He Used to look at me?

[Yzra17]

There’s a boy at school who started this year. He’s younger than me and the only black person at school, while he’s white. At first, I thought he was looking at me because I’m from a different race, since I’m the only black person at school and this usually happens. However, over time, his looks and behavior started to get strange. He made friends, and the friends he made started looking at me too, around 6-7 of them. Whenever we crossed paths, he would look at me, and wherever I went, he would come there and hang around. Then, after a two-week break, he stopped looking at me as much. He still looks sometimes, and his friends always look. Why is this happening? Does he not like me anymore?

[Manuelwe]

He may be looking at you to see if your like white men only. As he is younger than you. Why do you find him attractive? You like younger white boys? But it depends also if he is sizing you up for a gang bang with his white boy gang. As your the only black teenage girl. He may be had sex with so much white teen girls he is getting bored or wants to tell his mates he fucked a black woman.
Keep away and ignore him. If you have a partner, let them know now your fears of thus chap and even a teacher or two.

[Yzra17]

He is handsome but his very kind person. And he is only 16-17 is too young for have sex.

[Manuelwe]

It is clear you like him. He is ready for sex now. In fact in Holland it is legal and Europe too.
But I fear his mentality and why him? Have you been with a white man before? Never been with a black man?
But what are you studying to be? Lawyer Doctor and so on. He could damage it

[Manuelwe]

But I bet he is no virgin. Unless you fancy being his first sex partner

[Manuelwe]

Or he is being protective as he has heard nasty things about you and trying to Warne you of a fake friends you trust but hate you.

[Anonymous]

A new boy and his friends were staring at you, the only Black student, which made you uncomfortable. The staring decreased after a break. Possible reasons include curiosity, social dynamics, changing interests, misinterpretation, or even unwanted attention. You can observe, limit interaction, talk to a trusted adult, and prioritize your well-being.

[Yzra17]

His gaze toward me was very soft, and he kept following me at school. Since I am Black, I haven’t faced anyone’s hatred, and no one at school is racist. But the way he constantly followed me, his gaze, how he quickly looked away when I caught him staring, and how he hurried to reach me just to walk past me—these things stood out to me.

[Pterodon]

Hi. I’m white and my girlfriend is black. Yes he does fancy you but is scared to approach because of fear of rejection. If you really want him then you have to do more than just look back at him. Talk to him. Start off by things you have in common which is school.

[Yzra17]

Why doesn’t he look at me like he used to? Now he only watches from a distance. Sometimes, when I’m not looking at him, I can feel that he’s looking at me.

[Yzra17]

I’ve never had a past with guys before, so I don’t know how to talk to him.

[Summeroflove]

Look he’s not looking at you if you’re visually unappealing. People do start to loose interest sometimes though so if you like someone make a move

[In_Trance]

This is probably a good question to ask him

[Yzra17]

What is your opinion?

[In_Trance]

Have you ever actually talked to this guy? Does he know you exist?

[Yzra17]

No, we have never had any conversation

[In_Trance]

So then this is all in your head. It's a fairy tale

[zombiewoof]

Start a conversation with him

[Yzra17]

Has he crush on me? I’v never talked with a boy like that so I don’t know how to start a conversation

[zombiewoof]

Hey, is a good way, then go from there

[wk_85]

Maybe he likes you