Why would he call my girlfriend a sugar mama?

[fun-weird-guy]

One day I was talking to someone that I work with and I do not remember how it came up but he asked if the person I was was was my mom and I said no that she is my girlfriend. He asked how old she was and I told him that she is 13 years older than me. He had the audacity to say that I have a sugar mama which did upset me. He is 2 or 3 years older than me so why would did he say what he did?

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He also said that he wishes he ha d a sugar mama also.

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I was living on my own for almost 101/2 years before I met my girlfriend and I was paying the bills, buying things so things can be fixed when needed, bought groceries, clothes etc.

[Deatta]

he's an ass thats why! My ex husband is a few years older than me, but my ex boyfriend is 9yrs yournger than me, people call me a cougar and give him and I shit everyday and we shrug it off, we are now really good friends and we still laugh about it. Someone once asked me if he was my other son, really? Thanks for tellin me I look old enough to have an 18yr old son! Why he called her your sugar mama is beyond me because you WORK, she's not taking care of you! She doesn't pay your bills by the sounds of it! Keep doin what you're doin and ignore him, likely she's hot and he is only pissed and jealous!

[fun-weird-guy]

She does not pay my bills. To me she is hot and we get along so well. I believe that he wishes he had an older lady but does not so he is jealous of me.

[Deatta]

Sounds like he just wants someone to take care of him! What an ass!

[fun-weird-guy]

It is one thing to take care of someone else but it is something else when you can take care of yourself but depend on some to do it for you. He still lives with his mom. Te reason why he does I am not sure

[fun-weird-guy]

Another thing is I asked him why he was at work early and he said his mom wanted him to do some cleaning at home so he told her he had to be to work which was a lie since he was not suppose to be to work for another 2 hours. It was on a warm sunny day. Sounds like he wants someone else to do the work around the house.

[YouAskedForMyOpinion]

Maybe he's jealous or having a bad day? Anyway, he had no right to suggest she was your sugar momma, because he doesn't know enough to come to that conclusion and it's none of his business if she is.

[fun-weird-guy]

He called her that a different day also and when he sees us together he looks at us with a look that is borderline disgust.

[YouAskedForMyOpinion]

If it was me I'd just stop hanging out with him, but I'm not really that social. Also he's your coworker so it'd be hard to avoid him. He sounds like he's jealous since he admitted wanting one. He may be disgusted by the fact that your dating an older woman and he isn't. Ik you guys don't like drama, but I'd seriously ask him why he's acting like this and reassure him that your relationship with her isn't like that.

[fun-weird-guy]

I do not hangout with people I work with and on top of that it has been months since I have seen anyone I work with anywhere when I am out and about. If he ever brings it up again I will confront him about it.

[PinkAcid]

He thinks you're only with someone older than you because she buys you stuff, he's just teasing you to annoy you ignore him and tell him to grow up

[fun-weird-guy]

We both buy each other things hear and there, we both do the cooking, cleaning, laundry etc. When I seem down, I am sick etc she is there for me. She sincerely loves me and cares about me for who I am. She is also loyal, trusting, honest, fun to be around, hilarious etc. She likes being around my family.

[fun-weird-guy]

I mean here not hear

[Blueeyes81]

I think he was joking. Since she's quit a bit older (same thing happens to women who date a lot older) society will assume it must be for something other than love.

[Anonymous]

He meant that she pays for everything. i would have been offended too. and hurt his feelings fast

[fun-weird-guy]

I have been living on my own for a little over 10 years before she moved in with me. I have payed all my bills myself, things that needed to be fixed payed for and fixed myself etc.

[Opinion Owner]

what he said was rude and offensive to you and your girlfriend, he is probably jealous of you.

[fun-weird-guy]

I did take offense to what he said because my girlfriend means a lot to me. I am willing to and do stand up for he when we are around each other or not

[fun-weird-guy]

I mean I stand up for her not he

[Opinion Owner]

You didn't do anything wrong he did, maybe you should find more respectful friends.

[fun-weird-guy]

I do not hangout with anyone outside of work that I work with. I am also not friends with any of them on any social media site. Outside of work I have only seen like maybe 4 people at places like the grocery store, mall etc Other than that I have never seen anyone outside of work that I work with. With the way he is at work I would not want to be friends with him.

[Opinion Owner]

Just keep your eye on him and dont invite him over for dinner

[fun-weird-guy]

I would not invite anyone I work with over.

[Opinion Owner]

Then tell you girl he is an ass and not to care about what he said

[fun-weird-guy]

He never said anything to you it was to me that he called her what he did

[Opinion Owner]

Then tell him to mind his own buisness and dont tell your girl what he said

[BrunetteNYC]

Jealous, what a loser, screw him don't talk to him no more.

[Anonymous]

She is more wealthy and older than you.