12 Rude/Pigheaded Things Females Do

[ManOnFire]

1. Rush in front of other people to get on the bus or train first; an attitude of entitlement just because they're women.

2. Brush their male co-workers or friends away from a discussion they're having with another female because it's "girl stuff" or "just between us." I get it that women will have their girl-to-girl moments, but it can get to be rude and overdone really, and can imply that they think men are too dumb to get it, or as if we were born yesterday and don't know about the stuff that goes on with women.

3. Wearing scant clothing particularly showing too much of a body part or if they're overweight, and actually having the nerve to think they're sexy and that guys want to sleep with them.

4. Spitting like a man. It's bad when we guys do it, but just appalling when females do it.

5. Gossiping. The eternal classic.

6. Telling a man, "God, you're so sensitive" when she acted like an asshole to him and didn't like that he got firm and emotional and told her about it.

7. Talking about needing to lose weight all the time when they look fine. It pretty much says you think other women who look like you or "larger" are fat.

8. Making their wedding all about them, their "dream" as if it's a Disneyland princess experience. Might as well marry yourself if you don't care about it meaning anything to your guy.

9. Not saying thank you when a man holds doors open for them.

10. Putting their bags and things on the bench or seat next to them, robbing someone else of the spot. Can you say 'womanspreading'?

11. Raising their voice with a group of friends, especially if most of the friends are male, in a desperate, childlike attempt to be the center of attention. Relax. We see you AND hear you.

12. Telling a guy, "You're a man, so of course you're going to think such-and-such" as a way to tune out his perspective. We could say the same thing about you: "You're a woman, so of course you're going to feel like that/have that kind of attitude."

Follow up: 12 Rude/Pigheaded Things Females Do: The Results

[Unhappy_Sock]

1) everyone does that, you see this as a woman thing means you treat women differently. Men and women push in, it's called commuting.
2) Eavesdropping and then trying to include yourself in someone's private discussion means YOU are rude. Learn some manners.
3) Who the fuck says it has anything to do with you? You sound like a stupid cunt, can you keep your gob shut because I think people like you voicing their opinion is a crime against intelligent life?
4) Spitting is disgusting, thinking it's worse for a woman is stupid and sexist.
5) Gossiping, really? You want to actually dictate what women can talk about because you find it distasteful? Yes mein Fuhrer, whatever you say...
6) People can be oversensitive, men can take things to heart, women can take things to heart. Big boo, get over it. Everyone has to deal with this shit.
7) Well, society kind of force feeds us the images on skinny, slim women. Men lust after them, men can make incredibly nasty and hurtful comments about women's looks. They do it often behind the woman's back but in front of other women, are you really surprised so many women have a complex about it when we hear others make nasty comments behind people's backs? You've been judgmental in this regard, you've been a nasty shit about it, so how are we supposed to find this exact balance of weight that will make you happy?
8) Yeah, I agree. This is supposed to be about you marrying your love, I don't like the whole "dream wedding " bullshit.
9) That's rude, having manners is a nice thing. Being ungrateful is not cool.
10) Erm... grow a pair and ask her to move the bag... or sit on it, why should people hold their bags on their laps just in case someone might want to use the seat right next to them? If it gets crowded you move your bag, but having it on the seat is not a fucking crime.
11) We have quieter voices than men, and when men AND women get together they get louder.
12) That's a sexist person, you get them in both genders. You DO say the same, so don't know why this is a woman-issue to you.

I think you need to just chill the hell out, this list is very juvenile. How old are you?

[RJGraveyTrain]

Yeah, this is the best answer ^

[Bluemax]

Many of these behaviors I've seen men exhibit.

As for weddings being all about them, that's indeed correct. As my friend said, if men were in charge of weddings, then there would be big screen TV and nachos.

[Anonymous]

1. Yeah imagine a guy butting in front of women to get to a bus or something, how much he would be scoffed at for being a jerk. Because "ladies first" bullshit.

2. Imagine how much a female would lose her ever loving shit if a male said, "This is guy stuff" or "The boys are talking, it's just for us". Heads would explode!

6. When you are critical of a female in any way at all, she becomes so beyond butt hurt and defensive that you are likely to get fired for being "abusive" towards her.

7. They talk about losing weight so they can dig for complements. Because women are in the perpetual state of looking for cheap attention. It's why they walk around with some private part either almost exposed directly or through some skin tight or see through material.

8. Weddings are all about them. It's like a prize that they wait their whole life for. They get to let themselves go and they know that even if you leave now they don't have to work or do shit anymore because they own half of everything you own and you have to pay them just for being married to you. It's why you see so many videos of women losing their minds and crying like psychopaths when a guy proposes to them. It's the same reaction to people who win the lottery.

9. A sense of entitlement is ingrained in them from a young age, "because they are girls and therefore deserve special treatment".

10. Once again narcissistic entitlement. They bitch and moan about males sitting comfortable with their knees open when there is shit between the legs that get crushed otherwise, but have no issue putting shit all over the seats around them preventing people from being able to sit because they feel they are special.

12. The "Well of course because your a guy" scapegoat is one of the many pathetic shaming tactics used to silence a male who disagrees or criticizes them for any reason. It's their childish defense mechanism. They usually can't defuse a situation with logic and reason, so they reduce everything to either a shaming tactic or an emotional argument.

This is why society handles females with kid gloves. Why there is a need for trigger warnings and safe spaces. It's why any environment in which a female is introduced instantly becomes a different less enjoyable environment. You have to watch what you say and do because you are essentially under watch and anything could become an issue. ANYTHING!

[Opinion Owner]

Haha Gotta laugh at the pink down vote. "How dare you point out truthful criticism about women, you jerk"

[Elena_the_Star]

Someone got dumped by a lot of women. LOL.

[Opinion Owner]

@Elena_the_Star Someone thinks that making a personal attack somehow invalidates what I say.
Nice try but not only are you wrong, your bitter little comment proves my point.

[RationalLioness]

There is no truthful criticism. Just a bunch of infantile bigoted thoughts and irrational assumptions which can't be used as empirical evidence... unless if you are a fool.

:D

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah you keep on believing what you need to. Everything I said can be easily found with 5 seconds on google.

[Cookies_AndMilk]

1. I don't push people out of the way because I'm too timid and that's just rude.
2. If a conversation is just between me and someone else it's because it's personal information being shared, not because of something I have against the other guy.
3. I dress fairly modest. I don't like showing cleavage and too much skin, my body is private and special.
4. Spitting is gross, I hate when my boyfriend does it and I would never do it.
5. I don't gossip, might be do to the fact I don't keep many friends.
6. I don't say that.
7. I don't need to loose weight so I don't say I do. I'm not delusional like some people and I actually like the way I look.
8. My husband enjoying this day is just as important to me, and probably even more important than me enjoying it.
9. I say thank you for everything.
10. I keep my bag in my lap for two reasons. Not to take up a seat and so my bag won't get stolen.
11. I'm pretty quiet in group discussions. If I'm not noticed I tend to stop talking instead of speaking up.
12. No, just no. I actually prefer the opinion of a man over that of a woman. I find most guys I meet have helpful and insightful things to say.

I know you were generalizing and for that I'm not offended and neither should the other girls be. A generalization only applies to the specific cases identified. If someone doesn't fall within that category discussed, there's no reason to be upset.

[Hannah591]

1. Most people (mainly guys) let women go first so they get used to it. It's not based on gender, any gender can be rude and push in front of people. 2

2. It genuinely is girl stuff; periods, bodily changes, boyfriend issues - stuff guys have no clue about or we only want to share it with a female, nothing wrong with that.

3. We can wear what we like.

4. Never done it and see men do it waaaay more.

5. I don't gossip nearly half as much as the stereotype makes out.

6. Never said that.

7. Ever heard of body dismorphia? Same principle.

8. Weddings have always been about the bride and guys have been okay with that. They asked her, she accepted so they want her to enjoy the day. A lot of women imagine their wedding when they're super young, guys don't do that. It's a societal thing, not a selfish thing.

9. I always say thank-you, whatever gender.

10. It isn't always done but sometimes we just don't want some horrible, smelly person to sit next to us on the bus.

11. No.

12. And guys DO say that.

This is terrible.

[Calex]

Your number 10 is a low blow. It doesn't matter if old people smell. They are old. You have to let the elderly sit down first. They are old. Your bags don't need to sit. You can put them on your lap or on the floor.

[Hannah591]

@Calex You can be old but smell nice. If you smell, 9/10 it's due to laziness.

[BaileyisDarcy]

@Calex Where did she say old? I don't like smelly people much either. Are you going to assume I mean old people too?

[Calex]

@BaileyisDarcy You comment on almost everything I say o:

[BaileyisDarcy]

@Calex Do I?
I don't really ever notice peoples usernames.

[Anonymous]

1) I commute in rush hour... That's definitely not gender specific.

2) butting in people's conversations is very rude too.

3) some guys like fat girls. There's even porn categories for it.

4) it's appalling when both do it. Disgusting and shows lack of breeding.

5) guys do it too. Gossip about who fucked who, who did what, what guy failed etc...

6) that's an asshole, and don't say guys don't do that too lmfao so funny

7) so what if women larger than them are fat in their eyes. And weren't you just bashing fat women a few points up?

8) selfish women. And the guy is just as much to blame for the failure of marriage when marrying such a selfish one. Use your brains guys.

9) guys do it too. It's people with no basic manners, no breeding, not gender specific.

10) woman spreading... Coined from man spreading.. So ya know... Again not gender specific

11) douch bag guys do that too.

12) both genders are guilty of this again, just read gag and you'll see that.

This whole thing is dumb. You said a bunch of things guys also do. A lot of these are just people with no manners and things guys do too.

[vishna]

1. Haha, I've seen guys do this way more than women, and I ride the bus every week day.
2. I do this with my boyfriend and usually it's because the conversation is about a surprise for him. I don't think it kills him inside or makes him resent me. BUT I'll ask, encase I am being rude to him.
3."Wearing scant clothing particularly showing too much of a body part or if they're overweight, and actually having the nerve to think they're sexy and that guys want to sleep with them." Here's where I lost all respect.
4. Gross for both sexes.
5. This is a stereotype, but I do know some extremely caddy women, so ok.
6. Some guys are too sensitive. I think if it's done respectfully, then what's the problem?
7. Lol, I'm guilty of this. My boyfriend doesn't care. He motivates me.
8. Selfishness is bad. True.
9. Men do that too, ugh, I hate when anyone does that. It happens soo much at school.
10. Dude, these seem like a lot of bus problems, and I ride the bus every week day. And I see equal assholatry from guys and girls.
11. Yea, that would suck. I hate attention whores, men or women.
12. Yea, stereotyping is real bad.

[ManOnFire]

In my experience, females rush on the bus first way more often than males do, sometimes to the point where the bus driver has to shout to her that people are still coming off. I don't see this much with guys.

[vishna]

My school is slightly more male than female (2-3%), but I see so many more guys doing that mad dash when they obviously aren't the closest one to the bus. I dunno though, may be slight cultural differences.
Oh my gosh, haha, yea, you gotta love when the bus drivers yell to stay back or when they scream "No coming on the back of the bus! It's illegal!"

[Tdieseler]

Im half and half here... you have some valid point but some things are just natural...
1... agreed... privilege... push em back out..(or get a car)
2.. i'd push a girl out the way if its guy talk... can't blame girls
3... the real term is wearing scant clothing and saying that they are not out to sleep with anyone while advertising everything publicly... just completely stupid.
4... spitting is gross... PERIOD
5... well... who doesn't... guy talk sometimes IS gossiping. we just aren't as excited about it as females.
6... Yea... i tend to fire them a look that makes them re-think that... so agreed.
7... and its always the skinny ones too... you don't hear the 230 pound girl going.."i need to lose weight... its the girl that could go missing if she opens an umbrella on a windy day that says that... so agreed.
8... thats just propaganda... just like valentines day.. women like to make things about them, i like to disappoint them... kind of my thing.
9... A gentleman doesn't need the thanks... you do it because you do it.
10... simply tell em to move it... or you can move it FOR them. (haha.. woman spreading)
11... I just tell her to pipe down or stfu. I don't put women on a pedestal...
12... Mate... i say that all the time, then they get offended like im just supposed to take it...
Lastly, you forgot to add when they decide to hit a guy and and then they say shit like "you are a guy, you can take it" or "it doesn't hurt you"... I like that one, i like doing that right back to em. We are all human beings... the only difference is that guys are conditioned from birth not to show pain... doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.. just means we just ignore it.. but it hurts ALL THE FRICKIN SAME!! lol...
Some of your reasons are a little personal there mate... im curious... which ones?

[Anonymous]

1.) I wait my turn or thank the person who let me go in front of them. There's no rush, we're all going to the same place.

2.) Sometimes I want to talk to another female about private stuff. Guys have private stuff too.

3.) People can wear whatever they want and you're kinda insensitive to plus sized women.

4.) Spitting in general is nasty, but if I have to spit then I'll spit. How does one spit like a man? I thought people just spit like people.

5.) Everybody gossips! Guys gossip too, they just don't call it gossiping.

6.) I've never called a guy sensitive for standing up for himself. Being sensitive isn't even a bad thing.

7.) Females aren't trying to put other women down by talking about our weight. Everybody has insecurities. We all are our own worst critics.

8.) I don't even care about marriage. I don't even want to get married.

9.) I always say thank you when ANYONE holds a door for me.

10.) My bag is usually on my lap when I'm on a bench, but if it's on a seat and somebody wants to sit then I'll move it.

11.) Some people are loud and some aren't. Being loud isn't just a female thing. Speaking over people in general is rude though.

12.) No, just no.

Your whole list was just a bunch of sexist stereotypes and bullshit. Maybe you should have named your myTake 12 Rude Things PEOPLE Do. Most of the things on your list aren't even exclusive to females.

[LittleSally]

Yeah. ONLY women do aaaaaaall of these things...
xD

It's annoying when anyone does it - and a lot of people do it.

Seems like you've encountered a group of girls on the bus that made fun of you... Why care so much - they were probably just idiots.

[ObscuredBeyond]

He didn't say these are female-exclusive traits. He said that they're bad traits for women to have. Don't be so eisegesic.

[karahiri]

@obscuredbeyond he clearly implied it though.

[ObscuredBeyond]

@karahiri : Guilty conscience, perhaps? I can totally see his point though. But you have a valid point too: buses tend to bring out the worst in others.

[karahiri]

@obscuredbeyond not at all.

[orphan]

@ObscuredBeyond there's nothing on the first 5 pages of google of eisegesic. is it eisegesis? who uses this word besides haughty individuals like yourself.

[LittleSally]

@ObscuredBeyond And not for males to have?

Interesting...

[ObscuredBeyond]

Reading too far into what another says yet again. I sense a pattern.

[LittleSally]

@ObscuredBeyond Me too... Grow up...

[Mekkalyn]

"or if they're overweight, and actually having the nerve to think they're sexy and that guys want to sleep with them."

So, let me get this straight, overweight women should feel ugly and know that no guy will ever want to sleep with them?

Spreading false information is always nice.

[Dipsy]

Overweight women can lose weight if they want to sleep around.

Just like shy men should get more confisent to sleep around

[Mekkalyn]

@Dipsy That's very ignorant to say.

[Dipsy]

Why? I dont really know what i said wrong, could you explain?

[Mekkalyn]

@Dipsy There are a lot of overweight women that sleep around. I've seen it with my own two eyes :P
A lot of guys that want to sleep around aren't exceptionally picky. And also, a lot of guys find women that are overweight attractive (mind you, not obese)

I often find it's the people without confidence sleeping around because they don't feel good about themselves and don't feel like people will like them unless they are sleeping with them. But that's not quite the same thing as being shy. If you're shy you typically won't vocalize that you want to have sex, so won't be sleeping around. So I partially agree with you there.

And I'm not saying you are wrong. I'm saying it's an ignorant view. You can have your own perception, I'm not forcing you to have mine.

[ThisDudeHere]

"1. Rush in front of other people to get on the bus or train first;"
I can relate to this. I once hopped on a train first and the woman behind me did the "Oh so this is what men have become? Pigs!"

"4. Spitting like a man. It's bad when we guys do it, but just appalling when females do it."
Non-issue for me. I spit all the time whenever I can. If my girlfriend were to do it, it'd just be a meh for me. Couldn't care less.

Everything else is just a description of what a crazy/deluded bitch would do.

[Anonymous]

Some nice points, but keep in mind that both men and women rush to get on the bus first. It has nothing to do with gender. As for "girl talks", when women talk openly about periods for example in front of guys, then you get questions here "why do women think it's ok to talk about their periods in front of guys" and stuff like that. It doesn't mean they think men are dumb, it means they are more comfortable sharing it with other women or that they don't know how men would react to those topics.

As for the weddings, women usually do all the work. They do all the arrangements and preparations, and guys opt out to stay out of it. It's not that girls don't care about what it means to a guy, it's that most guys don't show all that much interest in organizing it all.

Yeah, I hate when people don't say thank you when you open doors for them. It's annoying. And spitting is disgusting.

[LuckyLittleLucy]

Okayyy...
People who push are annoying and rude- not every woman just because a minority do it. I was pushed to the floor by a middle-aged guy once as he rushed past me. I know not every middle-aged guy does that it's fine.
And the 'girl stuff'? It's probably about periods etc. and some men are extremely immature about the menstrual cycle, so I think some women are just trying to save themselves from the hassle of having a guy going "Eww! That's gross! I don't want to hear about it!" when they're talking about blood clots and cervical mucus... That being said, some guys are totally fine with it, but I think it's just a precaution...
And 'womanspreading'? There's such a thing as 'manspreading' too so they balance out. So to anyone who complains about wo/manspreaders please just ask them to move over if it bothers you that much, it's really not that big a deal.

[itsallover]

Oh look! Another man on GAG ranting about how shit he thinks women are. Nothing to see here folks, hurry along!

[zombiebabe]

well damn >:( >:( >:(
1. I wait for my turn to get in the bus
2. intimate feminine stuff are private stuff
3. i don't dress revealing no need to generalize
4. i don't spit like a man.. i spit like anyone else
5. females are not the only ones to "gossip"
6. no! there's nothing wrong with a guy who's sensitive... at least he won't be afraid to show his feelings
7. maintaining a healthy weight is not something only girls do... guys do the same
8. on this point i agree that SOME women are selfish... they're getting married with their partners... BOTH SHOULD DECIDE!
9. i say thank you
10. the only time i'll put my stuff on a seat or bench will be only when i know that there are places available everywhere.. if its running out of free seat i won't do that
11. i raise my voice only when needed
12. everyone is different but sometimes people are like "we and people from my gender are... "

p. s... why so bitter?

[the_unknown_panda]

he's not saying all women do this

[9mfeo]

@the_unknown_panda Yes, he is. He never qualified it. Thus, it's a generalization.

[zombiebabe]

@9mfeo i agree... these are generalizations!!!
@the_unknown_panda yes he is saying all women are like this... THAT'S NOT TRUE!

[Joeman1252]

I've never seen a woman do thts

[Maverickj]

He isn't bitter, he made an identical take listing some things that men do.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Yeah, it's definitely only people with vaginas who do this and not the human race in general.

The bitterness is stronger than pickle juice with this one.

[Blueeyes81]

I don't agree with this man but I sure do love pickle juice. It's delicious.

[RJGraveyTrain]

Fair enough.

[zombiebabe]

i hear you!

[shadowlegend]

Sexist. Having an attitude like yours does nothing but add one more judgmental, shitty person to the population, finding fault in the opposite gender. Tough, because there's only two, and you would think you'd try to appreciate the other gender, rather than ridicule them.

[doirty]

Any list generalizing any group of people in this fashion is both unproductive and insensitive. By any group I have to include men. Some of these things are out of tradition and a general expectation they have been given i. e. not their fault. There are certain expectations men have too due to society. Others are about there personal insecurities men have the same issues in different ways. The "manspreading/ womanspreading" thing is just childish to bring up. Any woman calling this guy a "pussy" is guilty of inciting these types of socializations.

[silverfeline]

I don't even... the sense of entitlement, arrogance, and woman hating is just all over this post. O_O

[Calex]

You sound hurt lol

[Shyguy_1988]

I think more guys rush in the train in front of others. Door holding, its equal, most girls say thank you and same with guys. Well, girls have complications sometimes that only another female could understand so that is understandable. Clothing thing is just really pushing it, I mean come on... I can just tear apart this whole list but I really don't feel the need to go on.

[RedThread]

What the hell? All of this BS is stuff that is annoying when people of either gender does it. Why is any of this more unattractive when females do it? Especially the #4 one.