When you organize a party, do you prefer to invite guys or girls? Or both?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

For tonight I specified to my buddy I prefer to have a 3 girl to 1 guy ratio, I'm putting the money for this party and I don't want a sausage party Iol.
What about you?

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+1 y

Already had to kick out a girl who brought her boyfriend who was not invited.
We had told she had to notify us by this afternoon if she wanted to bring someone else along, especially a guy.
But apparently it's difficult to understand basic instructions.

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+1 y

It went very well, had the most fun in playing some pranks on the guests and making penalties based games - drink vodka with pepper , throwing flour and grounded bread on someone, make a girl try out a Cohiba and see the faces she made.
I'll surely organize bigger parties with more fun games in the future.

[OlderAndWiser]

How interested to attend are the girls if they know the ratio will be 3 girls:1 guy?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

They were interested. Got at least 10 while we were three guys.
I think the free alcohol, food and other stuff really launched it, we had music on well into the morning.

[OlderAndWiser]

Was your fiance at the party?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Nope.
I invited her, but she didn't want to come.

[OlderAndWiser]

That is strange. Did she give a reason for not attending?

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She doesn't particularly like the environment I work in and the friends I have there.
She says she doesn't mind too much as long as I keep it far from her and don't get hurt myself.

[OlderAndWiser]

Many women would be too jealous or suspicious to tolerate you being at a party with young ladies unaccompanied.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She trusts me because she knows very well I have the sex drive of a chair and I find that stuff disgusting.

[HiveBee]

The trick is to invite a lot of gay guys and they will bring their female friends.

Every party I've been to with the most girls, also had a few gay guys there as well. Any other party was a sausage party with like one girl who disappears soon after she came.

I've even been to parties where I was the one who brought the only girls. And I'm not the kind of guy who can do such a thing. I'm not cool or a ladies man or anything like that. So it makes it extra sad and pathetic when it was ME who brought the girls lol.

[hi_it_is_me123]

What is your fiance saying to this? I dont know if you still have a fiance but would you be ok if your girlfriend/fiance make a party which only have guys as guests. I dont understand your intention especially that you only invite girls when you are taken. I personally would only invite people i really know well

[hi_it_is_me123]

But if your fiance is ok, i dont care. It is your both decision. Each their own.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She was ok with it because she knows I don't like women that way and I'm frigid as a ice cube.
She was less ok with the copious drinking mixed with other stuff.

[Poppykate]

You are no longer a bachelor, so why does your party need to have more girls than guys? Sounds like a dud party with such restrictions! 🤔

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I just don't like guys I don't know... I prefer girls.

[Poppykate]

What did your fiancée say about the party? Did she have a good time? 🤔

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She didn't come but she was okay with it.
She still wasn't happy about how much I drank and used other stuff though.

[WhiteSteve]

In my extensive experience as party-thrower and as a bar manager... invite women, and men will show up, don’t worry, haha. I usually would invite my closest buddies, but the majority of the invites were focused on women. The numbers will break roughly even, usually. Otherwise you might have a sword fight on your hands, and no dude wants that lmfao.

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Both. I worry less about the ratio and more about making sure that there's enough guys there that they can talk amungst themselves and girls that they can talk amungst themselves. Just for short periods of time. If there's 10 guys and 2 girls that's usually kinda tieing for the girls, same with guys. If you can get enough that they can entertain themselves for short periods of time, just to get a break I think that's what you want to try to do.

[Jusin]

I'm not one to organize a party but I would invite more girls than guys as I seem to interact with women easier then men for some reason. I'm straight but just find talking to most men less interesting and just hard to do. Women I find easier despite the difference in gender and biological stuff. I like talking to women about their opinions and have had better experiences with them listening to me and having good conversations.

[psychoticanimaIIover]

Most people enjoy gobbling up a few cocktail sausages at a party.

[guywho]

Invite me next time..

[guesswhoseback]

Did you have a theme? I noticed theme parties usually attracted more girls. Back in the day my old roommate and myself used to do that.

I know how you feel about the “sausage fest” dynamic. Sucks for our gender to be necessary hypocrites. But realize we our turn to get disciminated against could be around the corner.

But glad you had fun.

[amelia-freaky19]

Not guys and girls about 4 girls for every 1 guy and loads of drink 🍹 and pizza

[guywho]

Boom👀

[girlwithsomeqs]

You're overdoing it. Let her bring her boyfriend, why does it matter so much? Stupid, in my opinion. Who the hell organizes a party like that. I wouldn't want to go to such a buzzkill

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

She should have said it earlier, and it wouldn't have been a problem. Sent her away hours ago.

[Anonymous]

As long as I have friends I enjoy being with, I don't care.
I've had parties where it was close to 50/50. Where we were mostly girls and I've been drinking with 2 close guys friends as well.

[Luv2BRealExotic13]

Both. Being so restrictive is hella weird. If you need to have that ratio you should’ve paid for strippers or something. Seriously if you’re in the states don’t encourage the spread of the Vid.

[stardust2021]

This!!

[Hazelstar99]

I prefer to call my girlfriends because they understand me so well. I do the same. I have to be extra cautious while I'm making a guy friend because they hit on me a lot. I don't want to have that kind of tension in my mind.

[UncleJessieRabbit]

I haven't ever thrown a party before, but if I did I think I'll lean towards @jean-marie_celine option for a ratio of 3 girls to 1 guy.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

So you are trying to have a party in order to get laid, and then trying to hedge the margins to ensure you get some. Pretty desperate if you ask me, and a terrible reason for a party. Especially considering covid.

Throwing a girl (and her boyfriend) out just because she brought her boyfriend.. that's just proof that you are a terrible person.

#honesty

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

I don't like women and I don't like that stuff, I already have a fiancée.
It was more to impress, have a reason to drink and snort.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

And also play some pranks on the guests too. Put pepper in their vodka, throw flour on their dresses and so on.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

You sound more like a frat-boy than a grown man.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

Meh.
Surely it's fun to humiliate certain people to keep them in their places.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

Well then I guess whatever is fun for you is your realm. I'm way past that type of party, I prefer to just drink and socialize and not deal with pranks and such.

[Jean-Marie_Céline]

It's not about drinking or socialize though. It's more of a power thing.
I don't even like having other people around me, but I have to in order to keep status.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I have found that networking with professionals and peers keeps me in a place of respect and while I don't think power is the proper term, perhaps something more like influence is more appropriate. I have no desires for power except to enrich myself, which is dangerous, so I keep myself in check. Socializing over drinks is always easiest - they don't call alcohol "social lubricant" for nothing.

[Iron_Man]

Just my family males my friend males and the rest females

[Holisticapproachsara]

If i can... only guys really. I will be the star of the show🤤

[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Willoughby23]

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[Holisticapproachsara]

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[Prettysammie]

Mostly guys and a few other girls that know how to have fun. It’s weird being the only girl at the party and it’s a different kind of party when it’s mostly girls. Boys bring the crazy, and a few girls who can appreciate crazy make it a real party.

[IveGotNoName]

Both, I don't have enough female friends for a party, and inviting only male friends would be sort of weird

[TOTEMPLASTER]

Your ratio is too obvious: try for 3:2 or the girls will be upset.

[zagor]

He may be allowing for the response rate and shooting for 50-50.

[Astarlessnightsky]

Don't care at all. Its the people i invite not their genitals.

[jamesgoldman]

I don't do parties

My uncle's friend organised parties with a 10-1 female-male ratio but he was a lottery winner with a lot of drugs

[stardust2021]

Hmm having a ratio is kinda odd. Invite fun people!!