How to respectfully sexualize a nice text conversation?

[romanticpepe]

So, I am talking with this girl on Tinder.. Perfect match, lots and lots of things in common. A dream girl.
But I face some hard time making a more serious investment. I never asked for nudes in my life, although my ex girlfriend and one other girl sent me in the past without the need for me to ask.
I don't want to be perverted, but I also want to be able to have a more adult thing with her.

[ChrisMaster69]

Okay rewind from tinder and internet.

you meet a girl in a pub, you have. 3 or four long dates.

do you go ‘ Jane as we have been on 3 dates, do you mind going to toilets or my house and just take some nude selfies, then sit next to me and let me look at them?’

now, what’s the odds she attacks you with a steak knife or similar and simply walks off.

this is a girl you ideally want some form of relation ship, so why the fuck even think of asking for naked pic?

I do with people would think how they behave in real public life.

[romanticpepe]

Ohh thanks for putting these in words. I understand what you are saying!
I feel a little insecure because it seems everyone do that, but I really understood what you said. Thanks!

[JPrez]

You’re gonna have to throw in sexual terms in a non sexual conversation without making it obvious so that her brain catches it. Example, “I just took a hot shower and I’m soaking wet”. Or “Man, certain things are stiff when I wake up in the morning”. Also, throw in phrases after a pause “Geez, you got me thinking things I shouldn’t think”. Stuff like that.

[Gwenhwyfar]

If it’s physically possible for you to meet her, don’t do that. Just go on a normal date and make out with her afterwards.

[Gwenhwyfar]

Everything @Smashingdoozy said is 100% true.

[ChrisMaster69]

Shhh don’t be saying that @Smashingdoozy already has a big (but cute) head

😂😂

[Smashingdoozy]

Too late my ego has inflated 🥴🥴

[ChrisMaster69]

@Smashingdoozy 🪡🪡

[Smashingdoozy]

Lol just don't. Why do guys only think about sex? 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️

[romanticpepe]

Its exactly the opposite. I see this as some flaw in me. Most guys do that, and I will perhaps be less attractive and more friend-tier if I dont. I am not wandering to do it by pleasure (by the way I try to engage in NoFap so it will just be a trophy, I won't do anything if you know what I mean), but by necessity.

[romanticpepe]

So, genuinely speaking, I shoud not?

[Smashingdoozy]

Well good luck ruining your shot with your dream girl. In my experience when im enjoying talking to a guy and he makes it sexual I stop replying.

[romanticpepe]

I will take your comment with me! I will not do. I just want you to understand the fear from my part. So its a bad thing then.

[Smashingdoozy]

Girls don't friend zone guys because they failed to be sexual. They friend zone them because we aren't interested.

[ILikePlants]

Go on a date and actually spend some time with her

[romanticpepe]

Hard to go on a date right now, but I will certainly do