Questions: Girl's Behavior

i feel that girls who work as servers in pubs and bars tend to avoid dating the guys they meet there like the plague. perhaps this isn't always true but had it happen to me many times , even if we got along great and seemed to have a connection they wouldn't even consider dating me if i meet them at there work and was seen as a regular.

other jobs its perhaps less clear , i don't think a female cashier would avoid dating a guy she liked if she meet him at work and only seen him there once or twice.

i also find girls who work at gyms tend to avoid dating guys there too. i had one get really rude with me a couple years ago cause i had tried to add her on social media and wasn't aware she was seeing someone.

but something about the guys who go to bars/pubs regularly , the girls seem to avoid them like the plague even if they like talking to them when there working. but perhaps depends on the restaurant some might be better or worse than others.

They Will fight

I have multiple sisters who are feminists, so naturally, they are against this, but I know plenty of women who like it.

I was in a situation recently with an older woman, and I didn't let her go first since she gave off this feminist vibe, but I felt a little strange about it because I was remembering another time that I did this, and I was dissed with a sarcastic "What a gentleman"