My guy friend touched my boobs?

[Anonymous]

Me and him are kinda close but we’ve always just been friends and I used to date his good friend so it would be weird, buut his friend (my ex) left town and we still hangout and we cuddle sometimes in a friendly way.

But then the other day he touched my boobs and at first it was subtle but then he actually started touching my whole boob and I kinda jus let him lol oops🤷🏻‍♀️ is that weird? We laughed it off after but does that mean anything to a guy? I don’t think I want him to like me or anything

[Zealashton]

Buddy, stop being an ass, . Your giving the guy false hope.
You can't be best friends with a guy unless there gay.
If your not going to date him and this, get out apploigize to him and leave.
Its horrible to tease a man , like that, it could make him depressed. A tiny bit.
Its like how would you feel if a man teased you and then just left. Like a pump and dump.
Idc if its tity fliping shit. Wee who care.
But all honesty
sit down , and talk like adults.
Don't be putting the poor fucking in orbit mode. That's not nice, and is wrong.
Also he should be more mature and just asked you out, you too need to sit the fuck down, and have a nice long discussion. And tell him to go watch porn clear his head, and think about
weather or not you girl are actually fun to be around with and hang out, or is it boring as fuck.

Trust me
my friend is a gril she's boring she's ugly, yet sometimes I think about her, then I jerk off , and relize, nope she's not the one,

in short I'm just giving you some advice, you need to talk to him and be an adult. there's time and place tobeing a kid and an adult and this is the time you need to be mature.
I may be a virgin , but I don't like where you may be heading or him self.
You already broken up with ex boyfriend,
. To me. I don't know who your guy friend is, but. An orbiter my be a nice person. But its a 50 /50. If he comes off as pushy, and that staryotipical asshole that's, like oh come on some the joint, and shit. Then get the fuck out.

Honnesty you need to have a talk too. Like an adult. I'm not being mean. I'm being a conserened person. there's good people like my self. That are hopeless virgins, and then there's scum.
Honestly he's a red flag, then again, I did that to a girl to, but we where long friends and she was perverted be for I did such things. So it was mutual. But I would never be perverted unless she gose first, and then it will be random.
With out context of your relation ship with him. I can't really say say if its bad or good
but only advice is to talk shit out.

Sometimes the best things in life are right under your nose

[AlmondSoup]

Yeah, that's definitely weird. Going for the boobs is definitely him trying to make a move. If he laughed it off after, it's only because you shot it down and he was embarrassed. If you do not like him or have feelings for him, do not lead him on with friendly cuddling and boob play. He's gaining feeling for you and things are gonna go bad for both of you if you have no interest.

[btbc92]

That's not appropriate and sexual harassment. If he does it again, it's going to be a problem. Set boundaries or don't start that metoo business. Because by you allowing him to do that, your showing him that you're not worth respecting. He just wants to get into your pants. Remove yourself from that person. That is not a friend. And never was. If your ex was around he would have beat the snot out of him for doing that.

[ZackBan]

Calm yourself a little. He gently touched her and would have stopped if she had shown any sign of not liking it.
She is single now, her "Ex" would have been the one to catch the beating if he tried to interfere.
This guy obviously likes her and is trying somehow to show it. His method might not be to your liking but thats where communication comes in between people

[btbc92]

There is no showing any sign and please do not tell me calm down. Read everything she wrote and pay attention. He grabbed her boobs fully. And it doesn't matter if she is single. You keep your hands to yourself. No, he wants sex. Has nothing to donwoth liking. And it's not communication. So please stop the B. S.. has nothing to do with the ex catching a beating trying to interfere. Respecting women. She is sadly too naive to see that for herself. That is why she asked the question.

[btbc92]

You can tell somebody you like them without doing all of that. That's how girls like her God forbid get raped or having sex with somebody they didn't want because they allowed it to happened. And then You men take it as a 'sign to continue. I have been sexually harassed before. Your hands don't BELONG THERE. And for the females who downvoted me because it is the truth theu don't like, shame on them. That's how theu get used by different men and the guys theu do want wouldn't want to touch theme because they allow any guy to do it. And they want to know why most men don't respect other women. If a so-called friend did that to me, his ass would have been kicked or I would have called the police.

[btbc92]

Has nothing to do with her being single, he had no business touching her. Then along just anybody. If he don't want to stop to do anything that shows where they disrespected and where she don't even respect herself. You people are very wrong. And it's never safe to assume that she's been sexually touched by her boyfriend or isn't a virgin either. And if the Akser doesn't care, watch how this guy going treat her. The same way. Because they don't fake it seriously.

[Akachan]

Well if you felt uncomfortable and you don't want him touching your boobs just tell him in a nice way (cause he's your friend) that you're not into him and that you don't want him touching your boobs.

[spartan55]

"I dont think I want him to like me or anything" yet you don't stop him when he feels up your boobs. Oops... do you realize ridiculous you sound?

[Asker]

K the reason I say that is cuz I’ve literally never been attracted to him but I haven’t been touched by a guy in a longggg time and all of a sudden he’s looking good to me... I can’t explain but I think the horniness is clouding my judgment and I don’t know how to control it:(

[spartan55]

That's fair, and I respect your honesty. If that's the case then you I can all but guarantee you that you would regret doing anything with him. But obviously he wants to fuck you, so if you are down then go for it. Just think it through first.

[Asker]

Fair point, thanks!:)

[Ripper_E]

Just be clear with him. It happened, and that's it. But you only see him as a friend. You don't necessarily have to tell hm directly, just don't lead him to believe anything.

[Anonymous]

Would it mean something to you if you touched his penis? My guess is yes lol, so you'd better tell him how you feel so he doesn't get any wrong ideas. Because this won't likely be a 1 time thing that just happened (I wasn't there, but can almost guarantee this). He'll probably do it again. If you don't want it to happen again, say something now. It doesn't have to be awkward or anything, just let him know how you feel about it. You're friends, so just talk to him like one.

[Nikunj70]

Dear you must clear about your relationships limits either with your boyfriend or friend about closeness and other things , what's good or bad you have to decide...
Anything above the limits ruins life..

[winterfox10]

Playing it off like nothing was probably for the best, but you shouldn't let him make it a habit. He finds you sexually appealing enough to risk giving your girls a fondle

[Jackblue]

Well he wants you even if you don't want him. Guys tend to interpret cuddling as romantic. You need to make it clear to him that he is just a friend and you don't want him to hit on you.

[JackofSpades]

He was making a move.
He wants to be more than just friends, and now that you aren't dating his friend anymore you're no longer off limits.

It's only weird if you make it weird.

[Anonymous]

How big are your boobs? Were you braless at the time? Did he take your boobs out altogether? And did he suck on them?

[KrakenAttackin]

He wants to have sex with you, it's not that hard to understand.

[skywalket]

So let go the past the future might be right in front of u start slow but be careful

[beatcoock]

Do you feel that as weird?

[Asker]

Not really tbh.. The only problem is I’ve always seen him as a friend but now that I’m really horny my judgment is clouded and I can’t even tell what I want:(

[beatcoock]

If you don't feel that as weird... It's not weird... If you have feelings for him, Go and tell him

[lestiffyjohnny]

Well maybe he just wants to hook up talk to him about it

[lofii]

Make up your fucking mind

[Snickermarstwix]

Well, now he probably thinks he can fuck you

[leonidas69]

Just fuck him and see how you feel.

[Anonymous]

No such thing as "just friends"