Instant sex talk in private messages?

[AllAboutTheX]

How many male GAGer's have private messaged a female with instant sexual innuendo or talk and assumed it would be a positive thing?

Ex. (Hey sexy, you got snapchat? or Hi, maybe we can swap pics.)

I'm a sexually comfortable female, but you guys have to know that stuff like that just gets you insta-blocked.

Note that you are doing the message equivalent of walking toward us with your hands out grabbing at air and saying ""come here little girl". It isn't going to make us interested in conversation.

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+1 y

I've decided that in some cases I am just going to feed the troll, tow the line and let them dig themselves a ditch to bury themselves in.

[allnite69withme]

Unfortunately, there are many, many girls who have no problem sending their pictures to anyone that asks. These girls are often unaware, or simply ignore) that this sends out a message to the guy that she is ready and available. This often opens them up for rape. You are wise to block these guys. You would be even more wise to NEVER put your naked picture out on the web. It will NEVER go away. If you are sexually comfortable, be comfortable with the guy you are with and let him enjoy you i n the moment. Save yourself the problems associated with being out there for "all to see." Many guys who ask this are either very, very immature, or they think they will simply get lucky with a few girls. Any picture a girl sends to any guy will NEVER be seen by just that guy. within hours, all of his friends will see it.

[Red7336]

MH right here :D

[slackercruster]

I don't shit where I eat. I ask for pix if they are needed for an answer and that is it. I try to be respectful of members. Only little boys and sex addicts write strangers and ask for nude pix. If you gals are being harassed start a list of the guys that are doing it and make them public.

[honestgirl]

wohoo good point def should do that

[Nuns_in_Heat]

This! It would be so funny!

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I agree with this question and some males
on here are behind these so called females GaG accounts
to get males to talk sexual with them i see it all the time
i busted some guy who did it to me but with the username
screaming out @AntiKunt gives me ill feelings whether
this user is really female behind this account well i have
no proof also i can't judge but it's happening all time on
here i believe they need stricter rules for people to show
a State photo Id or show a salute with them holding their
username of their GaG account.

[AllAboutTheX]

@justincaseudontknow I find it funny that if a girl has any real opinions on here, people like you assume instantly that we are boys. Yes there are lots of boys on here pretending to be girls. If you need to know why I picked AntiKunt (which I would love to change) The first question I answered on here was against a feminist which I am against (yes not all females are feminist) so this person was being a typical male hater and I picked that name assuming I wouldn't be on here again and then it kind of became addictive. So I'm sorry if the name I picked that I can't change makes you think I have a penis, you are welcome to your opinion.

[Anno_Domini]

@JustinCaseUDontKnow I know the name might sound off-putting, but @AntiKunt is a great person. She helped me tremendously to get over my insecurities when she first arrived here, and I am eternally grateful to her for that.

[AllAboutTheX]

Thanks @Anno_Domini :) I'm happy that I helped.
(Yes the name is totally of putting but I can't change it.)

[Anno_Domini]

@AntiKunt I think you can change your name once... Ask an admin.

I've been meaning to ask... Do you mind if I repost what you told me about how to blow a woman's mind in bed, with credit given to you? I mean on questions where smaller guys are worried about their size? It was so good that it needs to be shared.

[AllAboutTheX]

Sure, if it worked for you, It will work for others :)

[AllAboutTheX]

I've request a name change... I'm thinking "MissTaken" is it isn't already taken hahaha

[lanternhill]

I don't even have a pic up (coffee lol) and I still get weird/sexual messages.

[PhiOmega]

Mmmm, damn girl! you Columbian? Maybe Arabica?

[lanternhill]

I'm too hot for you lol jk

[Nuns_in_Heat]

I'm an oven mit...

[croxy]

The coffee turns me on... A lot <3

[Red7336]

guuuuuuuuuuuuuuuurl you smoki' ! ... literally

[lanternhill]

Coffee turns my brain on, but not that way... and smokin' coffee hahaha sounds dangerous slash impressive

[misscoffeehead]

Hmm I had some guy say.. "Can I cum to your picture" dude you kidding me 😐😒

[musicbrain5]

I've gotten so many of those messages before. Sigh.

[Prof_Don]

Those guys simply have no game!

There are DEFINITELY girls that are down for sexual play on websites like this.

You just have to be respectful and let the girls know u enjoy them as people with personalities and interests before initiating anything else.

[WhiteSteve]

To rephrase your question, "Am I a pathetic loser?"

No. But thank you for asking👌

[GamerArtNerd]

Though I agree with you, I've actually met plenty of girls who enjoy that. There is nothing wrong with some guilt free sex online. I don't usually do what you quoted but I will kinda ease my way in. I just start off kinda pervy and eventually work my way up if she seems like she's enjoying it. I actually ended up swapping pics and skyping within a couple hours once.

[rUinSAYAN]

why you people make those questions, they won't help. just go private if you can't deal with it.

I just made one online dating account with only one pic of a anime charakter and am getting more and more msgs incoming (girl), you can't stop the 'troll' only feed em.

[AllAboutTheX]

Sorry to tell you but those are bots used to trick you into paid membership.

[rUinSAYAN]

yeah whatever. you also get spammed here so. don't tell me some story

[Zango91]

Oh, You are not alone!! I'm a guy and still I got this

"@Zango91... im AJ! I just joined this site last week... Googling something about women who like fucking with their heels on and I landed here... I read your profile... a self-aware man... i like! Think you can help a horny single girl in her early 30's by going to my questions that I have pics of me and my legs and answer and share your comments there? I sure would appreciate it! "

[Red7336]

happened with me lol and look at my pic lol

another thing i hate about being a woman :\ ... erm... female ostrich

[lumos]

I've lost count on how many guys have tried to start a conversation with me like that on here.

[GoldCobra]

Yeah screw those perverts. Just ignore them. Also, if u want to swap nudes just send me a message ok baby? ;)

[BelleGirl21]

Ha ha ha ha!

[sandra80]

Silly boi!! Lmao!! 😂

[kartoos]

Hahaha that's where they all go wrong.. You need to take it slow and the girl herself will ask for it :D But unfortunately its the other way. Guys just like to rush things :D

[BelleGirl21]

Insta blocked for dure. It must work for them sometimes though!

[BelleGirl21]

*sure
doh!

[centigrade]

I don't, I respect women and know they don't want to hear that crap. It's a sad world :/

[paperfriendd]

Hate it. I'll just assume they are only after one thing.

[Jahnnavi]

I do that instablock thing too. It's just so fucking annoying to deal with some of these guys on here

[koko124]

Men need to stop giving attention to random women, especially on the internet.

[mario1321]

Im so glad im a man and dont have to deal with that nonsense

[Rcjh1987]

Haha be thankful you are

[mario1321]

i am mostly because i can admire beautiful women

[Rcjh1987]

That's true...

[thatsjustme1]

You are not the first. It happens to almost all women here who don't have private profile.

[AllAboutTheX]

Yeah its wicked pathetic though...
I can't imagine throwing darts in the dark over and over and over hoping that eventually I would, after thousands of tries, hit a target.

"Hey beautiful" -- BLOCKED
"Your sexy" -- BLOCKED
"You got snapchat ;)" -- BLOCKED
"Sup hot stuff." -- BLOCKED
...
4 thousand attempts/females later
...
"Can I see pics ;)" --- BLOCKED

I am almost embarrassed for these people, I can't even imagine how they react in the real world.

[honestgirl]

haha well said!

[Crazyced]

I've never really done it and wonder if it ever works for them (probably, it's like spam. Odds are in the numbers).

But that's the point though, for them the internet is most likely not real life, so they have nothing to lose by sending these. Sending messages is not resources intensive at all. They probably get a kick out of it regardless.

[thatsjustme1]

I am guessing it probably works, of course, it does take many attempts.

Same principle as the players in real life, keep on hitting on women until they find the one that says yes. And they find someone most of the times.

[kartoos]

Why would any guy say 'hey beautiful' to a picture of snow white>?:D that's weird1

[douride2]

I used to get a couple a week depending on how much or long I was on. Not as many lately.

[Strider90]

Never done that. I always start a normal conversation. But sometimes we get to that point.

[zombiebabe]

its too common on here... just BLOCK them babe

[PhiOmega]

Babe! you said you wouldn't tell anybody! :P

[GamerArtNerd]

Hmm... you seemed to like it lol

[Jonzor]

What is this scandal @zombiebabe, who is this @PhiOmega and @gamerartnerd, I thought we were exclusive. Uhh. Block!

[PhiOmega]

WHAAATTTTT!!! YOU DARE! @zombiebabe is mines! I challenge you @gamerartnerd and @Jonzor ! to mortal Kombat

[GamerArtNerd]

Lol what do you mean by exclusive, you stopped talking to me.

[GamerArtNerd]

@zombiebabe it's fine though lol I'm so over it.

[zombiebabe]

PhiOmega : LOL:P

[zombiebabe]

@PhiOmega *

[zombiebabe]

@GmerArtNerd :LMAO

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Well it only has to work once.

[VulcanHades]

Those kinds of guys are truly the worse.

[Ihav2fart]

Can't blame the inexperienced guys for trying.

[ihatethiswebsite]

I'm assuming you've got a lot of them lol

[Rcjh1987]

I feel ya girlie

[Red_Arrow]

Oh great. She is upset about the guys coming on to her and you start feeling her. She just can't win. ;-)

[Rcjh1987]

@Red_Arrow haha you've seen enough of my posts you know I don't swing that way

[Red_Arrow]

Kiss kiss ;-)

[Rcjh1987]

@Red_Arrow aww thanks

[SnowHearth]

What can I say?

[djshow]

Lets have sex