Do men find it unattractive when women cry?

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SotiCoto · Accepted Answer

"Unattractive" isn't really the right word. Crying means trouble. See, normally a guy's instinct would be to find the source of the problem and fix it... but ladies don't generally want solutions. Apparently they want their feelings validated or something, but I never figured out what the hell that was supposed to mean... So if she starts crying, best to just accept that it will be followed up with her getting pissed off and try to streamline the process.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

Guys will generally not look down on women when they cry, unless they are using their crying to manipulate him. If it's an expression of true emotions, guys will generally be drawn in to offer comfort.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Over something bad happening that can't be helped or is exausting, confusing, painful, or difficult, no, thats fine.

But If she cries over nonsense reasons to cause drama then thats too stressful to put up with.

DannyUk2017 · Answer

If it is a motive behind the sadness, then No, ofcourse not. If its a silly reason like she doesn't like her clothing, or the makeup doesn't come out right, then Yes! 🤷‍♂️😂

Lionman95 · Answer

No some guys just get uncomfortable because they don´t know why she cries (in terms of did he something wrong?) or because they don´t know what to do.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's not arousing, but I don't think women become less attractive if they cry.

Nifrayu · Answer

Well..., crying is distressful. So it's not attractive, but you really shouldn't be worried about how attractive you are when you are crying.

jahaims · Answer

Depends on the context. Crying at something reasonable is fine. Crying at unreasonable times would be annoying. The annoyance would be unattractive not crying in of itself.

Billlewis · Answer

No, but I find it attractive when they make me cry;)

Anonymous · Answer

I actually find it attractive. Emotional inclination is one of the things I love about (the average) woman.

Anonymous · Answer

Only for serious just reasons, when she being a cry baby, its her emotional iq of a toddler having tantrums, no one likes toddler iq in any human.. 🤮

exitseven · Answer

Nope unless it is for something stupid like she broke a nail.

Andres77 · Answer

its usually a preamble to some major manipulative bs.

Jdodkfndosn · Answer

Not unattractive but highly annoying and manipulative most of the times.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Crying for something serious then no at least for me. Crying over stupid and petty ish then yes I do. It's annoying.

YAsQuen · Answer

unnatractive as in its a boner killer for sure. unnatractive as in i think less of her now for ever (like women do) no

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

No, it's just expected.

nonyabeez-wax · Answer

Depends on the reason for the tears really.

Lokiion · Answer

It depends on the situation

MissBoogus · Answer

His dick went limp when I was crying

OddBeMe · Answer

As a robotic no emotive beast, no.

In_Trance · Answer

That depends on what they're crying about

BLP11520 · Answer

No I don’t no reason to

Slim57 · Answer

Only when they fake it

krin_m · Answer

Not really.

John_Cobretti · Answer

Hell No!

Jmmmfi4 · Answer

ITS EXPECTED

eagle1951 · Answer

nope

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