I don't mind people who don't drink, I have a few friends who are like that, but I think I would be more compatible with someone who does. I drink almost every weekend, I smoke, and I take light drugs occasionally, so I don't think someone like you and someone like me would ''click'' in a relationship.