Guy friend grabbed my boob?

[Anonymous]

I have a male friend, we've been friends for about 7 years now. We met because I was dating one of his friends and shortly after we broke up he approached me for a friends with benefits type scenario. I declined and we became good friends. He's never mentioned anything like that since, but recently he has grabbed my boob on two different occasions. Do guys do this to their female friends?

[IwanderIwonder]

This isn't generally normal behaviour. It's not a "guy thing". It comes down to what type of friendship/relationship you have.
In some friendships, it's accepted but that because all/both parties have a mutual understanding. This doesn't seem to be the case here.

Based on what you stated, I wouldn't​ actually say that he's your friend but some guy who wants to shag you.
He tried it the "honest way" you turned him down, so he's attempting the Inside man route.

[YourFutureEx]

Simple answer...

He wants sex.

And no, grabbing boobs is not acceptable in friendship. He's crossing the line.

[Asker]

I've never had this happen before with any of my other male friends so I was wondering that

[YourFutureEx]

Yes, your doubt is reasonable.

[leighbuh1989]

My guy friends grab my boobs all the time. I questioned it at first but now I'm like, whatever. Lol I guess it's a guy thing.

[septemberangel118]

It was most likely a complete accident both times. Or it was him being a typical guy obsessed with tits.

[Asker]

He didn't it on purpose

[septemberangel118]

I doubt it.

[Asker]

I meant he did it on purpose

[septemberangel118]

I still meant it wasn't on purpose.

[Asker]

So I was driving in a car.. he was the passenger and he reaches over and grabs it. We are walking down the sidewalk and he reaches over and grabs it... what his hand "slipped"?

[septemberangel118]

You didn't state it that way. That's just him being a dick. See where phrasing can get you in trouble.

[Linnsenberg]

Drop a hint that you don't feel ok with what he's done

[Asker]

It doesn't bother me really, I just was unsure if it was his way of hitting on me

[Thinkthought]

sometimes, it depends how close and comfortable they are with them.

[TripleAce]

Lol so did you like it?

[aivan]

no they just want to

[cootjuh]

nope