Do men find crying women attractive?

[Red7336]

ok I've been hearing stuff similar to this for a while
that a man finds a woman with tears running down her face attractive
i even saw a question just now, a guy said he found a girl really hot when she was crying
is that true?

is it like seeing vulnerability and openness from the other person to you (the innocence) ? or more of like feeling like you're the stronger more stable one? maybe you just like to see women/ppl miserable? :P

lol what is it about it?

yeeep (why?)

noope (why?)

not a dude/ not sure

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+1 y

guys i dont mean when your SO is crying infront of you
i mean if a female is crying infront of you

visually what do you think/feel?

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+1 y

im not talking about sexual attraction lol

[Vesuvius87]

Not a guy but I think with most men, this would depend on why she's crying. If she's crying for everything and because you accidentally stepped on her toes or didn't buy her lemons, then he would find her very annoying and irritating to be around with. If it's a good reason such as getting fired from a great job for no good reason, sickness or death in the family, or a real undergoing stress situation then I'm sure he would want to give her a hug and make her feel comfortable.

[LastGirlScout]

I'm sure a lot of guys would be a little turned on if they'd made their woman cry, I'm talking about manipulative emotional abusers who'd get a kick out of breaking someone down, but outside of that I've never heard of a guy finding it attractive, most guys just look real awkward and try to find a female to comfort the weeping female.

[Anonymous]

I think it's kinda cute when a boy cries (that's something else than the question i know). It's not that i want to make him cry, but when he does, i guess it means that he's comfortable enough with me to show his feelings. And, i don't know, i just think it's adorable and i don't want anything else than to hug him.

[Red7336]

omg agree 100% !

[Opinion Owner]

That's great! I thought i was the only one :p

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes as male not afraid to show my emotional/ sensitive side
and when someone hurts i feel their pain and i do cry for them
when a girl cries i feel bad for girls i cry females go through lot stuff
they are pressured by males when they want approach them
when it comes to relationships/ friendships i been very emotional
since i was a child , certain music makes me cry, certain objects
make me cry it can seem silly but yes it does happen.

[bokm12bc]

What do you mean - "certain objects"? Like a box (example) or?

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

@bokm12bc When i see a little animal makes me sad,
my friend loss her stuff animal i cried my eyes out than
she found it.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Yes i am serious i got mental issues since a child
i really don't know what causes it , i even had MRI
done on the brain came back good but i am lower
functioning person

[bokm12bc]

I am not saying this in a facetious way but I don't follow. You cried because of a stuffed animal? Again I truly am trying to understand is all. Why?

[Red7336]

you are a sweet dude :) i see your answers around lol

tbh though i thought you were pretending to be nice to get girls but now i know its real ^_^ lol

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

@bokm12bc i don't know what to say wish i had answer :(

[bokm12bc]

It's okay man. I didn't mean to press you, I was just curious is all.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

Thank you :) I been abused in life people can't accept me
i can't do nothing about people who don't like me it happens 0_o

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

@bokm12bc It's all good sir :)

[bokm12bc]

Sorry to hear that man. Do your best to not worry about what others think. Most are uneducated peasants dangling between two realities anyhow. Focus on you. In the end you will be rewarded (I am not speaking religiously) for your sacrifice. Of that I can assure you. My brother would see it differently but, for me, well... I always help guide those to where they need to go such as yourself. You'll get there.

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

@bokm12bc Thank you well appreciated :-)

[JustinCaseUDontKnow]

I feel bad when a woman crys , how can a guy find it hot?
It makes me emotional to see a woman cry !

[genericname85]

it triggers our protective instinkts and can spark feelings where there were none. but girls who cry a lot are annoying.

[Sky93]

^^^^ whatever that emotion is... I'm feeling it too

[genericname85]

I think it's a bit more rare for a guy to cry. Especially of attraktive women are around

[Red7336]

shush...@Sky93 and I both feel that feeling... let us feel that feeling

[genericname85]

No situation is better for a hug :)

[Red7336]

im an ostrich... im too good for you :3

[genericname85]

I meant in general... wasn't going to hug you :P

[Red7336]

pshhhhhhhhhh you know you want some of this

[genericname85]

Hugging ostriches is dangerous xD

[Red7336]

true that xD

[genericname85]

thanks for MH :3

[Red7336]

shuurrz :3

[Mesonfielde]

Ehhh... it is a hassle. It certainly won't make me be MORE attracted to them.

[Khakishro]

That entirely depends on who it is, and how and why they are crying.

If they are a girl I find attractive who I am friendly with who is quietly sobbing, I might feel the need to comfort her. And I guess the idea that I can comfort an attractive would kind of draw me to them.

[VulcanHades]

https://i.imgur.com/Kz0vMbJ.gif

https://i.imgur.com/f3nEexs.gif

Not really lol.

[SatanClaus]

When I see a girl crying something inside me just wants to console her. It doesn't matter that she's crying, I just want to make her feel better.

[LovesTVDx]

Awww :'3

[SatanClaus]

@LovesTVDx ;P

[Red7336]

D'aaaaaaaaaaaawwwwwwwwwwww

guys can be so cute sometiems :D xD :')

[specialdiamond]

Aww haha how sweet are you!!

[SatanClaus]

@Asker they can be
@specialdiamond *blushes*.. haha

[Jordahn]

God! I hate it! My ex-girlfriend was an emotional wreck and was constantly crying, and I was so happy when we finally broke up.

[Red7336]

no i mean if a woman is crying infront of you, doesn't have to be your SO

visually what do you think?

[CuddlesWillDie]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=52rSWTs3zGk

lolololol

[WesTheGuru]

um... I've never been attracted to a crying girl. Generally it does the opposite of attract me. I try pretty hard to stay away from situations where a girl would be crying

[dthdhdghadh]

Under certain circumstances, particularly, crying from overwhelming joy.
I may want to cheer her up but if you're talking about sexual attraction, hell no.

[AJElectric]

Yes but i only look. Tried that approach and comfort thing before and i will never make that mistake again.

[Red7336]

elaborate?

[AJElectric]

Do you want me to elaborate? And what on?

[Red7336]

yea, what do you mean comforting her was a mistake? lol

[AJElectric]

Oh, most girls don't want to be comforted when their upset. Some will just go crazy on you. So i learned early on, stay away from hurt animals.

[Red7336]

well thats not very nice...

and actually i think majority wants to be held (unless you are the reason she is crying) even if she pushes you away at first

[AJElectric]

Well i only need to be scratched once to not do it again. I think most guys with experience would agree.

[CommieKiller]

Well first of all, I find it less attractive. Secondly, when I see a crying girl I automatically think either manipulative bitch using crocodile tears or emotionally overbearing girl with princess syndrome. I grew up mostly around women, and I've seen a lot of women cry to guilt-trip people or get attention for no good reason. I find a girl much more attractive if she smiles. A happy girl will make you happy, a crying girl will make you cry.

[Red7336]

really? so no woman cries because she is stressed, overwhelmed or sad or w/e?
just because women around you did that doesn't mean all girls do it

i personally never cry infront of anyone, i only broke down like once or twice

[CommieKiller]

Well most of the time when men cry we do that by ourselves. Women seem to think they have to project their sadness onto everyone around them and try to demonize someone. If a guy cheats on a girl, she can't cry about it at home and get it out of her system, but at school or work she's basically a waterfall. I've seen it happen so many times. Yet if a girl cheats on a guy and we even complain about it, we're basically lynched by you women for slut-shaming her, and even blamed for causing her to cheat.

[Red7336]

you seem to have met many bad women...

[CommieKiller]

Well I assure you, I did not show up on my first day of Kindergarten and say, "Hey I wanna hang around with some bad bitches!"

[JackKerouac77]

Crying is attractive emotionally, but it doesn't attract me or turn me on.

If anything, it turns me off hardcore. Crying is 99% a symptom that something is wrong, so I feel bad.

[ThatGuy98]

Not necessarily attractive but it makes us feel like we have to protect/calm the girl. Something that is programmed in us I guess :P

[Red7336]

that is just awesome ! lol feels very manly for some reason xD

but looks like not all guys agree hehe

[ThatGuy98]

Well we're all different I guess. And yeah I feel like it's manly as well ^^

[LovesTVDx]

There ain't anything attractive about crying when I do it haha. I literally look like Shrek...

[Red7336]

hehehe same here xD

[SatanClaus]

you mean this one img3.wikia.nocookie.net/.../PrincessFiona.jpg

[LovesTVDx]

@SatanClaus nooooo! Hahaha :P I go full on hideous green ogre shrek! D:

[SatanClaus]

yea yea yea your such a liar. you look like fiona tbh

[LovesTVDx]

@SatanClaus haha thanks :D but I'm being deadly serious lol :L

[SatanClaus]

whatever you say.. haha;P

[rUinSAYAN]

depends on the girl. to some I had laughter to see them cry and to others I just felt the need to do something to help em. (but den a bunch wild guys appeared and did my job)

[Shut_Up_And_Marry_Me]

Ya. Along with a pouty, frowny face lol. But not to the point of like snot running all over your face. No.

[Red7336]

what is it about this that you like?

[Shut_Up_And_Marry_Me]

It's an excuse to hug and kiss and bang :)

[Red7336]

-_- (filler)

[Maazin]

Don't cry unless its your wedding and leaving your parents :D
Women crying sends shivers down my spine actually !!

[Red7336]

really? haha interesting and sweet :P lol

[J1nnishere]

How's that attractive or unattractive? It's neither. Hot girl cries she's still ho ugly still uglyt.

[Rogue2]

Not necessarily attractive but it shows she's human and she's vulnerable with a soft side. That doesn't bother me.

[girl111m]

well I find attractive when a guy shows his feelings.

[Boytits]

Yes! My boyfriend says it is attractive, and I quote, "when I see you crying it's like 'awww, I've got something that could cheer her up". I am baffled but he thinks I'm hot when I cry... Lol!

[KhrushBrownies]

No I find it heartbreaking.

[Red7336]

awwwh :')

[Anonymous]

I can't cry in front of close friends or family so I doubt I'll ever have that problem

[Anonymous]

We find it attractive like a train wreck. We feel bad for her, we want to help, but attractive? Nope.

[1242000552]

I find woman crying beautiful because it shows her bravery to cry in public and it really is just natural

[kep79]

i don't like to see a woman hurt, that shouldn't attract a guy

[rthomas43]

Only during sex.

#FlameOn

[Modernhippy]

I get more of a run away kinda feeling

[MaxVolume]

Not at all. If anything its aggravating

[Jager66]

A crying woman is a woman I want to avoid.

[Anonymous]

I hate that: it comes over as emotional blackmail.

[Red7336]

no i mean if a woman is crying infront of you, doesn't have to be your SO

visually what do you think?

[dev765]

Nope I don't want any weakness.

[glane]

i go and ask them whats wfong and comfort them

[BoudyRizk]

NOOO!!! HELL NOOO!!!

[Red7336]

you dont even feel for her just a wittle? :3
dont guys like vulnerability in girls?

[BoudyRizk]

I don't
Crying babies are a huge turn-off, at least for me

[elman123]

noo i dont think so

[Anonymous]

This is dumb.

[Red7336]

then why bother answer such questions of inferior beings your majesty?