Had a one night stand few weeks later bumped into him and he was smirking at me?

[Anonymous]

What made it even more uncomfortable is he was with his girlfriend, totally mortified at what a creep he is. I didn't know he had a girlfriend I definetly wouldn't have went near him if I knew. Doesn't guys like this have no shame?

[lichb85]

I don't really understand why you think he is worth posting about? You had a one night stand, probably had a good time and went on with your life as intended. Of course I understand you must have been shocked and curious but come on... everyone knows there are asses out there, it still surprises me when girls are surprised to find out something like this. That risk is always there, if you cared so much... you should have done a proper background check before giving him a night of fun. Either way, I think what you want to know is how he is thinking about it. Well as someone who has never messed around with guys but has a brother and several close friends, I can tell you that he probably doesn't feel ashamed. His logic is that you gave it up easily, he has probably done this many times before. Furthermore, his girlfriend obviously isn't as important to him and who knows, maybe down the line he'll realise his mistakes... who knows. But when he smirked, he knows his girlfriend is crazy about him. If you would have told his girlfriend, she wouldn't have believed you or thought you're the slut so he knows he doesn't lose out. He'll have it coming some day and will deal with it in his own way. I still think you may have an overreaction to this, since technically its none of your business if he has a girlfriend. Maybe its an open relationship? Who cares? move on.. he's not worth it. You did, you saw, you learned ;)

[lichb85]

I mean several close guy friends*

[MizTShelly]

You should have stood your ground! He was wrong, let his girlfriend know next time!

[Anonymous]

First I accept he was being an ass. Then there is a chance that that girl is just for a date or another one night stand. Or he might hav found her during those few weeks. If u r feeling bad that u were with a guy, cheating on his gf, dont be, its not your fault. And secondly, it was an one night stand, not a long standing relationship. So unless you are planning to hav more one night stands with him, you should be worrying about him.

[Asker]

Nope I found out he was with her for at least 2 years...

[Opinion Owner]

Well that sucks.

[theperfectdater]

You want to shame him when you were the other half of the fucked up nasty one night stand... Really? Lol women...

[Asker]

Where in my question did I say I wanted to shame him? I typed he should be ashamed of himself

[theperfectdater]

Yeah, uh wth...

You said, "Doesn't guys like this have no shame?"

Implying that he should be ashamed/shamed. You can use those word interchangeably... They have the same meaning and by no means was my original answer out of bounds. Did I touch a nerve because I forced you to look at your equal roll in the situation. And in essence make you aware that you should be just as ashamed. #chillbrah

[Asker]

I'm not the one in a relationship nor was I the one smirking...

[theperfectdater]

Well if you are saying you do feel ashamed and he should as well that makes sense to me. He seems immature... but it's in itself immature to have one night stands with anyone.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like an ass. Just be grateful you're not his girlfriend.