My crush accidentally grabbed my boobs?

[Anonymous]

So the other day my crush grabbed my boobs on accident. I'm pretty shy, so all my friends try to mess with me and do little things that make me jump. But he came to hug me from behind and his hands placed right on top of my boobs (I think it's because he's way bigger than me, so his hands placed higher than usual). He said sorry right away and started turning super red. I said it was fine, but ever since then he's been avoiding me. It makes me sad, it's like all this progress I made is being destroyed. How can I damage control this?

[Grosayfious255]

What do your friends do to make you jump? Did you like it when he did that?
Try to act casual, maybe make a bit more effort to talk to him than you did before.
What you should've done though was evade the situation and talk about something right away. Or run away (not literary run). I did something similar to a girl that i liked once. We were playing v-ball and when I jumped up to block her spike, on the way down her body turned and when my hands came down I accidentally grabbed her crutch.
What she did was just rotate right away and not make it awkward. (she scored the point so their team rotated). What I did to remove the awkwardness was talk to her afterwards (not about what had happened though).
Continue being casual w/ him. He'll get over it.

[Asker]

Okay, I just don't want to make him uncomfortable

[dasiesgalaxy]

Haha I accidentally did similar too an old crush once. I wouldn't mention it again because he is hoping the embarrassment has been forgotten. You just need to do something similar back where it can be seen as jokey but shows you don't mind the body contact

[Asker]

What's was your experience it couldn't have been worse than mine.

[justbanANNAz]

accidentally grabbed ur boobs? how even lol...

thats so cute tho, he must have gotten super embarrassed. thats a good sign tho. shows he respects u to some degree.

[Asker]

Yeah he was really red, but probably not even half as red as I was

[Nik1hil]

Say him , if he did not intentionally did it so its fine , and they are in front and he is a rookie so they may sometime come in way , that's not a license to touch you there, but you should not avoid me , that makes it more awkward , and makes it look like you intentionally did it.

[Asker]

But I've ha a lot of people tell me not to mention it, so if I do mention it I want to be subtle

[Theguyoverthere]

Break the ice with him asap and don't bring up the issue and pretend it never happened. Use it as a way to initiate some contact with him. He clearly didn't do so purposefully so you got nothing to worry about.

[RoseHolder]

He just upset because he might have offended you. Just act normal and tell him that its not a big deal.

[Grosayfious255]

Act even more normal and don't tell him anything regarding the situation.

[RoseHolder]

You probably right it would be word to bing it up agin after happend

[askandtell]

I agree with mot just act normal and don't bring it up. he probly feels bad or nervous or something of a sorts only talk about it if he brings it up

[Anonymous]

accidentally grab his balls

[Grosayfious255]

Baaad advice lol.

[Asker]

@Grosayfious255 test me I'm too scared to do that

[Grosayfious255]

Lol you should be. That's healthy fear right there.