10 Pigheaded Things Other Guys Do

[ManOnFire]

1. Being into sports like crazy, mostly football. I'm not a sports guy, no.

2. Leaving the toilet seat up.

3. Feeling that their own gender isn't as caring or emotional as women, yet not wanting to do anything about it; basically having the attitude that while we might not like that about our gender we're still content to leave care and sensitivity up to women because it's "natural."

4. Being into women's feet. Never can get that.

5. When talking about things women do that are stupid, pigheaded, or annoying, and then quickly following it up with, "but guys are the same way too." Guys often feel that they have to criticize themselves too if they're going to say anything about women, or are afraid they're gonna get some lash back for it if they don't include themselves. Women don't ever feel like they have to down their gender when they down ours, so we shouldn't either.

6. Making fun of another guy's lack of experience in sex, jobs, or relationships. Women will do this to guys too, but not to the extent that men do. It's mostly guys who joke about another guy never having had a job or a girlfriend because "he lives in his dad's basement playing video games all day," or jabs like that.

7. Thinking that muscle workouts/strength exercises are the most important kind of physical activity.

8. Thinking they're experts on politics just because they keep up with the news.

9. Being into the whole lesbians having sex thing and finding bisexual women to be sexy. Never been hot to me.

10. Guys who don't clip their nails. Too often I have seen guys young and old with nails as long as women's or longer, and it's just really sad and laughable to be that lazy.

12 Rude/Pigheaded Things Females Do

[93stepsawayfromhome]

— "Being into sports like crazy, mostly football. I'm not a sports guy, no."

So basically, what you're saying is "I don't like sports, so it's wrong for anyone to like them". I'm not into sports at all either, but there's a difference between not liking something and having a problem with anyone else who does enjoy it.

— "Being into women's feet. Never can get that."

Me neither, but you don't get it because you're not into them. It's a fetish. If you, for example, wouldn't like hamburgers, you wouldn't understand why people like going to [insert fast food chain here] so much, but you probably wouldn't make such a big deal about it. It's just a personal preference you don't have.

— "Thinking they're experts on politics just because they keep up with the news."

I don't want to be the devil's advocate but you have to put this into perspective. Sometimes just watching the news everyday already makes you an expert on politics compared to clueless people who don't bother. Without the perspective they absolutely won't be experts, but some people know so little about the politics of their own country that anyone would be an expert next to them.

— "Too often I have seen guys young and old with nails as long as women's or longer, and it's just really sad and laughable to be that lazy."

Is there a set standard for how long men's and women's nails should be? As far as I know there isn't, and for good reason. How fucking ridiculous is it to start defining nail lengths as appropriate for "men" or "women"? How does what they have between their legs matter when choosing how long their nails should be? And is it lazy now to have long nails as a man, but not as a woman? What?

[Stacyzee]

4. Is a fetish.
Fetishes are other people's norms and not made to make sense or be understood by others.
As long as the girl is ok with the guys fetish I wouldn't consider it pig headed.

I'd like to add to the list
11. Persuading a girl to have sex with you and then calling her a "slut" and telling all of your guy friends about it.

[Stacyzee]

And yuck at the photo of the guy you used.
Is his toothbrush a souvenir or what?

[Regale]

I think he's just enthusiastic about dental hygiene.

[Ferretman21]

Ik, I like my girlfriends feet because they're beautiful and I like to admire her beauty. I don't lick them and do other stuff to them, I just like rubbing them, and idc if you think it's ''pig headed'' lol.

It's laughable to think that just because you don't like it, it's '' pig headed '' or nasty or whatever else lololololol

[ManOnFire]

"Persuading" a girl to have sex with him? I thought girls couldn't be persuaded, and if she gets called a slut I'm not saying I agree with that, but in sleeping with him she should know that could be a possibility.

[ManOnFire]

Oh, and here's the reverse take: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a23923-12-rude-pigheaded-things-females-do

[Joc4Position]

1. What makes that pigheaded? And I know plenty of girls who are into sports just as much as me or more than me.

2. I honestly have never met anyone guy or girl who does that.

3. Uh... okaaay. I'm trying here but I can see that somewhat.

4. Like @Stacyzee said many people both guys and girls have fetishes. So what?

5. Often times they are right though. Women and men are different in some ways and alike in others. Such as fetishes. I've see more girls into BDSM than guys. Sorry, but sometimes we aren't separate animals lol.

6. Lol you then follow 5 with this for 6 lol. That's funny. That really doesn't happen to me. That was high school shit, in which everybody was immature. I'm sure it still happens from time to time. Who's leading that race I have no idea.

7. Working out IS the most important kind of physical activity... why? Well basically working out = physical activity. Even if you're playing basketball you're working out. Even if you're having sex you're working out lol.

8. LOL. Yeah I gotta give you that one. I see that more in men than women for sure.

9. I never understood the appeal for lesbians either. I don't like watching lesbian sex most of the time, but at the same time I do like picking the brain (so to speak) of lesbians. Like I can talk to her about what kinda girls she thinks are hot. I can be like "Do you think she's hot? I do." Like you can't usually do that with most straight girls. As far as bisexual women yeah some guys like it because they think that means they'll get two girls in it. That's probably rarely the case. Still with a bi girl I can talk to her like I mentioned with a lesbian girl. That's always intriguing to me. You being someone who likes to study people I'm surprised you think differently.

10. I agree, but I don't know if it's laziness or not. I can't stand having long nails.

I agree with a few of your points, but the only ones that are truly 100% pigheaded are the politics one, the toilet seat one, and maybe the bi/les one in some situations.

[ObscuredBeyond]

It still happens in the workplaces near where I live. They never get over that immature high school mentality.

[Joc4Position]

@ObscuredBeyond Yeah I'm sure some people in general remain immature.

[Tanuron]

Well, ill share my view or experience.

1. Never been much into sports myself either, never really watch it.

2. Well I live alone, so it dosent really matter, but I have a habbit of closing everything, like lid and such. So that everyone who needs to go to the bathroom have to lift something up. There!, "equality" :).

3. I dont know about that, many assumptions and expectations about it, but I never believed that to be true. And to be perfectly honest, in my experience woman have never been any better than any guy to deal with sensitivity. In general most people just suck about it regardless of gender.

4. While im not into feet myself, its just an fetish anyway.

5. I dont think I hardly ever seen that, if anything I feel like im the only who sorta do this, lol. Cause people hate admitting anything wrong about their own gender at times it seems, seems way easier to just blame the other one for everything but I give a zero damn about back lash tho, to me its just logic. Cause neither gender are better or worse, so just seems stupid to try and demonize one of them, hence also I think if you are going to directly attack, blame or complain about the other gender you kinda have to see or accept the flaws in yourself or others of ur own gender, to get an overall better understanding of everything. Beside you are running from the issue, if you are afraid to look inwards.

6. I have never done that, but know several who would do that yes.

7. Never given much thought to excersis really, lol. Either I do some or dont, how I find irrelevant. But as in important physical I can think of more important ones.

8. I got bored of politics when I was 12 even and I never really looked back, made a peak now and then to current stuff, but still the same old nonsense. Im certainly far from an expert nor ever thought as such, it just dosent interest me.

9. I dont get that one either. Cause a lesbian would have zero attraction to you, whats so attractive or sexy about that or the point of drooling over someone who couldnt give a rats ass about you? But yeah never been into that either.

10. Haha... okay so im a werewolf in secret!! :). But I just dont care honestly, my nails has sorta always been naturally long in a way, its kinda backwards in the fam, the girls have like no nails at all but the guys do, or at least me and my father.

[buttheadkakakak]

It sounds even more sexist now that you made this.

1) There are only 10 things where with girls you put 12.
2) You linked at least 5 of these to women.
3) Some of these sound like you're saying they're weird because you don't like them. People are different than you.
This is pretty twisted guy

[ManOnFire]

*facepalm* This was a reverse post to see how people would respond to one about men. Check my results Take here: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24078-a-follow-up-to-my-post-on-the-12-rude-pigheaded-things-females-do

[buttheadkakakak]

Stop advertising. I already read that take. That didn't change my opinion on anything

[ManOnFire]

And I don't really care, I'm just telling you why I did it.

[buttheadkakakak]

Everyone already knows why you did it, guy

[AdamThomas]

1. I'm not hugely into sports but this doesn't make a guy pig-headed.

3. I don't care, I'm caring enough.

4. That's just a fetish, not pig-headed.

5. That's because it's usually true.

7. For a men they are. They produce the most testosterone - men today have much lower testosterone levels than men of previous generations, and testosterone I very important. Low-t men are more at risk of diabetes, depression, anxiety, insomnia, cancer, infertility, impotence, arthritis and many more illnesses. Long distance cardio is bad for testosterone levels because it raises your cortisol levels (stress hormone).

9. Again it's a fetish.

10. I'm surprised you clip yours, you sound like a woman (that was probably pig-headed, I don't care).

[front2back]

(1.) Yeah some guys need real hobbies.
(2.) Okay this is debatable. Yeah he should put the toilet seat down out of politeness but it's not exactly any inconvenience to leave it up.
(3.) I agree.
(4.) Women's feet are actually nice, but no I'm not into them.
(5.) Never heard this.
(6.) Men are competitive over stupid things like this. We all started somewhere and sometimes some of us just slip up. Guys seem to always make fun of other guys for mistakes though while ignoring their own.
(7.) Well... they are. I can tell you as someone who lifts furniture for a living and played strength sports that physical strength is VERY important. But yes cardio needs attention too.
(8.) I think everyone does this.
(9.) Yeah I can sometimes find a lesbian clip to be hot but usually I don't like it because in most cases it doesn't do much.
(10.) My nails are almost non-existent.

[Anonymous]

1. My man is into sports but he definitely isn't crazy about it.
2. He leaves the toilet seat down (for real, and I never told him to either)
3. My man is very caring and he shows it. It's rare to see him emotional but he shows it when he needs to.
4. He doesn't have foot fetish, lol.
5. We don't talk crap about gender because it doesn't matter.
6. Neither of us have ever made fun of other people's sexual experiences.
7. What's wrong with cardio?
8. My partner knows way more about politics than I do but we don't argue or talk about it much,
9. He doesn't think lesbians/bi's are sexy either.
10. My man does cut his nails but he does procrastinate on the toe-nails.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, he like hockey. Canadians, bitch!

[Helghast_kitty]

1 yes how dare he be passionate about a hobby
2 yes it is common courtesy, but it's not like it's difficult for someone to lower the seat when they go into the bathroom.
3 As far as "caring" goes I know plenty of guys that go out of there way to help people. As far as "emotional" goes you can't help the way you feel.
4 I don't have a foot fetish, but I don't see how it's pigheaded either.
5 ok?
6 yeah that's a dick move
7 yeah, it's annoying when guys ask you why you're doing cardio
8 not gender specific
9 difference of opinions. that's not being pigheaded
10 wait... people do that?

[Maxemeister]

It's pigheaded to like women's feet? People can't choose their fetishes bro
And I'm not crazy about sports but just because people like sports means they're disgraceful?
And being into bi women? What the hell is wrong with that?

I hate this myTake

[zagor]

Completely wrong on #6. Most guys don't give a shit if other guys live in their parents basement, play video games all day, or don't have a girlfriend. If they're cool to hang out with, none of that matters - more money to spend on pitchers if they live in the basement.

That stuff is almost exclusively a F concern.

[Pyrofox]

Im cool with everything but at least you have a mature response to #9 I really like this mytake.

[Zorax]

Well, lots of guys are pigheaded, I agree on 1 (I'm not that much into sports), 3, 4 (I also never can get that), 5 (really stupid), 6 (I never make fun of people like that), 8 (politics is so boring).
But the other stuff are fine by me.

[Anonymous]

Yeah I agree with them all, I'm not like that
Except for 9, I very rarely watch porn but when I do I prefer lesbian porn, I have no desire to watch a man having sex, I'm only interested in watching the girl so it makes sense to prefer 2 girls
And 10 I try to keep my nails trimmed but it's hard cause they grow so fast

[pooper89]

Guys who don't practice basic hygiene (that includes trimming your nails) are a total no-go.
Number 8 for sure. Every guy who has an opinion on politics thinks he's an expert

[Anonymous]

Lots of these are just "I don't like it so it's wrong" or "well women do it too"

[ManOnFire]

This was a reverse post to see how people would respond to one about men. Check my results Take here: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a24078-a-follow-up-to-my-post-on-the-12-rude-pigheaded-things-females-do

[CaliSoccerFella]

I think you worry about far to much and should focus on far more important things lol

Thats all I gotta say

[Anonymous]

What's wrong with leaving the toilet seat up? Girls always leave the toilet seat down... by your logic they should put it up for us.

GENDER EQUALITY or female supremacy?

[BaileyisDarcy]

No, just women need the toilet seat down to shit and piss. Men need it down to shit and only need it up to piss.

If I was going to have something for dinner with a friend and we had the choice of beef or chicken, I like both, but s/he on likes one. So I'd go for the one they like.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah but over 80% of the time we go to take a piss...

So over 80% of the time we have to do it ourselves and you "help" us with the 10-20% remaining? If you really want to be of help and practice EQUALITY you should put it up with this in mind.

But you're an oppressor.

[SomeOtherGuy]

I like how a discussion about the position of a toilet seat has become a focal point of oppression without even diverging.

[Opinion Owner]

It's just one of the thousands of ways in which men are oppressed. There is NO EQUALITY. Western society is all about woman-worship

[the_rake]

4&9's ok since other people are entitled to their sexuality. otherwise, agreed.

[Bipolarjew02015]

I dont understand why "sports" is an issue. I enjoy watching sports

[Anonymous]

A few things yes, some things no.

Just like your other take this seems too subjective and personal to you, so I can't give a damn about this and neither should anyone else.

[Anonymous]

I forget to clip my nails sometimes especially my toes.
Don't feel like it. Seems like a lot of work. Lols