25 Things Guys Like About Girls

[Anonymous]

So, girls if you were ever wondering what guys like in you, this myTake is for you. There are many things that we look into more than appearance. Appearance is not always the #1 thing guys look in girls.

1) Smile!

We don't want a girl who keeps frowning all time. At least slightly, let your smile appear, it makes you attractive more than you think.

2) Let us become the guards

We're there to protect you, so make us feel that you need us. We're ready to face anything to protect you.

3) Keep away the arrogance

We don't want princesses with haughty attitudes. We hate girls who look down upon us.

4) Be a little playful

We like girls who are cheerful, happy, and having some sense of humor. But, don't go overdose or we'll start getting tired of your playfulness.

5) Stop being rude

Yeah, you read it correctly.

6) Bums and boobs

Once we find you so loving, we don't really care about the size of your butt and boobs.

7) Be intelligent

Have some intelligence. Though you look amazing, if you are not intelligent, that's not very nice. We want someone who can be intelligent during a conversation plus your intelligence would be very effective when we go through hard times.

8 ) Be girly

We want girls to be girls! We want you to be soft and feminine not manly.

9) We like virgins

Yeah, though some girls think losing virginity is a very big trend, it's not.

10) Tell us to the face

If you find something odd or uncomfortable (ex: fragrance of sweat) tell us straightly and personally. Don't hide it from us and gossip with other girls.

11) be happy with who you are

Respect yourself, your family and be happy with who you're. If you've got talents and special skills use them, don't hide. You must have self-esteem.

12) Fragrance

Your perfumes are magical and are always remembered.

13) Be kind

Kind girls are very attractive, the more you're kind, some extraordinary beauty appears through you. Once again we don't like rude girls!

14) Be good with kids

Try to be good with kids. You don't need to be a perfect babysitter, but you must have some understanding about kids. If you're good with kids it shows that you've got some patience and a good heart. It's really attractive when you're kind to them.

15) Show your expressions

We love it when you roll your eyes, puff your cheeks when you're annoyed and smile mischievously. Your eyes have some beautiful magnetic power.

16) Don't be too much sexual

If you act sexual in front of the guys you meet/associate, it shows that you're more into sex than love. It shows some signs of unfaithfulness too. Though people say guys need sex more than love, it's not always true.

17) Glow

You're a shooting star when your skin is healthy and glowing.

18) Messy hair

Who says we're a lot into appearance, no, your messed up hair looks pretty.

19) Look into eyes when you talk

20) Have your own style

You don't need to copy the trends of your friends, instead have your own style. Some styles ad fashions don't match for all girls. See-through dresses and exhibiting your belly-button won't make you sexy for all guys. T-shirts, sweatshirts, pony-tails, casual things make y'all cuter than you think.

21) Respect

Something we really need is your respect, we value it a lot. The way you respect other people also shows what a good girl you are.

22) Cheer us when we're down

Men are born to go through tough times, and there we need you a lot.

23) Become a good listener

Everybody needs someone to listen to them.

24) Value your inner beauty

All your beauty comes out from your inner beauty. We look a lot into it.

25) You don't know the cute things you do. Do you know when you look cute?

When you stand up on your toes to reach something

When you blush

When you plead

Flicking, touching, twisting and playing with your hair

Adjusting your dress wooo...

Biting your lip

When you get mad and annoyed

When you sit with your legs pulled to your chest with hands wrapped around them

When you clap your hands when you're happy with something

When you brush off dust on your bottoms after sitting on the floor or grass

Some yoga posses

Swearing... ex: "I didn't do it.. you know I wouldn't... for the billionth time I swear, I didn't do it"

Well, there are many more things which I couldn't add too. Don't forget to leave a comment!

[Anonymous]

Interesting article, here are my opinions :)

1) Not that important, I like some serious girls too.

2) Actually, I prefer girls who are tough, not wimpy.

3) That one is true.

4) Not obligatory

5) Exactly

6) Actually, I prefer legs. Boob size or ass is not important for me.

7) Indeed

8 ) Nope, I prefer tomboyish girls.

9) virginity is ok, but I'm not strict about it.

10) Good point.

11) Definitely yes.

12) I'm kinda indifferent about perfumes.

13) Well, I kinda like naughty girls.

14) When we have kids - yes, but before that, it's not so important.

15) Agreed.

16) Don't be slutty, but decent sexual behavior is ok.

17) Of course, natural glow, but not makeup.

18) I agree 100%.

19) Yep.

20) Obviously, I prefer casual and sporty girls, not some fashion barbies or "girly girls".

21) Sure.

22) Yes.

23) Of course.

24) Well, we can see outer beauty, but the inner beauty is more like.. an abstract term.

25) Hot is better than cute in my opinion.

Very nice mytake :D

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you for MHO :)

[Lovetolearn47]

I like a lot of what you said, but some things are just not gonna happen. I was happy to read about numbers 1-8, & 10-14. I had some confusion about 15 bc I've read before that eye-rolling and other female expressions can make a man feel cut-down, and that's the exact opposite of respect. You can like what you like personally but I think it's a double standard for guys to "like virgins" and "not be too much sexual" yet they can be a stud and it's not looked down upon. I mean, women have sex drives too and I don't think we should have to act as if we don't. This sounds kind of quaker-ish to me and gives me the heebie-jeebies.
The rest I thought was pretty encouraging, and nice to know that you value what's on the inside so much more than most of us are think.

[Gustafsone12584]

It depends on how people act upon there sex drives. There's on thing to have a high sex drive, but don't need to have sex. I think it's looked down upon how many people really have to sleep with others.

[Lovetolearn47]

@Gustafsone12584 I think it's a completely natural thing. I've read about other primitive cultures where the whole village sleeps with each other and there is no taboo about it. And also that they were noted as being some of the happiest people on the planet by the one who observed and wrote about them. I think it has much to do with our puritanical background as a country. Europe for instance instance is also much freer, and much happier.

[Lovetolearn47]

@Gustafsone12584
Here is an example of mixed msgs females get. I think it's time society accepts how sexual we are too without judging us.
pinterest.com/.../?source_app=android

[Gustafsone12584]

At the same time, we all aren't living in a primitive society. I think it's time to accept people more on there actions not on how much sex one puts out. I'm happy with no sex actually. It's not like I get any anyways. But I do know sex isn't everything, it's about the feelings you get, when someone you found, has feeling for you too. People like myself, that don't have as much luck as others cherish the small more important factors than sex.

[Lovetolearn47]

@Gustafsone12584 that is a beautiful reply.

[Gustafsone12584]

Thank you

[Goochbreaker]

I think what a lot of people overlook these days is the impact sex has on the female subconscious. For marriage to work, the girl should ideally be a virgin, even though that is obviously not always the case, it has the highest success rate statistically when it is the case. The first time is where the most bonding occurs

[Anonymous]

25 things guys like about women.
1. They have a Vagina
2. They have a Vagina
3. They have a Vagina
4. They have a Vagina
5. They have a Vagina
6. They have a Vagina
7. They have a Vagina
8. They have a Vagina
9. They have a Vagina
10. They have a Vagina
11. They have a Vagina
12. They have a Vagina
13. They have a Vagina
14. They have a Vagina
15. They have a Vagina
16. They have a Vagina
17. They have a Vagina
18. They have a Vagina
19. They have a Vagina
20. They have a Vagina
21. They have a Vagina
22. They have a Vagina
23. They have a Vagina
24. They have a Vagina
25. They have a Vagina

[lilaqua]

I love that I literally fit none of these categories. I guess I'm an ugly witch from hell that's sole purpose is to steal children from their beds because I'm jealous. Like some medieval allegory for measles.

[LegateLanius]

you sound awesome

[lilaqua]

@LegateLanius thanks babe

[Nik1hil]

That is the funniest part, even if you do not fit any of this category, you can make a guy mad for you..

[lilaqua]

@Nik1hil what can I say...

[Nik1hil]

dont say just let me smell you...

[yourself1]

"Have some intelligence." I wouldn't write it that way.
Be girly, have your own style etc these are all written in a demanding way which I don't like. Have some better sentences.
You could write it for example like this: We boys like intelligent girls, we love girly types etc.
Don't take this comment in a bad way. (You know advices are helpful ;) )

[myTake Owner]

English is my second language, sorry!

[yourself1]

congrats on learning a second language :D

[SheeRaXStePhan]

I really loved what you've said...
Actually, any girl would be happy if she read that!
Thank you :)

[Kai02]

11. Be happy with yourself but also be good with kids, be girly, let guys protect you...

Ok looks like you mean be yourself unless you aren't these things.

K great

[23Link89]

This is just a list of things guys like about women. You don't HAVE to have ALL of these traits.

[CindyRuns]

Wonderful view on women...

You deserve to find one that has all of those things... and more !!!

[myTake Owner]

I don't want a one who has all those things, I just want women to be at least half of what I've mentioned

[Anon-ymous1]

Good list man. Of course, really these only matter, most of them anyway, if the girl is attractive/pretty. Otherwise most of the things on this list aren't particularly alluring and don't get much attention from us.

[Deathraider]

2, 8, 9, 14, and 25 are wrong from my perspective. My advice, be honest. Don't change just to appease to us. Everyone is unique in their personality.

[Lovetolearn47]

lOVE your reply. Exactly. No one should change bc they think others will like them better that way. If someone doesn't appreciate all that you are, it's time to find someone else. No skin off your nose.

[Anonymous]

"Make your skin healthy and Glowing" I have acne... not happening anytime soon for me😂😂

[myTake Owner]

Never mind, if you're very loving and kind your guy will love you with or without acne. :) I just mentioned that we like glowing skin, that doesn't mean we dislike others.

[RebelPup]

This is so sweet!! I appreciate this and it put a smile on my face. Thank you.

[Anonymous]

Why guys are so concerned in virginity? And why they ask about it?

[myTake Owner]

Virgins are pure. Why are girls so interested about losing it? It's not a big deal to jump onto the bed with multiple men.

[Opinion Owner]

Guys find it as a turn off when they know she is a virgin

[Opinion Owner]

They make fun of virgins generally,

[danii363]

Only christian or conservative guys likes virgins nowadays...

[Opinion Owner]

@danii363 i guess it should be not an issue! Why guys always ask about it? I find it a rude question

[Lovetolearn47]

@danii363 yes!

[Goochbreaker]

that's fking horseshit, guys do not generally make fun of virgins and any guy that does is a fking slut. Most guys like it when girls are virgins, even if they aren't saying it, it means that she isn't a slut and still has the ability to form a sacred bond with someone, possibly them.

[Opinion Owner]

@Lovetolearn47 actually they laugh as it is inexperienced!

[Opinion Owner]

And they say that the girl is lying and how is she living like that as a kid

[Goochbreaker]

fuck any guy who says that they are just trying to ruin all girls because they have only met ruined girls, they just want some cheap puss. Good guys like virgin wives

[myTake Owner]

@Goochbreaker so this girl knows what guys think better than us. I've never seen any guy who makes fun of a virgin. The damn heck you know.

[Anon-ymous1]

Because. We just are.

[Anonymous]

I agree with everything except no. 20. Sweatshirts? T-shirts? Not so much.

[myTake Owner]

They look good. I'm serious.

[Opinion Owner]

Ok :-) Even easier for us!

[Nik1hil]

I disagree with you, i love it when she is messy and casually, like she was going to a pyjama party its absolutely cute..

[Opinion Owner]

@Nik1hil That's interesting... and super easy!

[Nik1hil]

or maybe its just me...

[CT_CD]

All the sloots will get mad about #9 and #16

[Lovetolearn47]

Don't be judgmental about women's sexuality, please. We love sex as much as guys do, but it seems it's only ok for you guys to have had multiple partners? Gimme a freakin break. SMH.

[myTake Owner]

@Lovetolearn47 but we're not so interested about losing virginity as much as you do

[Lovetolearn47]

@mytakeownwer, This could be a generational thing, then. I am not amongst girls your age much so I'm not aware what they are expressing to you. Still, we hear it from guys very often too that they just want to get laid. I can't see the difference here yet.

[myTake Owner]

@Lovetolearn47 get laid? so get laid to ten, twenty men just because they like you getting laid.

[stone022]

omg. that's so one person's opinion.

just be who you are. damn.

[Anonymous]

here's a bettar list
2 things guys like about women
1. bobs
2. vegana

[myTake Owner]

LOL who talks like that? Bobs? Haha and vegana sounds like some vegetable salad.

[Thrasherho]

Whooosh

[WildButterfly]

This was super cute. 💕

[Guanfei]

I agree with everything you said, except 9, which I don't care about. But overall, I agree.
Problem is a girl like that doesn't exist. So you have to deal with some flaws.

[myTake Owner]

Dude, I know virgins are very rare these days, but look; a girl can have sex number of times with a number of men and that shows she goes easy with sex with anyone whom she finds good. Don't you think it's not very nice?

[myTake Owner]

Think you found an unmarried girl who has had sex with five guys. You two marry, do you think she'll be very loyal to you throughout your life? Of, course people can change repent for the bad things they've done and lead a better life being honest. But nowadays people aren't always that.

[23Link89]

You know, I'm a guy. And I don't get why dudes like virgins if you've had another persons dick inside you, great. And why does 'purity' matter? If anything I like my girls a little impure.

[Goochbreaker]

you are 17 and clearly raised badly so obviously you don't get it. I would write the exact same thing when I was 17 and did so I really can't blame you. All I will say is that be open to the possibility that you will do a complete 180 on this subject, there are aspects of sex and love that you have yet to understand

[myTake Owner]

Dude @23Link89 any girl can lose it for any number of guys, perhaps she can be a slut who had sex number of times. But what about a virgin, ain't she really good in that case?

[23Link89]

@myTake Owner Well yeah, if she was a slut and fucked every guy she saw. But like, I wouldn't mind if she fucked a dude or two before me.

[myTake Owner]

@23Link89 what about the probability of sexually related diseases.

[23Link89]

@myTake Owner It's called a condom. Sure it doesn't make you invincible it but definitely helps.

[Goochbreaker]

the diseases are the obvious things, the emotional baggage is the shit that will really fuck you over... in time.

[Dominace100]

I agree with most of these lol.

[Revolver_]

26) don't be fat

[Gustafsone12584]

Woman have issues with appearances anyway, I agree

[Lovetolearn47]

That's a horrible thing to say.
I agree that it's important to take care of how you look, bc that says something about who you are as a person and that you have some self respect. But this is just plain hurtful.

[Goochbreaker]

@Lovetolearn47 its a fine thing to say

[Lovetolearn47]

@Goochbreaker no it's a fucking terrible thing to say.

[Goochbreaker]

@Lovetolearn47 No, it's a fine thing to say. Saying don't be fat is the equivalent of saying 'be healthy'

is it bad to tell someone to be healthy?

[Lovetolearn47]

@Goochbreaker I totally agree with being healthy. I want someone healthy too. But I think we will have to agree to disagree on how the way this is said is the same. To say just "don't be fat" makes a man come across to even women who are not fat, as nothing more than a shallow asshole, whether that's what he intends or not. The WAY something is put can mean everything. Besides, some body types, both male and female, are larger by nature, and these folks DO exercise (consider model Ashley Smith), yet they still have some fat on them. To me, this is like saying to a guy, "don't make less than $20/hr." Yes, it's true that one could also word that as "Be responsible, or be smart enough to get a good job." But it just comes across as very nasty and shallow. Sorry if you don't agree, and I won't be answering this thread anymore bc I'm not here to argue. If you want to reply, fine, but I'm moving on.

[Goochbreaker]

@Lovetolearn47 ashley smith isn't fat I don't know what you are talking about... at least not the images i saw when searching that name on google. Saying don't make less than 20/hr is honestly all right advice to somebody, but it's not as fundamental as saying don't be fat, and it's a lot easier and more important to stay in shape and be physically healthy than it is to find a good job in today's economy. All of us men should be aspiring to make more than 20/hr, and all you women should be aspiring to not be fat, this is good advice.