Do guys prefer a relaxed, chill girl or more of a party girl?

[Anonymous]

I'm more of a chill girl but lately I've been going out clubbing with my friends. I met this guy and we were talking for about 3 months when he told me that I'm not the girl he thought I was because I go out almost every Saturday. But I met him at the club and now I'm confused. If I were in a relationship I obviously wouldn't go out (as much). What do guys really prefer?

[Argos]

I prefer more chill. Clubs aren't my scene but a lot of guys are different. It is ridiculous that he met you at a club and then things differently of you because you still go to clubs. It implies that he only went to the club because he was single.

But ya, a girl that is more chill than wild is ideal for me because large groups get annoying to me and days/nights in can be more fun than any night out.

[TimePhantom]

I don't like girls that go out and party that much. I don't like to go party every weekend and I don't think that our personalities would mesh. When a girl tells me she parties a lot I would think she is more crazy, promiscuous, and less classy.

[Gregs]

I prefer a quiet girl to date and clubbing girls just to have fun with. No big on girls who go clubbing since most of the are a little insecure and attention seeking and hence high maintenance so are no good to any relationship

[JBird1000]

I prefer a more chill girl. One who doesn't go bar hopping every night or to the clubs. I don't mind every once in a while, but every night is to much. so chill is more for relationships then party type girls.