My guy friend put his arm around the back of my chair and then he touched my boob? I told him to stop and slapped him, then he gave me a creepy smile?

[gumballs]

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Who was wrong in this scenario?

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Guys I think it was an accident honestly, but why the creepy smile? He was putting his arm around me but he brushed my boob..

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

Do you like him, cause i think he likes you, Thomas thinks the same. Touching your boob is not right at all, and by the creepy smile he gave you back i think he thinks the slap was a flirty kinda slap, you should stop him from doing that again, make sure he knows he can't be touching you wherever he wants... that was Thomas's imput by the way

[gumballs]

I do like him he's my friends with benefits

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

Oh so then what the question again? Im sure the boob touching was fine with you then no...

[gumballs]

it was totally not! it was creepyyyy

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

He was just flirting i guess... just the creepy smile at the end made the whole thing creepy, remove the creepy smile and maybe it would of looked like playful boob touching in public flirting i guess 😆

[gumballs]

BAHAHAHA question: who's Thomas?

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

You dont know Thomas the train, he's my display picture, great guy

[gumballs]

... oh okay whew I thought it was someone else...

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

You know a Thomas? Lol you were freeking out then i guess

[gumballs]

yes haha. I know two Thomas's actually

[Graydon]

He was probably trying to make a move on you. Was any one else around when it happened?

[gumballs]

Yes it was in class, and he was talking to his friends

[Ccmama]

He was in the wrong. I think that he might have liked you or at least found your attractive, which is why he gave you that creepy smile (cause he enjoyed it). My ex boyfriend once flirted with me (before we dated) by placing his arm around my chair, then my arm.

[SleepyChan]

Run, girl. He was wrong in this scenario because you never consented to let him touch you.

[QueenofCups]

Common sense would tell you to dump this guy as a friend.

[QueenofCups]

He definitely shouldn't have tried to touch your boob in front of your friends.

[gumballs]

true...

[TheDratman]

What kind of touch? Like a poke, or a brush, or like a full-on grab? Or was it simply an accidental touch?

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Your guy friend was wrong for what he did. No guy should touch a girl in a way that makes her uncomfortable.

[jethro86r]

Sounds like him. Women that I have dated do not like being touched like that in public. I think is was rude.

[jethro86r]

You might think it was an accident, but I can't agree with that. I have known individuals like him, fron how you have described.

[hunterzoloman655]

I don't see the question here it's just a statement

[gumballs]

Why did he do it? Does he respect me?

[hunterzoloman655]

Maybe he was trying to flirt with you but it came off not the right way either way you'll never know unless you ask

[gumballs]

true. whenever I try to converse with him he doesn't reply. Only if I'm sending him a message when I'm not being soo needy, ya know? he likes me to lay hard to get a little

[KIIROKI]

Lol creepy smile after he get slapped. Thats weird 😂😂😂

[StevenWonderful]

Well he was but I (benefit of the doubt) was testing boundaries or probably just being cheeky

[Anonymous]

no such thing as "just friends" between the opposite sexes. IT DOESN'T EXIST

[ThomaS147]

Ever heard of the friendzone
Or the "youre like a brother to me"

[Opinion Owner]

NO SUCH THING AS THE FRIEND ZONE. I WILL SAY IT OVER AND OVER UNTIL PEOPLE GET IT. THERE IS NO FRIEND ZONE

[ThomaS147]

My track record says otherwise😅

[Opinion Owner]

too bad

[ThomaS147]

If friendzone wasn't a thing id be drowning in women at this point😂😂 either that or completely alone minus one

[Opinion Owner]

no such thing as the friend zone, people, get it in your head.. go look it up, i promise you, im right

[1truekhaleesi]

Stop being friends with him.

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

Are you the real mother of dragons?

[1truekhaleesi]

@lPuffaPuffaTrain of course. But not the actress

[lPuffaPuffaTrain]

Yeah duh, the actress is just playing the real mother of dragons in the series, which in this case is you. Wow!!!

[dhruv9x]

Shouldn't have touched boobs

[gumballs]

it was only one and true

[dhruv9x]

So what. You should ask for protecting from your boy

[N1ghts]

Him no question

[N1ghts]

Just make sure he knows to save it for the bedroom and show respect

[N1ghts]

Are you sure he wasn't showing off?

[gumballs]

that's true and why would he be showing off? You mean for his friends? I don't know but why would he I'm not his girlfriend

[N1ghts]

Well even bigger reason If your not dating. If he's the kind of person who want to show his friends he's got a girl he can do all this too and not even dating. As I guy I can 100% say for certain that that's a reason why he might if done it cus that impresses us. "Ayyy me and this chick are having sex all the time".. " yeah Mate watch me squeeze her t*t" (forgive my language >\\<) but in my area that's something especially if he just considered you a side girl (fwb).

[gumballs]

so you're saying he's showing off in front of his friends, but do you think he has feelings for me?

[N1ghts]

I think there a slim chance he has feelings for you. It's that weird grin that's difficult to analyse. I'd would say most likely he doesn't But there's a small chance he does. The grin either means hey look what I've done, hey you don't mind cuz I'm having sex with you or hey I kinda like you a little that was kinda awkward.

[gumballs]

okay should I give you more signs?

[N1ghts]

Yeah sure?

[gumballs]

He has a dreamy look in his eyes most times he is around me. He said he sees our relationship turning to "love". He once stood up for me in class..

[N1ghts]

Aww then maybe it's the last option. I think you already know the answer though.^-^

[youngAP]

Definitely he's in the wrong

[Lumberman53]

He was wrong you told him to stop

[ThatGuy73]

Not you

[OlderGuy965]

Lose him.

[Nahid1234]

What a Lad

[SuperEunuch]

Team Four Star

[SuperEunuch]

I mean, if he's your friend with benefits, then shouldn't you expect him to do things like this?

[gumballs]

true...

[Bakkar]

He is